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2Inheritances
- Question
- If you were asked whether parents should leave a
million dollar estate to be divided between their
healthy working adult children, what would you
say (or ask)?
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- Inherited wealth is as certain a death to
ambition as cocaine is to morality. - Cornelius Vanderbilt
- Fortunes tend to self-destruction by destroying
those who inherit them. - Henry Ford
4- The almighty dollar bequeathed to a child is an
almighty curse. No man has the right to handicap
his son with such a burden as great wealth. He
must face this question squarely will my fortune
be safe with my boy AND will my boy be safe with
my fortune? - Andrew Carnegie
5- Your fortune is rolling up, rolling up like an
avalanche! You must distribute it faster than it
grows! If you do not, it will crush you, and your
children, and your childrens children. - Frederick T. Gates,
- John D. Rockefeller Sr.s advisor
6- A good man leaves an inheritance for his
childrens children. - Proverbs 1322
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7- An inheritance quickly gained at the beginning
will not be blessed at the end. - Proverbs 2021
- Whoever can be trusted with very little can also
be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest
with very little will also be dishonest with
much. - Luke 1610
8- If you wish to leave much wealth to your
children, leave them in Gods care. Do not leave
them riches, but virtue and skill. For if they
have the confidence of riches, they will not mind
anything besides, for they shall have the means
of screening the wickedness of their ways in
their abundant riches. - John Chrysostom, AD 390
9- If your investment manager died, what would
you think if he left your money to his children? - Whose money is it? Children who would resent
their parents giving Gods money to Gods kingdom
would not handle that money well. - If God entrusted His money to me, doesnt that
indicate He wants me to invest most of it where
there is too little rather than too much? Where
it can help rather than do damage?
10- Inheritance or Heritage?
- Family Conference about Inheritance
11Is Leaving Money the Same as Giving Money?
- It is appointed for men to die once, but after
this the judgment. - Hebrews 927, NKJV
- I will not take for the Lord what is yours, or
sacrifice a burnt offering that costs me nothing. - 1 Chronicles 2124
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12- And everyone who has left houses or brothers
or sisters or father or mother or children or
fields for my sake will receive a hundred times
as much and will inherit eternal life. - Matthew 1929
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13Training our Children
- Question
- What can parents and grandparents do to train
children how to be - 1) good stewards?
- 2) radically generous givers?
14- It would have made a dreadfully ugly child but
it makes a rather handsome pig, I think. And she
began thinking over other children she knew, who
might do very well as pigs. - Lewis Carroll,
- Alices Adventures in Wonderland
- There are only three ways to teach a child.
The first is by example, the second is by
example, and the third is by example. Albert
Schweitzer -
15- For Moses said, Honor your father and your
mother, and, Anyone who curses his father or
mother must be put to death. But you say that if
a man says to his father or mother Whatever
help you might otherwise have received from me is
Corban (that is, a gift devoted to God), then
you no longer let him do anything for his father
or mother. - Mark 710-12
16- If anyone does not provide for his relatives,
and especially for his immediate family, he has
denied the faith and is worse than an
unbelieverIf any woman who is a believer has
widows in her family, she should help them and
not let the church be burdened with them, so that
the church can help those widows who are really
in need. - 1 Timothy 58, 16
17- When Jesus saw his mother there, and the
disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said
to his mother, Dear woman, here is your son,
and to the disciple, Here is your mother. From
that time on, this disciple took her into his
home. - John 1926-27
18- David McKenna
- Affluenza is a strange malady that affects the
children of well-to-do parents. Though having
everything money can buy, the children show all
the symptoms of abject povertydepression,
anxiety, loss of meaning, and despair for the
future.
