Domestic Abuse and its Symtoms

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NarcissismCured.com

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About Narcissism

• At Narcissism cured we care to understand and
  help people to correct and heal the emotional
  dysfunction they may have been facing all through
  their life.
• People with narcissistic tendencies dont think
  that anything is wrong with them and will not
  agree to go under therapy secessions. There is
  little an evidence that therapy had successfully
  treats narcissism. So dont push your partner to
  stick with the therapy anyways, as it is not an
  effective way to end verbal and other domestic
  abuse.

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Domestic Abuse

• "When you hear about domestic abuse in the news
  it is easy to think oh that is not me. but if
  your fights get to push and shove and one or both
  of you throw things or lash out at each other
  when you are angry - this is domestic abuse and
  we are here to help you."

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What is Domestic Abuse?

• Domestic abuse usually describes domestic
  violence but I wonder
• Are you in a marriage that makes you feel weak
  rather than strong?
• Do you feel your partner undermines you rather
  than supports you?
• Do you feel that you cannot relax or be yourself
  when they are around?
• If you answered yes you may be part of a
  Narcissistic / Codependent Marriage.

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Abuse Happen in Families?

• Domestic abuse may begin with a family member who
  feels vulnerable and poorly equipped to deal with
  life and who may also fear abandonment.
• On the outside this person may appear confident
  and strong, but their need to control their
  family (and make them feel bad about themselves)
  shows that this strength is in fact a pretense.
• Abuse in families may also be fueled by
  emotionally needy family members. The threat of
  leaving may escalate fights and so it is safer
  NOT to threaten divorce or to leave in the heat
  of and argument and if you do wish to separate
  please make sure you get our advice first on how
  to do this safely.
• You should know that divorce is not your only
  option. We have advice that will improve your
  situation if you leave or stay. Steve and I had
  about the worst marriage in the world, but now 5
  years on, I believe we have one of the best!

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What Can I Do if I am the Victim of Domestic
Abuse?

• We offer help for victims to see how their own
  actions and reactions play into their abusive
  relationship.
• No matter how much you feel you are the innocent
  victim of a domestic abuse statistics show that
  by leaving your partner (and putting all the
  blame on them for your abusive relationship) you
  are like to form exactly the same type of
  relationship again in the future.

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CAUSES OF DOMESTIC ABUSE?

• Conflict and arguments between couples is
  natural, and can even strengthen an already
  healthy relationship. When you are dealing with a
  highly insecure spouse however simple problems
  can turn into big fights and even escalate toward
  Domestic Abuse. If you find that even when you
  are calmly stating your complaint or request your
  spouse is disrespectful or condescending the
  reason could be more than just emotional
  immaturity. Domestic Abuse occurs when a partner
  perceives he is being asked to provide more than
  he is able to give.
• This kind of ego threat is a common trait of
  abusive people. When the arguments become
  circular, loud, explosive they can easily turn
  violent because your insecure and threatened
  partner knows no other way out of his painful
  state of mind but to end it with intimidation.
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• One of the main causes of symptoms that lead to
  Domestic Abuse--lying, cheating, yelling,
  hitting--is Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
  NPD is a serious mental and emotional condition.
  With a deeply ingrained set of learned behaviors,
  a highly insecure person or abusive husband uses
  abusive tactics as tools to deal with his stress
  or low self-esteem.
• Friends and family of Narcissists or emotionally
  abusive people often feel insecure themselves as
  they wonder if they are doing "something wrong"
  or could be doing something differently to avoid
  the Narcissists abuse or prevent future Domestic
  Abuse.
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• There are techniques and skills to learn how to
  not only recognize the difference between an
  abusers behavior and your reaction, but also how
  to diffuse or even intercept their triggers to
  avoid a dispute that may turn into Domestic
  Abuse.
• How can you prevent arguments from escalating to
  Domestic Abuse? The first step is to realize that
  when your spouse or family member is acting out
  they are really only crying to be heard. the
  first step is to not think that you threatening
  to leave will change their behavior as this will
  most likely only may it worse. Although it is
  natural to fight back in order to protect
  yourself, reflecting their complaints in calm and
  understanding tones is often an effective and
  disarming strategy.
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• You need to put a solid support plan together and
  this is where Kim and Steve can help.
• To learn more visit www.narcissismcured.com.
• Contact
• Kim Cooper
• www.narcissismcured.com

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