Title: PS28A Applied Interpersonal Dynamics
1PS28A Applied Interpersonal Dynamics
2What Is Perception?
- We usually see things we are looking for so
much that we sometimes see them where they are
not (Eric Hoffer) - We want the facts to fit the preconceptions.
When they dont it is easier to ignore the facts
than to change the preconceptions.
3What is perception?
- Definition
- A process by which individuals organize and
interpret their sensory impressions in order to
give meaning to their environment and their
experiences. - (Robbins, 1996, italics mine)
4- What do you see when you look at this image?
5- How many legs does this elephant have?
6- What image is this portrait?
7Do we all see the man and the woman in this
bottle?
8Factors Influencing Perception
- The Perceiver
- When an individual looks at a target what he/she
sees is heavily influenced by personal
characteristics - - Attitudes, motives, interests, past
experience - (See Katzs Model)
9Factors Influencing Perception
- The Target
- Characteristics in the target that is being
observed can affect what is perceived - Motion, size, sound
- Its background
10Factors Influencing Perception
- The Situation
- The environment in which the person or object is
seen or where an event took place
11The Perception Process
- There are three basic processes
- Selection
- Organization
- Interpretation
12The Perception Process contd
- Selection - A sub process of identifying the
relevant/appropriate data. - Intensity physical properties or cues that
stand out - Repetition continuous exposure to a stimulus
increases our awareness of it. - Contrast Contrasting stimulus may be easily
identifiable. - Motives speaks to the reasoning behind the
selection
13The Perception Process contd
- Organization
- Involves the application of meaning to the
stimulus (making sense of the information) - How does this sub-process work?
- Use of perceptual schema or cognitive frameworks
14The Perception Process contd
- Organization contd.
- Our perceptual schema consists of a number of
different constructs that we use to classify self
and others - Physical constructs appearance/look
- Role constructs social status
- Interaction constructs social behaviour
- Psychological constructs feelings displayed
- Membership construct identify others according
to the group they belong
15Perception Process
- These schemas affect communication in two ways
- Allow us to form impressions of others
- Used to predict future behaviours
- Choosing some constructs means that you ignore
others
16The Perception Process contd
- Interpretation the third level of the
perception process that determines our reactions
to the stimulus. -
17The Perception Process contd
- Interpretation contd
- A number of factors may influence our
interpretation. Four of these are - Degree of involvement with the other person
- Past Experience
- Expectations
- Self concept
18Influences on Perception
- Physiological influences
- Cultural differences
- Social Roles
- Self concept
- Shared Narratives
19Influences on Perception
- Physiological influences
- The senses
- Age
- Health
- Fatigue
- Hunger
- Biological Cycles
20Influences on Perception
- Cultural differences
- Culture is a powerful factor in shaping
perception. Every culture has its own world
view.
21Influences on Perception
- Self Concept
- Extensive research shows that a person with high
self-esteem is more likely to think well of
others whereas someone with low self-esteem is
likely to have a poor opinion of others
22Influences on Perception
- Shared Narratives
- Our interaction with other individuals and groups
creates a shared perception of the world. The
term narrative reflects the notion that humans
make sense of the world by spinning a kind of
story to explain events. -
23A Model of Perception (Susan Fritz et. Al.
Interpersonal skills for leadership)
Inner World
Outer World
Senses Expectations Desire Interest Emotions Attit
udes Self-perception Tendencies
Verbal Nonverbal Culture Gender Observations Conte
xt
Stimulus
Perception
New Brain Patterns
Response
Learning
24Person Perception
- People have beliefs about other people they know.
These beliefs guide people in several ways. - Within social psychology, the study of beliefs
about people is called person perception. - Person perception may be distinguished from
object perception in several ways
25Person vs Object Perception
- Person perception is reciprocal.
- Persons are aware that others are perceiving them
and try to evaluate what is being perceived. - Person perception is directly tied to self
perception. - People change more than physical object do .
26The Role of Perception within the Interpersonal
- Why is is important to understand the subject
area of perception? - 1. To identify our own tendencies in perceiving
self and others. - 2. To increase our awareness of how these
tendencies affect (positive/negative) our
interpersonal relationships and encounters.
27The Role of Perception within the Interpersonal
- Our Tendencies
- We often tend to judge ourselves more generously
than we judge others - We tend to be influenced by what is most obvious
- We tend to cling to first impressions
- We tend to assume others are similar to us
28ATTRIBUTION
- Attribution Theory Main concept internal vs.
external locus of control the interpretation of
situations as being caused by ones disposition
or by ones environment.
29ATTRIBUTION
- Attribution is the process of attaching meaning
to behaviour (Adler Towne)
30ATTRIBUTION
- Self-Serving Bias
- We make internal attributions about our
successes or positive outcome and blame our
failures or negative outcomes on external factors
31ATTRIBUTION
- Fundamental Attribution Error
- We tend to emphasise external factors and
underemphasize internal or situational factors
32ATTRIBUTION
- Attribution Cube Theory Harold Kelly 1971.