19- Hope for one parent and one Christian parent
families - For the unbelieving husband has been
sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving
wife has been sanctified through her believing
husband. Otherwise your children would be
unclean, but as it is, they are holy. - 1 Corinthians 714
20Teaching Your Children about Money
- Train a child in the way he should go, and when
he is old he will not turn from it. - Proverbs 226
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21- These commandments that I give you today are to
be upon your hearts. Impress them on your
children. Talk about them when you sit at home
and when you walk along the road, when you lie
down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on
your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write
them on the doorframes of your houses and on your
gates. - Deuteronomy 66-9
22- Since everything will be destroyed in this
wayYou ought to live holy and godly lives as you
look forward to the day of GodThat day will
bring about the destruction of the heavens by
fire, and the elements will melt in the heat. So
we are looking forward to a new heavens and a new
earth, in which righteousness dwells. - 2 Peter 311-13
- Family Field Trip to the Dump
23Raising Stewards and Givers
- Teach them to your children and to their
children after them. - Deuteronomy 49
- I have chosen him, so that he will direct his
children and his household after him to keep the
way of the Lord by doing what is right and just. - Genesis 1819
24- Psalm 78
- What we have heard and known, what our fathers
have told us. We will not hide them from their
children we will tell the next generation the
praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, his power, and
the wonders he has done. He decreed statutesand
established the law
25- which he commanded our forefathers to teach
their children, so the next generation would know
them, even the children yet to be born, and they
in turn would tell their children. Then they
would put their trust in God and would not forget
his deeds but would keep his commands. - Psalm 783-7
26- Bring them up in the training and instruction of
the Lord. - Ephesians 64
- The less I spent on myself and the more I gave
to others, the fuller of happiness and blessing
did my soul become. - Hudson Taylor
27Teaching Children Self-Control
- But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness and self-control. Against such things
there is no law. - Galatians 522-23
28- Titus 2
- You must teach what is in accord with sound
doctrine. Teach the older men to be temperate,
worthy of respect, self-controlled, and sound in
faith, in love and in endurance.
29- Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent
in the way they live, not to be slanderers or
addicted to much wineThen they can train the
younger women to love their husbands and
children, to be self-controlled and pureso that
no one will malign the word of God.
30- Similarly, encourage the young men to be
self-controlled. In everything set them an
example by doing what is good. In your teaching
show integritythat cannot be condemned, so that
those who oppose you may be ashamed because they
have nothing bad to say about us. so that in
every way they slaves will make the teaching
about God our Savior attractive.
31- For the grace of God that brings salvation has
appeared to all men. It teaches us to say No to
ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live
self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this
present age. - Titus 21-12
32- Its normal and healthy not to get whatever you
want. - In order for things to be special, they must be
the exception, not the rule. - There are higher values than immediate
gratification. - There are better ways to use Gods money than to
follow our impulses.
33Rewards as Incentives
- Adults are reluctant to utilize rewards because
they view them as a source of bribery. Our most
workable teaching device is ignored because of a
philosophical misunderstanding. Our entire
society is established on a system of
reinforcement, yet we dont want to apply it
where it is needed most with young children. - James Dobson, Dare to Discipline
34- And without faith it is impossible to please
God, because anyone who comes to him must believe
that 1) he exists and that 2) he rewards those
who earnestly seek him. - Hebrews 116
35Children Who Share
- Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so
doing some people have entertained angels without
knowing it. - Hebrews 132
36Children Who Are Thankful
- Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all
his benefits. - Psalm 1032
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- Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is
Gods will for you in Christ Jesus. - 1 Thessalonians 518
37Wrap Up
- Question How would you summarize what you
have learned from the Scriptures that are the
backbone of this course?
38- I continually find it necessary to guard against
that natural love of wealth and grandeur which
prompts us always, when we come to apply our
general doctrine to our own case, to claim an
exception. - William Wilberforce
39- The antagonism between life and conscience may
be removed in two ways by a change of life or by
a change of conscience. - Leo Tolstoy
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40Learning from Each Other
- We have different gifts, according to the grace
given us. If a mans gift is prophesying. If it
is serving, let him serve if it is teaching, let
him teach if it is encouraging, let him
encourage if it is contributing to the needs of
others, let him give generously if it is
leadership, let him govern diligently if it is
showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully. - Romans 126-8
41Sharing Our Giving Stories
- Be careful not to do your acts of
righteousness before men, to be seen by them. If
you do, you will have no reward from your Father
in heaven. - Matthew 61
42- Let your light shine before men, that they may
see your good deeds and praise your Father in
heaven. - Matthew 516
- The people rejoiced at the willing response of
their leaders, for they had given freely and
wholeheartedly to the Lord. - 1 Chronicles 299
43Should Giving Always Be Kept Secret?
