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Title: BoyGirl Relationship BGR


1
Boy-Girl Relationship (BGR)
  • Cantonese Youth Fellowship
  • 25/11/2006
  • Speakers Terry and Rebecca Ng

2
BOY GIRLS RELATIONALSHIP
  • Today people say I feel like love then they
    start a relationship or
  • I dont feel like love then end the
    relationship.
  • Is LOVE really just a feeling? If not, what
    really is Love? Why does everyone try so hard to
    find their love? What do we really want???????

3
Feeling Love???
  • Song/movie sharing

4
  • Love, Love, Love

Why does everyone need to love and be loved?
5
What made us who we are? vs. What
do we need?
  • Physical Body (drink, food, oxygen, warmth,
    comfort, rest, activity, sex)
  • Mental Mind (knowing, learning, willing,
    meaning, understanding)
  • Emotional Heart (love, affection, trust,
    acceptance, respect)
  • Spiritual Soul (relationship with God, meaning
    of life)

6
  • Need a perfect balance
  • Ultimate fulfillment gt God intended for us to
    have gt we have to attend to each of the above
    according to Gods perfect plan (righteously)
  • Men women, even every individuals physical,
    mental, emotional, and spiritual needs may vary

7
Who made us who we are why?
  • God gave us a role and purpose in life
  • Gen 127-28 So God created human beings,
    making them to be like himself. He created them
    male and female, blessed them, and said,
  • "Have many children, so that your
    descendants will live all over the earth and
    bring it under their control. I am putting you
  • in charge of the fish, the birds, and all
    the wild animals.

8
Relationship between Man Woman at the very
beginning
  • Gen 220-25 So the man named all the birds
    and all the animals but not one of them was a
    suitable companion to help him.
  • Then the LORD God made the man fall into a
    deep sleep, and while he was sleeping, he took
    out one of the man's ribs and closed up the
    flesh. He formed a woman out of the rib and
    brought her to him. Then the man said, "At last,
    here is one of my own kind---
  • Bone taken from my bone, and flesh from my
    flesh. Woman' is her name because she was taken
    out of man.
  • That is why a man leaves his father and
    mother and is united with his wife, and they
    become one. The man and the woman were both
    naked, but they were not embarrassed.

9
  • Whats good?

10
Intimate Relationship What are we LOOKING FOR?
  • Men Affirmation, Being compliant, Action, Trust,
    Acceptance, Respect
  • Women Giving Love, Affection, communication,
    caring, Being understanding, Respect

11
Where should we POSITION ourselves?
  • For Single men women look to God to satisfy
    these needs until one has a husband/wife to make
    these connections with.
  • prepare to LOVE
  • self control
  • save his/her body, mind, heart and spirit for the
    man/woman he/she marries.
  • Guard yourselves as well as others

12
The Weakness link
  • 1. Legalism vs. LOVE
  • 2. Fantasising
  • 3. Messiah Complex (being saviour)
  • 3. Lack of commitment
  • 4. Worldly influence
  • 5. It is none of your business!!!
  • Its OK! Its fine! Whats the big deal?!
  • Thats one off

13
What about true Love?
  • 1Co 131-3 I may be able to speak the
    languages of human beings and even of angels, but
    if I have no love, my speech is no more than a
    noisy gong or a clanging bell. I may have the
    gift of inspired preaching I may have all
    knowledge and understand all secrets I may have
    all the faith needed to move mountains---but if I
    have no love, I am nothing. I may give away
    everything I have, and even give up my body to be
    burned ---but if I have no love, this does me no
    good.
    GNB
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14
What about true Love?
  • 1Co 134-8 Love is patient and kind it is not
    jealous or conceited or proud love is not
    ill-mannered or selfish or irritable love does
    not keep a record of wrongs love is not happy
    with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love
    never gives up and its faith, hope, and patience
    never fail. Love is eternal! GNB
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15
GOOD FOR YOU
  • I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris
  • Boy Meets Girl by Joshua Harris
  • Every Young Mans Battle by Stephen Arterburn,
    Fred Stoeker
  • Every Young Womans Battle by Shannon Ethridge
    Stephen Arterburn
  • Every Womans Battle by Shannon Ethridge
  • Every Mans Battle by Stephen Arterburn, Fred
    Stoeker
  • Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus by John
    Gray
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