10 Secrets to Incredible Relationships

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10 Secrets to Incredible Relationships

• Incredible Relationships can happen to all with
  just a little extra effort!

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• I am Swetha from Arman Sadeghis Titanium Success
  team and am very excited to have got this
  opportunity to write here on Armans blog.
• I was reading an article today on how a couple
  had spent 74 years married without having a
  single argument. It totally amazed me and Im
  sure many of us would want to know how they
  happened to do this. Its very simple. They say,
  Stick it out, listen to one another. Hes mine
  and Im his, and thats how we look at it. We
  talk things over. Now that is what I call a
  lifetime of learning in a nutshell!
• Well, the whole idea behind todays blog is to
  see how we can have the most incredible
  relationships by looking at ten simple but very
  important secrets and how to apply them.

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Caution These techniques will succeed only if
you actually want to put your wholehearted
commitment into the relationship that you so much
care about.So, lets begin 1. The first and
foremost on the list is LOVE THYSELF. Arman
believes that unless you love yourself
completely, theres no way you can give that love
to someone else. I think thats so completely
true. The biggest mistake that most people make
when they are in a long term relationship is that
they forget to love themselves and be who they
are. Instead they start trying to please others
and become someone they never wanted to be.
Following your other passions and relationships
isnt betraying your lover its making you a
more well-rounded, fascinating and happier
person. Yes, it is important to keep the
partners likes and dislikes in mind and be
considerate. But its not fair to completely
forget the YOU that was the fundamental reason
behind the existence of the relationship in the
first place.
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• 2. The other gem in the list is ENJOY EACH OTHER.
  Successful couples love spending time with each
  other doing things that they like. Numerous
  examples could include walking together, reading
  together, watching TV together, exercising,
  playing, just being comfortably silent around
  each other you name and they do it together.
  That is what binds them and makes the
  relationship that much more special.

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• 3. FIGHT SMART. Yes, you read it right!
  Successful couples fight. They too have
  disagreements but what they do right is that they
  NEVER BELITTLE EACH OTHER BUT INSTEAD, REPLACE
  EVERY I, ME, AND MINE WITH WE, US, AND OURS. It
  is impossible to bring two adults together and
  not have a single disagreement. However, it is up
  to us how we approach a disagreement and how we
  resolve our fights. Its perfectly fine to agree
  to disagree. Respect each others opinion and I
  assure that the fight will not make your
  relationship weak. Instead, it will strengthen it.

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• 4. STOP CONTROLLING, COMPARING, CRITICIZING, OR
  HAVING UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. Nothing kills a
  relationship like these do. One needs to give
  space to the other person in a relationship for
  them to want to be in a relationship with you.
  The more you try cornering or holding someone in
  an iron grip, the more that person might move
  away from you. Learn that not all expectations in
  life are converted to realities and its okay to
  dream. But one must be practical enough to ACCEPT
  THE REALITY. Empathize with them and do what you
  would like them to do to you if you were in their
  shoes.

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• 5. LIVE IN THE MOMENT. Before the supporters of
  Preparing for the Future team start arguing
  with me, this is not about what you think it is.
  The idea here is that one should be grateful
  about being together and try to enjoy the moment
  instead of bringing past disappointments or
  grudges (not that holding grudges in a
  relationship ever works though) or work-pressure
  or the struggles of running a family into the
  moment and ruining it. Stresses in life are a
  part and parcel of it and we will deal with those
  anyway, so we should instead focus on making the
  small moments of spending time together into
  memories of happiness and bliss. That will ensure
  the relation stays well-oiled and running
  smoothly over the long haul.

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• 6. The other amazing secret that long-haulers
  have shared is NEVER STOP DATING YOUR INTIMATE
  PARTNER. Taking out time for each other on a
  regular basis is the key behind keeping the
  relationship fresh and exciting. I have noticed
  over time that couples tend to take each other
  for granted. Little do they realize that small
  things can make life much more interesting and
  stimulating! One common element in many
  successful marriages or relationships was their
  ability to keep the romance going. Some set aside
  one evening a week for a date and others planned
  romantic getaways periodically, while different
  couples met most afternoons for conversation at a
  coffee or tea shop or went for a stroll together
  every evening. Small gifts once in a while dont
  hurt either!

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• 7. Successful couples BRING EACH OTHER JOY. Its
  all about giving your better half reasons to be
  happy about and feel blissful to have you in
  his/her life. In a beautiful article that I read
  recently, the author tells about Ken Druck, Ph.D,
  who gave a workshop to his wife as a birthday
  gift. She had a beautiful voice that she rarely
  used. What better gift than to unleash the joy
  she already possessed. In the workshop,
  participants of every age and background were
  encouraged to vanquish the wagging finger of
  self-condemnation and sing their hearts out. The
  high point of the workshop was a live concert for
  family and friends. He says, With the exception
  of our childrens births, I can never recall my
  wife as having been so joyful and happy. Thats
  such a beautiful gesture! A relationship need not
  always be about getting sometimes giving is even
  more rewarding.

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8. And, yes, KEEPING THE INTIMACY INTACT. It
doesnt necessarily mean you go and hit the sack
at the first available opportunity. Instead,
small gestures like hugging, kissing, snuggling,
holding hands, flirting, etc. can go a very long
way in making the love of your life feel extra
special and desirable.
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• 9. BE HONEST. No one in history ever came across
  a successful relationship not based on honesty.
  If theres something that you enjoy/dislike,
  whether it be in or out of the bedroom, share it
  with your partner. You will be glad to see how he
  or she appreciates your frankness. Lies and false
  behavior will not take a relationship anywhere.

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• 10. Last but not the least, SMILE AND LAUGH MORE
  OFTEN. This advice is applicable not just to your
  relationship, but everywhere. Individuals want to
  be surrounded by happy people. It not only will
  boost your mood and elevate your sense of
  happiness, but also impart the same sense to your
  relationship and make it that much more fun.You
  might also want to check out Armans 30-second
  video on Secret to Incredible Relationships
  (which in my opinion is simply awesome).Follow
  these secrets and I can assure you, you will love
  every moment of your incredible relationship!
• Cheers, Swetha

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