44- Be careful not to do your acts of
righteousness before men, to be seen by them. - When you give to the needy, do not announce it
with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in synagogues
and on streetsto be honored by men. - So when you give to the needy, do not let your
left hand know what your right hand is doing, so
that your giving may be in secret. Then your
Father, who sees what is done in secret, will
reward you. Matt. 61-5 - Matthew 62
45- I tell you the truth, they have received their
reward in full. - Matthew 65
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46- Selling their possessions and goods, they gave
to anyone as he had need. Acts
245 - No one claimed that any of his possessions was
his own, but they shared everything they had.
With great power the apostles continued to
testify to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus,
and much grace was upon them all.
47- There were no needy persons among them. For from
time to time those who owned lands or houses sold
them, brought the money from the sales and put it
at the apostles feet, and it was distributed to
anyone as he had need. Acts 432-35 - Question Did anyone notice who sold property
and gave it away?
48- Let your light shine before men, that they may
see your good deeds and praise your Father in
heaven. - Matthew 516
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- Follow my example, as I follow the example of
Christ. - 1 Corinthians 111
49- The people rejoiced at the willing response of
their leaders, for they had given freely and
wholeheartedly to the Lord. - 1 Chronicles 299
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- Your love has given me great joy and
encouragement, because you, brother, have
refreshed the hearts of the saints. - Philemon 17
50- And now, brothers, we want you to know about the
grace that God has given the Macedonian churches.
Out of the most severe trial, their overflowing
joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich
generosity. For I testify that they gave as much
as they were able, and even beyond. - 2 Corinthians 81-3
51- As he looked up, Jesus saw the rich putting
their gifts into the temple treasury. He also saw
a poor widow put in two very small copper coins.
I tell you the truth, he said, this poor widow
has put in more than all the others. All these
people gave their gifts out of their wealth but
she out of her poverty put in all she had to live
on. - Luke 211-4
52- And let us consider how we may spur one another
on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up
meeting together, as some are in the habit of
doing, but let us encourage one anotherand all
the more as you see the Day approaching. - Hebrews 1024, 25
53A Sense of Destiny
- If you remain silent at this time, relief and
deliverance for the Jews will arise from another
place, but you and your fathers family will
perish. And who knows but that you have come to
royal position for such a time as this? - Esther 414
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55Give It Now or Give It Later?
- The economy may change and well have less to
give. - Our hearts may change and we may not follow
through with giving. - Our lives may end before weve given what we
intended.
56- Only one life, twill soon be past. Only whats
done for Christ will last. - C. T. Studd
57A Hard Look at Ourselves
- William MacDonald
- Gods will is that our lives should be a
perpetual crisis of dependence on him. We defeat
his will in our lives when we lay up treasures on
earth. The life of faith does not follow
automatically when a person becomes a Christian.
58- It requires deliberate action on his part.
This is especially true in an affluent society.
The believer must put himself in a position where
he is compelled to trust God.It is only as he
gets rid of his reserves and other false supports
that he can truly launch out into the deep.
59- How utterly in keeping with this age of grace it
is for us to sell our prized possessionsour
diamonds and other jewelry, our original
paintings, our antique furniture, our sterling
silver, our stamp collectionsand put the
proceeds to work in the salvation of souls
throughout the world. - William MacDonald, True Discipleship
60- To this you were called, because Christ suffered
for you, leaving you an example, that you should
follow in his steps. - 1 Peter 221
- If we judged ourselves, we would not come under
judgment. - 1 Corinthians 1131
61Our Accountability as Gods Money Managers
- From everyone who has been given much, much will
be demanded and from the one who has been
entrusted with much, much more will be asked. - Luke 1248
62- So then, each of us will give an account of
himself to God. - Romans 1412
- You have taken possession of the resources that
belong to Christ and you consume them aimlessly.
