NANC Counseling Class

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NANC Counseling Class

• Lesson 6 Key Elements - continued

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V. Key Elements - Review

• Gather information
• Discern the problem
• Build a relationship

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D. Give Hope

• People need hope
• People in general (2 Cor. 48, 1 Pet. 13-7)
• Specific people
• People who have had problems for a long time
• People with serious and difficult problems
• People with life-shattering experiences
• People who have failed
• People who are spiritually weak
• People with marriage difficulties
• People who are depressed
• People who are suicidal

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D. Give Hope

• True hope vs. Empty hope
• Empty hope is based on
• Wrong goals
• Denial of reality
• Mystical or wrong thinking
• Bad theology

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D. Give Hope

• True hope
• Is the result of salvation (1 Pet. 13, Col.
  14-5, 25-27, 1 Tim. 11)
• Is based upon Scripture (Ps. 11949, 1305)
• Is realistic (Rom. 828)
• Is a choice (1 Pet. 113)
• Is based on what we know (Rom. 52-23, James
  12-3)

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D. Give Hope

• How to inspire hope
• Help the person grow in their relationship with
  Christ
• Teach the person to think biblically
• About the situation
• About Gods character
• About the possibility for good
• About their divine resources in Christ
• About the nature and cause of the problem
• About their language

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D. Give Hope

1. Be solution-oriented
2. Be an example to them

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E. Provide Instruction

• Two extremes to avoid in counseling
• Counseling is all instruction
• Counseling is little to no instruction
• For unbelievers
• Help them understand themselves
• Help them understand their inability
• Help them understand the problem biblically
• Help them understand the solution

This section is adapted from MacArthur Mack,
Introduction to Biblical Counseling, pp. 250ff
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E. Provide Instruction

• The nature of biblical instruction
• Instruction must be biblical (2 Tim. 316-17, Ps.
  197-11)
• Instruction must be accurate
• Understand important biblical words
• Determine the meaning of a verse within its
  context
• Interpret Scripture in harmony with the rest of
  Scripture

This section is adapted from MacArthur Mack,
Introduction to Biblical Counseling, pp. 250ff
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E. Provide Instruction

• Keep instruction focused on Christ and the gospel
• Instruct with the goals of application and life
  change
• Emphasize both put off and put on aspects
• Distinguish between biblical principles and human
  wisdom
• Instruction should be biblically appropriate
• Content (appropriate to problem, emotional state,
  maturity, and receptivity)
• Method (lecture, observation, experience,
  research, discussion, questions, reading,
  evaluation, self-disclosure, illustration,
  role-playing, interviews)
• Timing (Eph. 429, John 1612)

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E. Provide Instruction

• Develop biblical instruction
• Build a topical notebook
• Produce a personalized chain-reference Bible
• Invest in good books, audio messages, and other
  resources
• Journal of Biblical Counseling (www.ccef.org)
• Sound Word (www.soundword.org)
• Grace Bible Church library
• Grace Bible Church book cart

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F. Assign Homework

• Reasons for homework
• It translates principles into action (James 122)
• It puts responsibility for change on the
  counselee
• It helps lessen dependence upon the counselor
• It continues counseling between sessions
• Provides data for future counseling
• It aids in showing who is serious about changing,
  and who is not
• Daily practice is what produces growth and change
  (Eph. 422-24)

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F. Assign Homework

• Keys to effective homework
• Be specific. People do not change in fuzzyland
  Randy Patten
• Address both knowledge and action
• Assignments should be appropriate to the problem
• Be sure to review homework during the next session

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F. Assign Homework

• Essential areas of homework
• Daily Scripture reading
• Scripture memory
• Theological reading
• Regular church attendance and involvement
• Consistent prayer
• Emphasis on doing

Developed by Randy Patten, Homework that Changes
Lives (NANC Conference lecture)
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F. Assign Homework

• Examples of homework assignments
• Read pamphlet and mark 10 key sentences that were
  meaningful
• Keep a journal of conflicts. Make note of the
  occasion, action, and resolution (if any)
• Monitor your spending for the next month. Create
  a budget based on your financial needs
• Make a list of 10 specific ways you can show your
  wife/husband that your love her/him
• Memorize Ephesians 64. Write down 10 ways that
  you provoke your children to anger

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F. Assign Homework

• Sources for homework
• CCEF booklets
• Jay Adams pamphlets and booklets
• Wayne Macks Homework Manuals
• NANC resources
• Book study guides
• Your own study guides

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Homework

• Read chapters 11 14
• Memorize Proverbs 1813
• Catch up with reading (if applicable)
• If you have not already done so, identify and
  purchase your second book
• Begin to apply what youre learning to yourself