Title: THE DON IN LTC Supporting an Endangered Species
1THE DON IN LTC Supporting an Endangered Species
- Janet Dykstra, MS, RN, CDONA-LTC
- Edie Cassel Walters, MBA, RN, NHA
2II. COACHING, QUARTERBACKING AND CHEERLEADING
3YOU AND YOUR TEAM
4DELEGATION AND SUPERVISION
- Accountability
- Response ability
- Owning the problem/issue
- Closing the loop
5DELEGATION AND SUPERVISION
- Delegate to entrust to another, the act of
empoweringTo whom do you delegateWhat do you
delegateHandout II A Delegation
6DELEGATION AND SUPERVISION
- Liabilities in Delegation
- Assigning tasks not within the employees scope
of practice - Delegating to staff not trained to do the task
- Failing to correct incompetent performance
- Allowing known incompetent or dangerous employee
to work
7DELEGATION AND SUPERVISION
- Handout IIB Why employees dont do what they
are supposed to do - Do problems just go away?
- Isnt it a choice of when you handle things,
rather than if?
8DELEGATION AND SUPERVISION
- ENCOURAGING CHANGE IN EMPLOYEE BEHAVIOR
- Describe the behavior
- Describe its impact on employee/client/ team
- Listen to the response
- Define acceptable behavior
- Identify together ways to change behavior
9DELEGATION AND SUPERVISION
- ENCOURAGING CHANGE IN EMPLOYEE BEHAVIOR
- Ask what help the employee needs to change
- Recognize and reward acceptable behavior
10DELEGATION AND SUPERVISION
- 7 Reasons CNAs refuse assignments
- Too many masters
- Rigid assignment schedules
- No priority system
- Disrespect
- Dashed expectations
- Boring or unpleasant assignments
- Poor feedback
11EXPECTATIONS AND ACCOUNTABILITY
- The importance of setting expectations
- Interview
- Orientation
- Evaluations
- Disciplinary process
- EVERY DAY
12EXPECTATIONS AND ACCOUNTABILITY
- Dont expect people to know what you expect if
you dont tell them! - Some people were born accountable the rest need
you to hold them accountable! - If you dont, its as much your failure as it is
theirs.
13EXPECTATIONS AND ACCOUNTABILITY
- INSPECT WHAT YOU EXPECT
- Monitoring Performance
- Direct observation
- Spot checks
- Verbal feedback
- Interviews (clients, co-workers, others - careful
on this one!)
14CONFLICT
- Conflict is inevitable people have different
values, ideas and perceptions - Clarify the situation
- Repeat what you heard
- Listen
- Ask what you can do
15CONFLICT
- CONFLICT
- Acknowledge both feelings and facts
- Empathize
- Avoidance doesnt solve the problem
- HANDOUT II C HANDLING CONFLICT
16CONFLICT
- CONFLICT DIFFICULT PEOPLE
- STEAMROLLER (agressors)
- SNIPER (passive-aggressive)
- SUPER-AGREEABLE (yes people)
- WET BLANKET (negative energy zappers)
17CONFLICT
- CAUSES INCLUDE
- Poor communication
- Seeking power
- Dissatisfaction with management style
- Weak leadership
- Lack of openness
- Change in leadership
- Others?
18CONFLICT
- Handling an emotionally charged situation
- Be calm - listen
- Be non-judgmental
- Remove participants to a private place
- Dont interrupt or argue
- Clarify the problem
- Formulate a problem statement
19CONFLICT
- Handling an emotionally charged situation
- Help both sides generate solutions
- Allow participants to choose their own solutions
- Restate the solution
- Get commitment
- Create a contract
- ROLE PLAY
20CONFLICT
- NO-NOs DO NOT
- DENY no one has ever complained
- ARGUE no, you didnt tell me that
- BLAME Its not my fault, if Lee would just do
his job - USE CLICHES Thats the way it is Its not
my decision There is nothing I can do
21COMMUNICATION
- I know you think you understand what you
thought I said, but Im not sure that what you
heard is what I meant
22COMMUNICATION
- Components
- 7-8 Words
- 38 Tone of Voice
- 55 Body language
- At least 80 of your day is spent communicating!
- 45 Listening
- 30 Speaking
- 15 Reading
- 10 Writing
23COMMUNICATION
- SO, what is the
- 1
- communication problem???
24COMMUNICATION
- HANDOUT II D - Keys to Effective Listening and
Barriers to Communication
25COACHING
- WHY MANAGERS FAIL AS COACHES
- Fail to understand that management is getting
things done through others - Their success or failure reflects on you
- Fail to recognize the I now pronounce you a
manager dilemma - Fail to recognize that you need them more than
they need you - Fail to control own emotions
26COACHING
- WHY MANAGERS FAIL AS COACHES
- Accepting reasons, stories and excuses
- Fail to understand the cost of replacement vs.
the cost of coaching - Fear of confrontation
- Fail to know how to help
27COACHING
- WHY MANAGERS FAIL AS COACHES
- Micromanage
- Why? Fear/anxiety/job insecurity/control freak
- Result?
- Dependency, fear, inefficiency
- Unwilling to raise important issues
- Decreased initiative and teamwork (no
interdependency) - Task orientation
- Wait for direction
- Hide mistakes
- Turnover
28COACHING
- Micromanage
- Cure
- Clear staff roles and responsibilities
- Clear expectations
- Take the risk of delegation
- Accountability responsibility and authority
- Focus on goals
- Open interaction
- There is an opposite extreme!
