Submitted by Kerri Ward Head Resident Advisor Thompson Rivers University

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Submitted by Kerri WardHead Resident Advisor
Thompson Rivers University
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Hes just not that not that into you if hes not
asking you out.

• An Excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not
  afraid of ruining the friendship.
• Dont get tricked into asking him out. If he
  likes you, hell do the asking.
• If you can find him, then he can find you. If he
  wants to find you, he will.
• Meeting at the bar or a friends house IS NOT A
  DATE
• Men dont forget how much they like you, So put
  down the phone.

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You are good enough to be asked out!
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Hes just not that into you if hes not calling
you.

• If hes not calling you, its because youre not
  on his mind.
• Dont be with someone who doesnt do what they
  say theyre going to do.
• Busy is another word for jerk. Jerk is another
  word for the guy your dating thats not calling.

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YOU DESERVE A PHONE CALL
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Hes just not that into you if hes not dating
you.

• Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to
  believe or listen to them.
• Better than nothing is not good enough for you.
• If you dont know where the relationship is
  going, its okay to pull over and ask.
• Murky? Not good.

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Theres a guy out there who will want to tell
everyone that hes your boyfriend. Quit goofing
around and go find him.
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Hes just not that into you if he only wants to
see you when hes drunk.

• It doesnt count unless he says it when hes
  sober.
• Drinking and drug use is not a path to ones
  inner most feelings.
• If he only wants to see you, talk to, have sex
  with you, etc., when hes inebriated, it aint
  love-its sport.
• Bad boys are actually bad.

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You deserve to be with someone who doesnt have
to get loaded to be around you.
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Hes just not that into you if hes breaking up
with you.

• You cant talk your way out of a breakup. It is
  not up for discussion. A breakup is a definitive
  action, not a democratic one.
• Breakup sex still means your broken up.
• He doesnt need to be reminded that youre great.
  
• He can take care of his own dinner.
• Classy doesnt break into his facebook account.

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Theres a guy out there whos going to really
happy that you didnt get back together with your
crappy ex-boyfriend.
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This is what the Book Suggests

• Do not go out with a man who hasnt asked you out
  first.
• Do not go out with a guy that keeps you waiting
  by the phone.
• Do not date a guy who isnt sure he wants to date
  you.
• Do not date a guy who drinks or does drugs to an
  extent that you are uncomfortable with.
• Do not date a guy who is married.
• Do not date a guy who is afraid to talk about
  your future.