Title: Identifying, assessing and understanding neglect
1Identifying, assessing and understanding neglect
- Patrick Ayre
- Department of Applied Social Studies
- University of Bedfordshire
- Park Square, Luton
- email pga_at_patrickayre.co.uk
- web http//patrickayre.co.uk
2- Neglect is the persistent failure to meet a
childs basic physical and/or psychological
needs, likely to result in the serious impairment
of the childs health or development. Neglect may
occur during pregnancy as a result of maternal
substance abuse. Once a child is born, neglect
may involve a parent or carer failing to - provide adequate food, clothing and shelter
- protect from physical and emotional harm or
danger - ensure adequate supervision
- ensure access to medical care or treatment.
- It may also include neglect of, or
unresponsiveness to, a childs basic emotional
needs.
3- Neglect is the persistent failure to meet a
childs basic physical and/or psychological
needs, likely to result in the serious impairment
of the childs health or development. Neglect may
occur during pregnancy as a result of maternal
substance abuse. Once a child is born, neglect
may involve a parent or carer failing to - provide adequate food, clothing and shelter
- protect from physical and emotional harm or
danger - ensure adequate supervision
- ensure access to medical care or treatment.
- It may also include neglect of, or
unresponsiveness to, a childs basic emotional
needs.
4- Neglect is the persistent failure to meet a
childs basic physical and/or psychological
needs, likely to result in the serious impairment
of the childs health or development. Neglect may
occur during pregnancy as a result of maternal
substance abuse. Once a child is born, neglect
may involve a parent or carer failing to - provide adequate food, clothing and shelter
- protect from physical and emotional harm or
danger - ensure adequate supervision
- ensure access to medical care or treatment.
- It may also include neglect of, or
unresponsiveness to, a childs basic emotional
needs.
5- Neglect is the persistent failure to meet a
childs basic physical and/or psychological
needs, likely to result in the serious impairment
of the childs health or development. Neglect may
occur during pregnancy as a result of maternal
substance abuse. Once a child is born, neglect
may involve a parent or carer failing to - provide adequate food, clothing and shelter
- protect from physical and emotional harm or
danger - ensure adequate supervision
- ensure access to medical care or treatment.
- It may also include neglect of, or
unresponsiveness to, a childs basic emotional
needs.
6- Parents who neglect their children basically just
dont know any better because of their own poor
upbringings. If we send them to a family centre
for Parental Skills training, all will be well.
7- Parents who neglect their children basically just
dont know any better because of their own poor
upbringings. If we send them to a family centre
for Parental Skills training, all will be well. - IF ONLY!!....
8- So neglected children who come into care may be a
bit thin, a bit dirty, badly in need of seeing a
doctor or dentist, maybe a bit wild. - But we can place them with foster carers for a
bit of looking after, a bit of TLC, a bit of
structure and everything will be fine. The
children will absolutely love it and will
immediately start to thrive. Simple really!
9- So neglected children who come into care may be a
bit thin, a bit dirty, badly in need of seeing a
doctor or dentist, maybe a bit wild. - But we can place them with foster carers for a
bit of looking after, a bit of TLC, a bit of
structure and everything will be fine. The
children will absolutely love it and will
immediately start to thrive. Simple really! - IF ONLY!!....
10Brain development
- At birth our brains are only 25 developed
- By age 3, a childs brain has reached almost 90
of its adult size and has accpmplished 80 of its
total development. - The growth in each region of the brain largely
depends on receiving stimulation. - This stimulation provides the foundation for
learning.
11Experience Affects the Structure of the Brain
- Brain development is activity-dependent
- Every experience excites some neural circuits and
leaves others alone - Neural circuits used over and over strengthen,
those that are not used are dropped resulting in
pruning
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15Poor integration of hemispheres and
underdevelopment of the orbitofrontal cortex
- Difficulty regulating emotion,
- Lack of cause-effect thinking,
- Inability to recognize emotions in others,
- Inability to articulate own emotions,
- Incoherent sense of self and autobiographical
history - Lack of conscience.
16Other physiological issues
- Serotonin emotional stability and feeling good
- Malnutrition cognitive and motor delays,
anxiety, depression, social problems, and
attention problems - Myelination
- Sensitive periods (infancy attachment)
17Emotional development
- Sensitive period for emotional development up to
18 months - Shaped primarily by the way in which the prime
carer interacts with the child - Emotional deficits harder to overcome once the
sensitive window has passed. - How often do we intervene assertively at this
point?
18Building a child
- Building a child is like building a house, each
new level built on the one below. If the lower
levels are unsound, no amount of tinkering with
the upper floors will make it stable.
19Checkpoint 1 timing intervention
- If we wait until we can see the evidence of
neglect in a childs behaviour, it may be too
late to put it right completely.