- Attribution Cube Theory highlights three
factors that determine whether the behaviour of
others is attributed to internal or external
causes. - Consensus Does the behaviour affect everyone in
the same way? - Consistency Does the behaviour occur
repeatedly? - Distinctiveness Does the behaviour occur in
other similar situations
33ATTRIBUTION
- Can we use attribution effectively?
34PERCEPTION CHECKING
- Perception checking is an important approach to
ensuring that we do not assume that our first
interpretation is correct or be treated as facts. - It involves three basic elements
35Perception Checking - Steps
- Description of Behaviour - give a non evaluated,
descriptive account of what was noticed. - At least two possible interpretations - give two
possible interpretations to what was seen - A request for clarification about how to
interpret the behaviour give the person the
opportunity to clarify the behaviour displayed
36Example of Perception Checking
- When you stomped out of the room and slammed the
door (behaviour), I wasnt sure whether you were
mad at me (first interpretation) or just in a
hurry (second interpretation). How did you feel?
(request for clarification)
37Empathy
- Empathy is the ability to re-create anothers
perspective to experience the world from
anothers point of view. - It involves three dimensions
- Perspective taking
- Emotional aspect
- Genuine concern for the others welfare
38Empathy
- Perspective Taking
- An attempt to take on the viewpoint of another
person set aside your own judgment/opinions and
try to understand the other person
39Empathy
- Emotional Taking
- The ability to get close to experiencing others
feelings to get a sense of their fear, joy,
sadness, anger, frustration, etc.
40Empathy
- Genuine Concern
- It is going beyond just thinking and feeling as
the individual, and expressing genuine care about
anothers well being.
41Build Empathy Pillow Method
- Position 1 Im right, youre wrong
- We see virtues in our position and find fault
with anyone who happens to disagree with us. - Position 2 Youre right, Im wrong
- We switch perspectives and build the strongest
possible arguments to explain how another person
can view the issue different from you.
42Pillow Method 5 Positions
- Position 3 Both right, both wrong
- From this position you see strengths and
weaknesses in both perspectives. - Position 4 The issue isnt as important as it
seems - Realizing that the controversy is not as critical
as you thought
43Pillow Method 5 Positions
- Position 5 There is truth in all 4 perspectives
- Once you have looked at the issue from all
positions, you will gain new insights that may
cause you to - Change your mind
- Solve the problem at hand
- Increase your own tolerance
- Improve the communcation climate
44The Pillow Method In Action
- Background
- Who would have thought planning a wedding would
be such a nightmare? My fiancé and I are
struggling to decide whether we should have a
large, festive wedding, or a small, intimate one.
Im in favour of having a big, expensive
ceremony and party. He wants a smaller, more
affordable one.
45Position1 Im right, hes wrong
- I have a big family, and I would feel guilty not
inviting everyone. Also, we have lots of
friends who would really miss not being present
to celebrate our special day. If we invite one
friend or a relative, I say we have to invite
them all to avoid hurting anybodys feelings.
Otherwise, where do you draw the line? As far as
money goes, I say that you only get to marry
once, and this is no time to scrimp. My parents
are willing to help pay the expenses because they
want our entire family to be there at the
wedding.
46Position2 Hes right, Im wrong
- My fiancé is right to say that we really dont
have the funds to spend on a fancy wedding.
Every dollar we spend on a lavish event will be
one less dollar we have to buy a house, which we
hope to do soon. My boyfriend is right to say
that a big wedding could postpone our house
purchase for a year or two maybe even longer, if
real estate prices go up before we
47Position 2 cont
- can buy. Hes also right to say that no matter
how many people we invite, someone is always
going to be left out. Its just a case of where
we draw the line. Finally, hes right to say
that planning a big wedding will be a very
stressful process.
48Position 3Both right wrong
- Both of us are right and both are wrong. Im
right to want to include my extended families and
friends on this joyous day, and Im right to say
that a special wedding would be a lifetime
memory. Hes right that doing so could still
leave some hurt feelings, and that it will
postpone our house purchase. He also has a good
point when he says that planning a big event
could drive us crazy, and distract us from the
real importance of joining our lives.
49Position 4 The issue is not important
- After thinking about it, Ive realized that
getting married is different from being married.
The decision about what kind of ceremony to have
is important, but ultimately it wont affect the
kind of marriage we have. How we behave after
were married will be much more important. And
we are going to face a lot of decisions together
about children and jobs for e.g. that will
have much bigger consequences than this ceremony.
50Position 5Conclusion
- Before using the pillow method to think through
all sides of this issue, I was focused on getting
my way. This attitude was creating some feelings
between my fiancé and I that were not what we
should not be having as we face this most
important event. Ive realized that if one or
the other of us wins but the result is injured
feelings, it wont be much of a victory. I dont
know what kind of
51Position 5 cont
- ceremony we will finally decide to have, but Im
determined to keep my focus on the really
important goal of keeping our relationship
positive and respectful.