29COACHING
- Types
- Structured
- Opportunistic
- The coaching process
- HANDOUT II E THE COACHING PROCESS
30COACHING
- Coaching isnt just for problem children!
- Coaching on hire
- 30 day evaluations
- On-going observation and feedback
- Commendation, correction, discipline
- Evaluations
- Special project or Rising Star
31COACHING
- Face to face meetings should
- Be private (witnesses only as part of the
discipline process) - Be uninterrupted
- Not be rushed
- Dont start if everyones emotions are not under
control - Be specific
32COACHING
- Face to face meetings, continued
- Include the whys and logic of the desired
performance - You should know what you want the outcome to be
before you start - About Follow-up
- If the person is doing what they should
- Give feedback
- Reinforce good performance
33COACHING
- About Follow-up
- If not
- Give feedback
- Find out why
- Remove obstacles
- Set priorities
- Teach
- Manage consequences
- What if I coached and there was no change
- The role of discipline
- Making the tough decisions
34COACHING
- Characteristics of a winning coach
- Simplicity
- Confidence
- Passion
- Timing
- Uses gut
35COACHING
- 10 MUSTS FOR COACHING TO IMPROVE OUTCOMES
36COACHING
- You must accurately identify the behavior change
you need - You must have identified that the employees
behavior is the cause of the problem - You must engage the employee in face to face
discussion - You must communicate specifically about the
behavior, and assure that the employee understands
37COACHING
- You must communicate the why of the need for
change - Employees must understand that they are
responsible for their own behavior - The employee must perceive that your coaching is
in his or her interest - You must be walking the talk
- You must acknowledge and praise employee
achievements - Above all, you must be sincere in your efforts
3810 SURE-FIRE WAYS TO FAIL AS A COACH
- Communicate that you know best
- Establish the agenda on your own and change your
meeting time and place frequently on short notice - Do all the talking you have so much wisdom to
share! - Never ask what you can do for them how would
they know? - Punish them if they dont take your advice
3910 SURE-FIRE WAYS TO FAIL AS A COACH
- Remind the employee how lucky he is to have your
attention - Remind them frequently how much they have to
learn - Share information they dont need it makes you
look knowledgeable and important - Never show any personal weakness
- Never show humor
40COACHING
- Employees dont care how much you know until they
know how much you care. - Coaching is caring!
- Coaching improves people, which improves outcomes!
41EVALUATIONS
- A universal dread!
- Consider self-evaluations
- Timeliness matters
- Reflect the whole time period
- Consider successes and issues
- Use examples
- Goals, timelines, follow-up
42HANDLING YOUR PEERS
- WHAT IF THE PROBLEM IS IN ANOTHER DEPARTMENT?
- Straightforwardly dealing with your peers
- Pick your battles
- Come with helpful ideas
- Offer to help
- Document
43FIELDING A FULL TEAM
- Scheduling tips
- Self-scheduling
- Master Schedules
- Staff-centered schedules
- Resident-centered schedules
- Requests for time off
- Overtime and agency use
44FIELDING A FULL TEAM
- Managing lateness and absence
- Step 1 analysis
- Step 2 identification of problem employees
- Step 3 understanding the reasons
- Step 4 planning for improvement
- Step 5 - accountability
45BUILDING AND INSPIRING THE TEAM
- HANDOUT II F CHARACTERISTICS OF AN EFFECTIVE
LEADER - Understand who your team members are
- Teamwork is putting the good of the whole ahead
of personal goals
46THE FIVE DYSFUNCTIONS OF A TEAM
- THINK ABOUT YOUR TEAM..
- Is there one member (or more) who inhibits the
progress of the team? - Think about your last team meeting
- Did someone dominate
- Did someone refuse to participate
- Was there unproductive conflict
47THE FIVE DYSFUNCTIONS OF A TEAM
- One untrusting or untrustworthy member of your
team will, over time, render the team
ineffective! - Senior leaders who tolerate non-performers
(technically, managerially, behaviorally)
sabotage the team!
48LEADING THE TEAM
- TEAM DYNAMICS
- A TEAM IS several individuals
- Who share common interests, values, norms
- Who interact with each other regularly
- Actions have a stable or predictable character
- HANDOUT II G INDIVIDUAL STYLES
49LEADING THE TEAM
- Stages of the Team
- I Forming
- Begin search for members and roles
- Experience confusion
- Exhibit dependence on leader
- II Storming
- Resistant/distrustful
- Question the Leader
- Set unrealistic Goals
50LEADING THE TEAM
- Stages of the Team
- III Norming
- Identify with one another
- Believe they can work together
- Experience relief and enjoyment
- Arrive at consensus
- IV Performing
- Gain insight into selves and process
- Participate in constructive change
- Evaluate/re-form
51LEADING THE TEAM
- Does Your Team Have
- A clear and challenging purpose
- Members who have specific complementary skills,
responsibilities and goals - Leadership with high standards that supports the
team and keeps in on track - Long range and short range action plans
- Participation of all members
- Open and effective communication
- Mutual trust
- Decision making by consensus
- Recognition and rewards
- Empowerment of members
52LEADING THE TEAM
- HANDOUT II H General Colin Powells Management
Rules - Eight lessons on effective leadership
53- YOU ARE THE
- COACH
- QUARTERBACK
- CHEERLEADER
- ALL ROLLED INTO ONE! YOU HAVE THE POWER TO
AFFECT YOUR TEAM AND EFFECT CHANGE!