CIVIL IDENTITY - WHO ARE YOU?

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Just What Does the Term EQUALLYOKED - Mean?
Equally
Yoked
Equally Yoked?
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Hook Up

• Cultural/Casual
• A specific time when two people meet to join in
  together-for a mutual event, or if,
• two individuals from diverse backgrounds form a
  cheap/easy intimate relationship, or if...
• an epiphany moment - a time - when a certain
  couple are shaking hands and realize/discover
  together that they are equallyoked.

- Slang Dictionary/Urban Words
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Endogamy

• Endogamy means, In-marriage and is when an
  individual according to his/or her own social
  customs
• (comment this may be more like a community
  health principle, such as, a social mores or even
  an actual religious law).
• .marries an another individual1 within his or
  her own cultural Social group.
• Note a Social group may be a village, a
  tribe, a sect or cult,2 a geographic region, or a
  de facto Civil identity, etc.

- Sociocultural Anthropology
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Who are You?
Sex
or
Gender
and
Personality
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Social Identity

• A persons sense of belongingness to a collective
  of identified important identified social groups
  such as
• Citizenship a Nation
• Property Deeds and co-ownership in Real estate
• e.g., vacation homes, office buildings, land, and
  may include motor homes, RVs, cars, boats,
  planes, etc.
• Profession in a trade, vocation, skill, craft
  boards or union organizations, an actual member
  of, etc
• Education Credentials, degrees, diplomas,
  certifications, Grad-documentation of schools
  successfully attended.
• Religious or Political Affiliations Title in
  religious organizations or Card carrying
  political party memberships.
• Socio-economic class Amount of money in bank, in
  stocks and bonds investments, in bank notes and
  certificates.1,2,3

- Social Psychology
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Equally Yoked

• The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked)
• an adverb
• Equally - means alike 1, in a balanced
  manner, the same or to the same degree of,
  etc
• a verb
• Yoked - means (Latin jungere 'to join) 2,
  something fastened around the neck to join
  together, burdened with.
• in history
• May have evolved from synonyms, with meanings,
  such as Equitably, Fairly, Justly3
• Sentence They were an equally yoked couple
  from families of just ordinary means.

- Word Meanings Etymology
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Equally Yoked

• The term Equally yoked (also, equallyoked)
  probable came about from the Holy Bible wherein
  Jews marrying Jews, Muslims marrying Muslims,
  Christians marrying Christians, etc, etc, etc.1
• - It is more than that - it is a social phenomena
  that exists in all multicultural societies, i.e.,
  peoples of the same de facto civil identity'
  bonding and marrying one another.2
• - The best reasons3 for equally yoked marriages
  are
• self- esteem, religious beliefs, and
  preserving the integrity of the family identity,
  abiding in good social mores and community
  (psychosocial) health.

- Word Origins/Philosophy, and Sociology 101
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Civil Identity
- Ethnicity - Religion - Race -
Color - Age - Gender -Sex - Marital
Status
- Ethnicity - Religion -
Race - Color - Age -
Gender - Sex - Marital Status
personality
personality
de facto (in fact, in reality)
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Civil Identities
Examples

• - Ethnicity Asian
• - Religion Christian
• - Race Oriental
• - Color Yellowish Complexion
• - Age 21
• - Gender Male
• - Sexual orientation Heterosexual
• - Marital Status Single

- Ethnicity Asian-American - Religion
Christian - Race Oriental - Color Yellow
Complexion - Age 18 - Gender Female - Sexual
orientation Heterosexual - Marital Status Single
1, 2
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
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Social Mores

• The term Social Mores refers to.
• Social meaning - to associate in a social way,
  i.e., folkways, socializing, socialization 1,
• Mores - concerns that of moral codes, mental
  health values, standards, spiritual ideologies 2.
  
• Also, customs, proper conduct/etiquette, health
  behaviours/norms, healthy lifestyle. 3
• Use in a Sentence Their family abided in good
  social mores that reflected their sense of
  integrity. 4

adjective
plural noun
- Word Meanings Etymology
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Sexual Orientation

• Biological orientation The natural innate
  neuroendocrino-physiologic-programming of the
  hetero-sexual genders.1
• Psychological preconditioning Any
  mental/emotional sexual orientated event, e.g.,
  engrained memory of a sexual encounter in
  childhood sex in an observed media event an
  actual witnessed live account of sex2 a sexual
  violation of social mores or a fanaticized
  mental picture of healthy sex (a sexual
  encounter for only pure pleasure). 3
• Social conditioning Any familial or other social
  sexual experience, e.g. friendships in school,
  neighborhood, church, out in the community-that
  physically effected and/or mentally affected
  psychological preconditioning.4
• Sexual preference a complex sexual orientation
  comprising of biological, psychological, and
  proper social patterns as the predilection for
  personal sexuality.1,2,3,4

- Concepts in Psychotherapy 400/ Intro to
Physiological Psychology/ Biology 101
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Bonding

• v. is a biopsychosociocultural process of forming
  interpersonal attachments between a couple. Its
  proper activation and development is based on
  quality social mores.
• 1. A sharing (mutual participation in) of an
  event that ties an equallyoked couple together
  as in such, it fostering a more meaningful
  interpersonal relationship.
• 2. It is as coupling up - with an SoP
  (Significant other Persons) for a closer
  relationship neurochemical engraining into the
  memory banks the face of the SoP.
• 3. Similar to the true bonding between mother and
  child, trust and security develops within an
  equally yoked relationship-which further
  strengthens the ties, e.g., equallyoked couple
  family members, friends, and other trusted
  circles.

