Title: Child Mental Health
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2Counseling Schedule Middle Childhood
INTRODUCE
VISIT
- Establishing Routines and Setting Limits
5 YEARS
- Teaching Behavior
- Bullying
- Out-of-School Time
6 YEARS
- School Connections
- Alcohol and Drugs
- Interpersonal Skills
8 YEARS
- Child Mental Health
- School Performance
10 YEARS
3Middle Childhood
- Rapid development of knowledge and skills
characterizes middle childhood - Routines and limits will help children feel loved
and secure during this time of transition1,2 - Children learn by watching and interacting with
parents, other adults, and other children - Parents can consciously model and expect
respectful behavior3,4
4Middle Childhood
- Play is another way children learn social skills5
- Many parents have concerns regarding safety and
supervision for after-school activities - Schools can have a significant impact on
preventing violence6,7 - Besides academics, children learn how to function
in society - Parental involvement with schools improves their
childrens experience and attachment
5Middle ChildhoodCounseling for the Parent
Children grow and develop within a context of
family, school, and community.
Do you have rules or limits with respect to TV,
video games, and computer time?
Are you involved in any school-related activities?
How does your child help around the home?
Who is your childs best friend?
Is your child happy most of the time or withdrawn?
6Middle ChildhoodCounseling for the Child
School-age children need to be active
participants in learning how to avoid and react
to conflict.
Have you been in any pushing or shoving fights?
What happens when you and your friends argue or
disagree?
What do you like best about school?
What do you do for fun?
If you see someone being bullied, what do you do?
7Middle Childhood Brochures
8Growing Independence Tips for Parents of Young
Children Visit 5 Years
- Emphasizes importance of beginning parent-child
communication about peer relationships early - Teaches parents how to
- Listen to children
- Help children assume more independence and
responsibilities
9How to Use this Tool
- Address parents fears about childrens safety in
the outside world - Ask about how the child is doing in school and
address any behavioral or emotional issues
Helpful Hints!
- Let the child know that secrets are not OK
- Discuss child sexual abuse during or after
examination of the childs genitals
Im here with your mother so its OK. No adult
should ever tell you to keep a secret from your
parents.
10Bullying Its Not OK Visit 6 Years
- Provides guidance for parents of victims,
bullies, and bystanders - Victims may seek medical attention, but the
poorest future outcomes are among bullies
themselves8,9 - Schools can prevent bullying using proven
interventions
11How to Use this Tool
- Place brochure in the waiting room it may be of
interest to both parents and children - Discuss specific strategies with those families
whose children are being bullied - Use brochure as a guide when speaking to
community groups
Helpful Hint!
Have you ever been in any pushing or shoving
fights?
Ask the child
If the answer is yes, it is important to
determine the childs role.
12Drug Abuse Prevention Starts With Parents Visit
8 Years
- Discusses connection between a teens use and
abuse of drugs and/or alcohol and - Parent behavior and attitudes
- Media influences
- Communication
- Addresses parental role in modeling and
maintaining open communication
13How to Use this Tool
- Encourage parents to talk with and listen to
their children - For parents who smoke, discuss the ease of
starting and the difficulties of quitting
address other substance abuse problems if
apparent - Have substance abuse resources on hand
Helpful Hint!
Did you hear about _____ being charged with
_____? What do you think about that?
Start conversations about drug abuse with the
recent news
14Friends Are Important Tips for Parents Visit 8
Years
- Focuses on importance of peer relationships
- Encourages parents to get to know their childs
friends - Provides guidance on monitoring behaviors to
prevent unsafe activities - Reiterates Connected Kids theme of clear,
consistent, and positive communication
15How to Use this Tool
- Encourage parents to know their childs
whereabouts and talk about expectations for
staying in touch - Encourage parents to help their child develop a
sense of belonging through prosocial youth groups
and community-based organizations
Helpful Hints!
- Address friendships and community activities
while discussing school progress and promoting
physical activity - Ask parent Who is your childs best friend? to
initiate discussion
16Everybody Gets Mad Helping Your Child Cope With
Conflict Visit 10 Years
- Developed for parents of pre- and early
adolescents - Describes the physiology of anger and offers
strategies to avoid fighting when angry - Guides parents in teaching their children how to
respond to conflict
17How to Use this Tool
- Introduce the topic with general questions such
as Are there a lot of fights at school? or
What happens when you get angry? - Discuss the bodys physical response to anger and
how to stay calm
Helpful Hints!
- Ask patients who avoid fights if they have hints
for other kids - Consider the possibility of abuse, exposure to
violence, or history of ADHD or minimal brain
trauma in children who have difficulty dealing
with anger
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20Acknowledgments
- Howard Spivak, MD
- Robert Sege, MD, PhD
- Elizabeth Hatmaker-Flanigan, MS
- Bonnie Kozial
- Vincent Licenziato
- Kimberly Bardy, MPH
- This project was supported by Grant No.
2001-JN-FX-0011 awarded by the Office of Juvenile
Justice and Delinquency Prevention, Office of
Justice Programs, U.S. Department of Justice.
Points of view or opinions in this document are
those of the author and do not necessarily
represent the official position or policies of
the U.S. Department of Justice.