Important Topics To Discuss Before Marriage For A Happy Married Life!

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Important Topics To Discuss Before Marriage For A
Happy Married Life! Everything seems like a
fairytale and you completely forget all the hard
realities of the world when you fall in love and
when youre in love, you take the immediate
decision of getting married without even thinking
what life would be after marriage. Life
completely takes a U- turn post marriage with all
the responsibilities, bills and societal pressure
making it difficult to cope up with your spouse
often resulting in separation.
Hence, it has become very essential for the
engaged couples to take a premarital counselling
and discuss some crucial topics before the
wedding. No matter, if its a love marriage or an
arranged one for you, here is a list of 7
important things that you should discuss with
your partner before the wedding. Religion
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Having similar faith or religion is a thing of
past but, it is still one of the most important
thing to consider before marriage. With an
upfront discussion over religion, you would be
able to understand each others expectation and
belief to avoid any fuss later on. Make sure that
you both are on the same page and are ready to
respect each others view and faith. Financial
liabilities
Money indeed matters the most in this world and
its good to have conservation about this before
marriage. What are your current debts and
mortgages and how you are supposed to pay it off
is something that your partner needs to know for
sure. Along with this, both the partners should
be aware of the current financial assets that
they hold. Household chores
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Gone are the days when only women used to perform
all the household chores. After all, there are
dishes, laundry, cleaning, pets and various other
stuffs that need to be done to maintain a healthy
home. Moreover, both the partners in current
scenario are working that thing grosser. Discuss
it beforehand that who will do what in order to
find a best negotiable situation for both of
you. Having Children and raising them
It might seem awkward for some shy couples to
discuss this thing but, trust us you really have
to discuss this thing. Check with your partner,
if he/she even wants to have kids or not. If yes,
how much time are they seeking to have the kids?
Along with this, you also need to discuss things
around raising them.
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Dream home
Discuss whether you already own a home or not?
Also discuss if you are planning to buy a home
recently or not? Along with this, you should also
discuss your idea about the dream home. With the
help of this discussion, your better half would
be able to understand your expectations and vice
versa. In near future, if you are able to plan a
dream home, you guys would be able to come to a
common ground. Career plans
Some people only work to live and thats
something to worry about. Such people often leave
their jobs when they know that there is someone
to earn for them. It is always advisable to
discuss the career plans with your partner before
getting hitched. Along with this, you should
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also discuss stuffs like transfer, promotions and
personal sacrifices that you could be asked to
make in order to help the other person in terms
of their career. Family and friends
You know how the people around you are. If yes,
you definitely want to discuss this with your
partner. You should tell everything about your
friends and family to your would be partner to
assure that they know them equally. Along with
this, discuss all the family liabilities that you
hold and the responsibilities that you are ready
to take for your family.
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