Dont you realize that you are going to be held
accountable? - John Chryostom
63- The Christian far oftener disgraces his
profession in prosperity than in adversity. It is
a dangerous thing to be prosperous. The crucible
of adversity is a less severe trial to the
Christian than the fining-pot of prosperity. Oh,
what leanness of soul and neglect of spiritual
things have been brought on through the very
mercies and bounties of God!
64- Yet this is not a matter of necessity, for the
apostle tells us that he knew how to abound. When
he had much he knew how to use it. Abundant grace
enabled him to bear abundant prosperity. When he
had a full sail he was loaded with much ballast,
and so floated safely. - Charles Spurgeon,Morning and Evening
65- Give, and it will be given to you.
- Luke 638
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- So that you can be generous on every occasion.
- 2 Corinthians 911
66- So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on
what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary,
but what is unseen is eternal. - 2 Corinthians 418
67- Any temporal possession can be turned into
everlasting wealth. Whatever is given to Christ
is immediately touched with immortality. - A. W. Tozer
- I have held many things in my hands and I have
lost them all. But whatever I have placed in
Gods hands, that I still possess. - Martin Luther
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69Should Giving Always Be Kept Secret?
70- But when you give to the needy, do not let your
left hand know what your right hand is doing, so
that your giving may be in secret. Then your
Father, who sees what is done in secret, will
reward you. - Matthew 63-4
71- Be careful not to do your acts of
righteousness before men, to be seen by them. - Matthew 61
- When you give to the needy, do not announce it
with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the
synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by
men. - Matthew 62
72- I tell you the truth, they have received their
reward in full. - Matthew 65
- So when you give to the needy, do not let your
left hand know what your right hand is doing, so
that your giving may be in secret. - Matthew 63-4
- Selling their possessions and goods, they gave
to anyone as he had need.
Acts 245
73- All the believers were one in heart and mind. No
one claimed that any of his possessions was his
own, but they shared everything they had. With
great power the apostles continued to testify to
the resurrection of the Lord Jesus, and much
grace was upon them all.
74- There were no needy persons among them. For from
time to time those who owned lands or houses sold
them, brought the money from the sales and put it
at the apostles feet, and it was distributed to
anyone as he had need. - Acts 432-35
75- Let your light shine before men, that they may
see your good deeds and praise your Father in
heaven. - Matthew 516
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- Follow my example, as I follow the example of
Christ. - 1 Corinthians 111
76- So when you give to the needy, do not announce
it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the
synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by
men. I tell you the truth, they have received
their reward in full. But when you give to the
needy, do not let your left hand know what your
right hand is doing, so that your giving may be
in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is
done in secret, will reward you. - Matthew 62-4
77- The people rejoiced at the willing response of
their leaders, for they had given freely and
wholeheartedly to the Lord. - 1 Chronicles 299
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- Your love has given me great joy and
encouragement, because you, brother, have
refreshed the hearts of the saints. - Philemon 17
78- Out of the most severe trial, their overflowing
joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich
generosity. For I testify that they gave as much
as they were able, and even beyond their ability.
Entirely on their own. - 2 Corinthians 82-3
79- When you pray, go into your room, close the door
and pray to your Father, who is unseen. - Matthew 66
- Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth
agree about anything you ask for, it will be done
for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or
three come together in my name, there am I with
them. - Matthew 1819-20
80- As he looked up, Jesus saw the rich putting
their gifts into the temple treasury. He also saw
a poor widow put in two very small copper coins.
