The Forces That Shape Our lives

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The Forces That Shape Our lives
Ibrahim Iskanderani
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How come?
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Vision
Bad Habits
Limiting Beliefs
Emotions
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Reactive .VS. Creative Orientation
Action
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Age 75 years old
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Wheel of Life
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What is my vision?
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Success Vs. Fulfillment
Achieving based on someone else's standard
Achieving based on your own standard
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Vision
Bad Habits
Limiting Beliefs
Emotions
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Examples of limiting beliefs

• I cant have what I want (powerlessness)
• It doesnt matter what I want (despair)
• I feel guilty about my desires (guilt)
• I am afraid of what I want (fear to take risks)
• It is too late for me (Fear)
• Its really not that bad (denial)

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Vision
Bad Habits
Limiting Beliefs
Emotions
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The Three Laws of Habits

• Negative habits bread negative consequences, and
  successful habits create positive rewards.

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How do habits affect our lives?
Upward spiral
Downward spiral
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How do habits shape our lives?
Downward spiral

• Talking instead of listening

Initial reaction Patience
Labeled Anti-social
Angry
Self-esteem
Frustrated
Excluded
Isolation
Loneliness
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How do habits shape our lives?
Opportunities
Share idea
Self-esteem grows
Compliment you
Labeled Thankful person
Feel appreciated
Gratitude
Upward spiral
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How do habits shape our lives?
Upward spiral
Downward spiral
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The Three Laws of Habits

• Negative habits bread negative consequences, and
  successful habits create positive rewards.
• The sum total of our habits determines the degree
  of success we experience in our career and lives.
• Our habits created our current reality and will
  undoubtedly determine our future.

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Vision
Bad Habits
Limiting Beliefs
Emotions
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Maintaining a positive focus
Physiology
How we use our body
Language
Focus
What we focus on
How we express ourselves
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Maintaining a positive focus

• Posture
• Breathing
• Pattern of movement
• Facial Expression

Physiology
Focus
Language
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Maintaining a positive focus
Physiology

• We will find whatever we look for
• Things mean whatever meaning we choose to give
  them.

Language
Focus
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Maintaining a positive focus
Physiology
Language
Focus

• Questions
• Vocabulary
• Metaphors

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The ultimate success formula?

• Raise our standards
• Change our limiting beliefs
• Change our bad habits

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The End