- Neuropsychology Bonding Social Mores
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Equallyokedtarians
Any couple who are equally yoked

• Pronounciation Eek quel ee yoakd tar ee ins
  1.
• Definition - are any individuals who by choice,
  i.e., purposefully choose to bond with and marry
  another of the same (or nearly the same) Civil
  identity, within any multicultural society are
  Equallyokedtarians-couples equallyoked.2
• Recall a Civil identity - describes a
  collective of features about a persons present
  ethnicity, political party affiliation, race and
  color complexion, religious membership,
  disability/ handicap, age group/generation,
  proper sexual orientation, and marital status.3

- Intro. to Social Psychology
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Coupling up.
in a hook up culture

• Nonequallyoked
• - Couples who do recognize equallyokedtarianism
  as a social mores and yet for their own ulterior
  motives still choose to violate social mores as a
  rash option.1
• Unequallyoked
• - Couples who are naïve, thus inadvertently
  demonstrate opposition to equallyokedtarianism-a
  social mores.2
• Anti-equallyoked
• Couples who are a bit mentally/emotionally
  disturbed and are deliberately active against
  proper socialization, contrary to
  equallyokedtarianism and social mores,3

- Intro. to Social Psychology
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..a Social Phenomena..

• A couple (usually a heterosexual dyadic) who are
  of very similar or the same civil identity. 1
• Any couples who are bonded together and who are
  of the same or very similar civil
  identities2
• A marital couple who marries 3- with their
  backgrounds related to their civil identities.

Sociology 101Social Phenomenology
- Intro. to Marriage, Family, Child Psychology
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Dyadic-Social Psychology

• Equallyokedtarians are of interest to
  psychologists because they represent a dyadic
  group of the same civil identity 1
• - Couples who primarily choose to bond and
  marry together because they are the same or
  very similar civil identities among other
  reasons-may contribute to marital longevity
  -staying together for a lifetime if evidenced.2
• - The measured self esteem of individuals of
  a marital couple who marries with backgrounds
  related to their civil identities are worthy
  marital satisfaction studies.3

- Marriage, Family, Child Psychology
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Un-equally Yoked

• Inequitable -
• - Unjust, an injustice.
• Iniquitous -
• - Unrighteous, a sin.
• Inequality -
• - Unfair, imbalanced.1

Intellectually socially
Existentially morally
Emotionally constitutionally
II Corinthinans 614-18
- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies
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Soul-mates

• A couple who experience their very first sexual
  encounter together and their baby is born out of
  that union are Soul-mates1 for life and if,..
• ..a couple who bond with each other, falls
  deeply in love and is the happiest they have ever
  been with each other are Soul-mates2 and if,
• ..a couple who are married and truly
  equallyoked are Soul-mates., i.e., of the
  same or very similar civil-identities. 3

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
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Life Partner

• A Life Partner refers to a lifetime, romantic
  and very close mate. A couple who are truly
  life partners are equallyoked.1
• - It is true that life partners usually develop
  strong platonic relationships as a mutual serious
  long term goal together.2
• - Life partners may based their relationship on
  moral/or immoral grounds whether married/
  monogamously or can be individuals such as
  divorcees/celibate.3

- Intro. to Social Psychology
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Equally-yoked Principles

• On the Same Page Love Mapping.
• Nurturing fondness and admiration.
• Face-to-face in total sincerity.
• Sharing in each others personal power.
• Co-solving solvable-problems, and....
  overcoming any gridlock/barriers.
• Creating communication with shared meanings as
  valuable moments.

- Marriage Family Therapy
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..a Public Health Issue

• As a Public Health Issue, Equallyokedtarianism as
  a social mores is a phenomena observed amongst
  the most conservative segments of a
  multi-cultural society.1
• - Marriage Family and Child Psychology addresses
  the Self-esteem of the individuals who are (or
  arent) equallyoked as an important issue in
  mental health/ emotional health/ and naturally,
  self-preservation, as well as of the integrity of
  their family identity.2
• - As a Civil Rights issue, justice of the
  peaces-as civil servants who perform marriage
  ceremonies attaching a signature may be held
  responsible as attesting to the competence (or
  incompetence, e.g., drugs abuse) of the
  individuals present while performing marriages
  considering community (psychosocial) health
  matters.3

- Introduction to Public Health
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