I tell you the truth, he said, this poor widow
has put in more than all the others. All these
people gave their gifts out of their wealth but
she out of her poverty put in all she had to live
on. - Luke 211-4
81- And let us consider how we may spur one another
on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up
meeting together, as some are in the habit of
doing, but let us encourage one anotherand all
the more as you see the Day approaching. - Hebrews 1024, 25
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83Financial Integrityand Accountabilityin
Churches and Ministries
84- What is more, he was chosen by the churches to
accompany us as we carry the offering, which we
administer in order to honor the Lord himself and
to show our eagerness to help. - 2 Corinthians 819
85- We want to avoid any criticism of the way we
administer this liberal gift. - 2 Corinthians 820
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- We are taking pains to do what is right, not
only in the eyes of the Lord but also in the eyes
of men. - 2 Corinthians 821
86- In addition, we are sending with them our
brother who has often proved to us in many ways
that he is zealous, and now even more so because
of his great confidence in you. As for Titus, he
is my partner and fellow worker among you as for
our brothers, they are representatives of the
churches and an honor to Christ. - 2 Corinthians 822-23
87- Christians need to tighten up the scrutinizing
of all funds holding their monies and to insist
on all the accepted safeguards and controls and
on all the strictest procedures. - David B. Barrett,World Christian Trend
88Lending Money, Charging Interest, and Co-signing
a Loan
89- The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the
righteous give generouslyThey are always
generous and lend freely their children will be
blessed. - Psalm 3721, 26
- Good will come to him who is generous and lends
freely, who conducts his affairs with justice. - Psalm 1125
90- At the end of every seven years you must cancel
debts. This is how it is to be done Every
creditor shall cancel the loan he has made to his
fellow Israelite. He shall not require payment
from his fellow Israelite or brother, because the
LORDs time for canceling debts has been
proclaimed. You may require payment from a
foreigner, but you must cancel any debt your
brother owes you. - Deuteronomy 151-3
91- When the neighboring peoples bring merchandise
or grain to sell on the Sabbath, we will not buy
from them on the Sabbath or on any holy day.
Every seventh year we will forgo working the land
and will cancel all debts. - Nehemiah 1031
92- And if you lend to those from whom you expect
repayment, what credit is that to you? Even
sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be
repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to
them, and lend to them without expecting to get
anything back. Then your reward will be great,
and you will be sons of the Most High, because he
is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. - Luke 634-35
93- The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the
righteous give generously. - Psalm 3721
- Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven
our debtors. - Matthew 612
94Charging Interest
- If you take your neighbors cloak as a pledge,
return it to him by sunset, because his cloak is
the only covering he has for his body. What else
will he sleep in? When he cries out to me, I will
hear, for I am compassionate. - Exodus 2226-27
95- When you make a loan of any kind to your
neighbor, do not go into his house to get what he
is offering as a pledge. Stay outside and let the
man to whom you are making the loan bring the
pledge out to you. If the man is poor, do not go
to sleep with his pledge in your possession.
Return his cloak to him by sunset so that he may
sleep in it. Then he will thank you, and it will
be regarded as a righteous act in the sight of
the LORD your God.
96- Do not take advantage of a hired man who is poor
and needy, whether he is a brother Israelite or
an alien living in one of your towns. Pay him his
wages each day before sunset, because he is poor
and is counting on it. Otherwise he may cry to
the LORD against you, and you will be guilty of
sin.
97- Fathers shall not be put to death for their
children, nor children put to death for their
fathers each is to die for his own sin. - Do not deprive the alien or the fatherless of
justice, or take the cloak of the widow as a
pledge. - Deuteronomy 2410-17
98- Do not charge your brother interest, whether on
money or food or anything else that may earn
interest. You may charge a foreigner interest,
but not a brother Israelite, so that the LORD
your God may bless you in everything you put your
hand to in the land you are entering to possess. - Deuteronomy 2319-20
99- If you lend money to one of my people among you
who is needy, do not be like a moneylender
charge him no interest. - Exodus 2225
100- If one of your countrymen becomes poor and is
unable to support himself among you, help him as
you would an alien or a temporary resident, so he
can continue to live among you. Do not take
interest of any kind from him, but fear your God,
so that your countryman may continue to live
among you. You must not lend him money at
interest or sell him food at a profit. - Leviticus 2535-37
101- You may charge a foreigner interest, but not a
brother Israelite, so that the LORD your God may
bless you in everything you put your hand to in
the land you are entering to possess. - Deuteronomy 2320
102- Rather be openhanded and freely lend him
whatever he needs.Give generously to him and do
so without a grudging heart then because of this
the LORD your God will bless you in all your work
and in everything you put your hand to. - Deuteronomy 158, 10
103- If any of you has a dispute with another, dare
he take it before the ungodly for judgment
instead of before the saints? Do you not know
that the saints will judge the world? And if you
are to judge the world, are you not competent to
judge trivial cases? Do you not know that we will
judge angels? How much more the things of this
life!
