How to repair damaged relationships

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Spiritual Disciplines of a C.H.R.I.S.T.I.A.N.
Almighty God
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Holy Spirit
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Spiritual Disciplines of a C.H.R.I.S.T.I.A.N.

• Holy Spirit Basic, Advanced
• John 1412 And I will ask the Father and He will
  give you another Helper, that He may be with you
  forever that is the Spirit of truth whom the
  world cannot receive, because it does not behold
  Him or know Him, but you know Him because He
  abides with you, and will be in you.

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How important is Yielding to The Holy Spirit?
Almighty God
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Rom 814 But as many as are being led by the
Spirit of God these are the Sons of God
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How do you Yield to the Holy Spirit?
Almighty God
Declare your WILLingness to do What the Holy
Spirit says
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Listen hard for the direction of the Holy
Spirit Check the lists
Do what He leads
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Holy Spirit

• Leads Rom 814
• Teaches John 1426 1613
• Writes His Law on hearts Heb 810-12
• Guides John 1613
• Produces Fruit John 15 Gal 522,23
• Gifts 1 Cor 127

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Spiritual Disciplines of a C.H.R.I.S.T.I.A.N.

• Holy Spirit
• Yield to Learning the Ways of God Mt 53-12Ex
  3313
• Yield to the Ways of God Eph 518
• Yield to the Prompting of God Gal 516,22,23 Eph
  430
• Yield to the Impossible Jn 1412
• Yield to the Anointing of God Acts 18 Jn 227

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Classic Lists of Holy Spirit leadership
Almighty God
Beatitudes Ladder of Virtue 10 Commandments Fruit
of the Spirit 9 Relationships Gifts of the
Spirit Scripture
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Holy Spirit prompts

• Be teachable,
• Feel their pain
• Embrace Gods lot for you
• Visualize things being right and pursue it
• Be merciful to others
• Focus on the pure and good
• Invest enough to bring peace
• Stand firm for the right and for Christ

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Holy Spirit prompts

• Faith
• Virtue
• Knowledge
• Self-Control
• Perseverance
• Godliness
• Brotherly-Kindness
• Love

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Holy Spirit prompts

• Put God first
• Worship the One True God
• Speak well of God and others
• Give everyday to Jesus as His day
• Add immense value to everyone you serve
• Love those God brings to you
• Invest your whole self in your marriage
• Develop abundance and share
• Declare the truth with a loving edge
• Develop gratefulness in every part of your life

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Holy Spirit prompts

• Love meet needs, pursue, please
• Joy deepen a relationship
• Peace calm the anxious heart, stop the war
• Patience embrace the difficulty as a delight
• Kindness Pleasant Helpfulness
• Goodness Beneficial Actions, Words, Attitude
• Meekness Yield your rights
• Faithfulness Trust and perseverance till its
  over
• Self-Control Instant obedience to what you know
  is right

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Holy Spirit vs Sin Impulses

• Love
• Joy
• Peace
• Patience
• Kindness
• Goodness
• Meekness
• Faithfulness
• Self-Control

• Immorality
• Impurity,
• Sensuality, 
• Idolatry,
• Sorcery,
• Enmities,
• Strife,
• Jealousy

Outbursts of anger, Disputes, Dissensions,
Factions,  Envying, Drunkenness,
Carousing, Things like these,
Humility Brokenness Meekness Righteousness Mercy
Purity Peacemaking Mature Faith
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Holy Spirit prompts

• God Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Self Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Marriage Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Family Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Work Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Church Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Money Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Society Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control
• Friends Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness,
  Goodness, Meekness, Faithfulness, Self-Control

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Holy Spirit prompts
How to overcome Bitterness How to conquer
Anger How to repair friendships How to make your
retirement years the most exciting How to have a
spiritual workout How to better manage your
life How to prepare for marriage How to enjoy
intimacy and friendship with God How to stop
worrying How to understand and correct the 5
problems in marriage How to develop greater
faith How to experience Gods love and
forgiveness How to build hope in your life How
to hear from God How to handle stress How to
overcome lust
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Holy Spirit prompts
What are the 5 actions of many wives that destroy
the intimacy of their marriage How to find new
meaning after retirement 50 reasons to wait until
marriage to have sex How to draw Gods blessings
in to my life How to overcome fear How to make a
difference How to be financially free How to
stop doing things I know are wrong How to make
work exciting What are the 7 things husbands can
do that will develop an incredible marriage How
to inject wisdom into kids and grandkids How to
become a better leader What are the 5 key actions
of successful families How do I find why God has
allowed me to live How to conquer
depression Discovering my life purpose How do I
understanding the rules to the game of life What
is God doing with me
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Holy Spirit prompts

• Use your Gift
• Prophecy, service, teaches, exhorts, gives,
  leads, mercy
• Word of wisdom, word of knowledge, faith , gifts
  of healing effecting of miracles, prophecy,
  distinguishing of spirits, kinds of tongues,
  interpretation of tongues.
• Apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors-teachers

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Action Steps
Almighty God
Declare your WILLingness to do What the Holy
Spirit says
draw near
Memorize one or more of the lists of HS prompts
Ask what He wants every morning