104- Therefore, if you have disputes about such
matters, appoint as judges even men of little
account in the church! I say this to shame you.
Is it possible that there is nobody among you
wise enough to judge a dispute between believers?
But instead, one brother goes to law against
anotherand this in front of unbelievers!
105- The very fact that you have lawsuits among you
means you have been completely defeated already.
Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be
cheated? - 1 Corinthians 61-7
106- Why then didnt you put my money on deposit, so
that when I came back, I could have collected it
with interest? - Luke 1923
107Signing for Another Persons Loans
- He who puts up security for another will surely
suffer, but whoever refuses to strike hands in
pledge is safe. - Proverbs 1115
108- Do not be a man who strikes hands in pledge or
puts up security for debts if you lack the means
to pay, your very bed will be snatched from under
you. - Proverbs 2226-27
109- My son, if you have put up security for your
neighbor, if you have struck hands in pledge for
another, if you have been trapped by what you
said, ensnared by the words of your mouth, then
do this, my son, to free yourself, since you have
fallen into your neighbors hands Go and humble
yourself press your plea with your neighbor!
Allow no sleep to your eyes, no slumber to your
eyelids. Free yourself, like a gazelle from the
hand of the hunter, like a bird from the snare of
the fowler. - Proverbs 61-5
110- A man lacking in judgment strikes hands in
pledge and puts up security for his neighbor. - Proverbs 1718
111Practical Guidelines toControl Spending
- Realize that nothing is a good deal if you cant
afford it. - Recognize that God isnt behind every good deal.
- Understand the difference between spending money
and saving money.
112- Look at the long-term cost, not just the
short-term expense. - Pray before you spend.
- Examine every purchase in light of its ministry
potential. - Understand and resist the manipulative nature of
advertising.
113- Learn to walk away from things you want but dont
need. - Realize that little things add up.
- Set up a budget and live by it.
- Be sure you know the condition of your flocks,
give careful attention to your herds for riches
do not endure forever. - Proverbs 2723-24
114- Can a man be poor if he is free from want, if he
does not covet the belongings of others, if he is
rich in the possession of God? Rather, he is poor
who possesses much but still craves for more. - Tertullian, AD 198
115Overall Lessons from the Stewardship Parables
- The long-term significance of todays behavior
and choices. How we handle Gods assets in our
present daily life has tremendous bearing on
eternal realities.
116- The inevitability of consequences for all our
actions. - Do not be deceived God cannot be mocked. A man
reaps what he sows. Galatians 67
117- Our painstaking responsibility to choose wisely
and live rightly. The masters absence is both a
challenge and an opportunity to prove ourselves
worthy to be elevated to greater responsibility.
118- Our clear-cut incentives and motivations. Unwise
stewards are lazy, but wise stewards are diligent
and highly motivated. They know their master well
enough to know there will be lasting consequences
for their labor, whether good or bad.
119- Our preoccupation with responsibilities, not
rights. As stewards our rights are limited by our
lack of ownership. We carry no sense of
entitlement to the assets we manage. Its our job
to find out what the owner wants done with his
assets, then carry out his will.
120- If we focus on the masters rights, well
fulfill our responsibilities. If we focus on what
we think we deserve, on what we think our master
or others owe us, we lose perspective. The
quality of our service deteriorates rapidly.
121- The meaninglessness of everyone elses
evaluation compared to the judgment of our one
master. - each of us will give an account of himself to
God. - Who are you to judge someone elses servant? To
his own master he stands or falls. Rom. 143-4,
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