20Neglect
- Behavioural
- Constant hunger
- Constant tiredness
- Frequent lateness or non-attendance at school
- Destructive tendencies
21Neglect
- Low self-esteem
- Neurotic behaviour
- No social relationships
- Running away
- Compulsive stealing or scavenging
22Neglect
- Physical
- Poor personal hygiene
- Poor state of clothing
- Emaciation, pot belly, short stature
- Poor skin and hair tone
- Untreated medical problems
23Significant harm
- Harm is defined by Children Act 1989
- ill-treatment (including sexual abuse and, by
implication, physical abuse) - impairment of health (physical or mental) or
development (physical, intellectual, emotional,
social or behavioural)
24The child's basic needs
- basic physical care
- affection
- security
- stimulation of innate potential
- guidance and control
- responsibility
- independence
25Why do parents neglect?
- We need to understand the interaction between
- 3 Ns Nurture, Nature, Now
- Circumstantial factors and fundamental factors
26Why do parents neglect?
- Circumstantial
- Poverty
- Particular relationships
- Lack of skill/knowledge
- Temporary illness
- Lack of support
- Environmental factors
- Fundamental
- Lack of parenting capacity
- Deep seated attitudinal/behavioural/
psychological problems - Long term health issues
- Entrenched problematical drug /alcohol use
27Forms of neglect
- Howe identifies 4 types of neglect
- Emotional neglect
- Disorganised neglect
- Depressed or passive neglect
- Severe deprivation
- Each is associated with different effects and
implications for intervention - (Howe, D (2005) Child Abuse and Neglect,
Basingstoke Palgrave Macmillan)
28Emotional neglect
- Sins of commission and omission
- Closure and flight avoid contact, ignore
advice, miss appointments, deride professionals,
children unavailable - However, may seek help with a child who needs to
be cured - Intervention often delayed
- Associated with avoidant/defended patterns of
attachment
29Emotional neglect parents
- Cant cope with childrens demands
avoid/disengage from child in need dismissive or
punitive response - Children provided for materially but there is a
failure to connect emotionally - More rules everyone has a role and knows what to
do. - Parents may feel awkward tense when alone with
their children.
30Emotional neglect children
- When attachment behaviour rejected
- Learns that caregivers physical and emotional
availability is reduced when emotional demands
are made - Caregiver most available when child is showing
positive affect, being self-sufficient,
undemanding and compliant - Reverse roles, false brightness to care for/
reassure parent.
31Emotional neglect children
- Frightened, unhappy, anxious, low self-esteem
- Withdrawn, isolated, fear intimacy and dependence
- Precocious, streetwise, self-reliant
32Emotional neglect children
- May show compliance to dominant caregivers but
anger and aggression in situations where they
feel more dominant. - May learn that power and aggression are how
relationships work and you get your needs met - Behaviour increasingly anti-social and
oppositional - Brain development affected difficulties in
processing and regulating emotional arousal
33Disorganised neglect
- Classic problem families
- Thick case files
- Can annoy and frustrate but endear and amuse
- Chaos and disruption
- Reasoning minimised, affect is dominant
- Feelings drive behaviour and social interaction
- Worker may feel agenda co-opted by familys
immediate needs
34Disorganised neglect carers
- Feelings of being undervalued or emotionally
deprived in childhood so need to be centre of
attention/affection - Demanding and dependant with respect to
professionals - May be regarded as overwhelmed but amenable to
services - Crisis is a necessary not a contingent state
- Associated with ambivalent/coercive patterns of
attachment
35Disorganised neglect carers
- Cope with babies (babies need them) but then
- Parental responses to children
- unpredictable and insensitive (though not
necessarily hostile or rejecting). - driven by how the parent is feeling, not the
needs of the child - Lack of attunement and synchronicity
36Disorganised neglect children
- Anxious and demanding
- Infants fractious, fretful, clinging, hard to
soothe - Young children attention seeking exaggerated
affect poor confidence and concentration
jealous show off go to far - Teens immature, impulsive need to be noticed
leads to trouble at school and in community - Neglectful parents feel angry and helpless
reject the child to grandparents, care or gangs
37Depressed neglect
- Classic neglect
- Material and emotional poverty
- Homes and children dirty and smelly
- Urine soaked matresses, dog faeces, filthy
plates, rags at the windows - A sense of hopelessness and despair (can be
reflected in workers)
38Depressed neglect carers
- Often severely abused/neglected own parents
depressed or sexually or physically abusive - May seem unmotivated, mild learning disability
- Learned helplessness in response to demands of
family life - Stubborn negativism passive-aggressive
- Have given up both thinking and feeling
39Depressed neglect carers
- Listless and unresponsive to childrens needs and
demands, limited interaction - Lack of pleasure or anger in dealings with
children and professionals - No smacks, no shouting, no deliberate harm but no
hugs, no warmth, no emotional involvement - No structure poor supervision, care and food
40Depressed neglect children
- Younger the child, more debilitating the effects
- Lack interaction with parents required for mental
and emotional development - Infant Incurious and unresponsive moan and
whimper but dont cry or laugh - At school isolated, aimless, lacking in
concentration, drive, confidence and self-esteem
but do not show anti-social behaviour
41Depressed neglect case management
- These families need
- Long term involvement
- Supportive approach
- Responsiveness to familys signals and needs
- BUT these need to be balanced with a recognition
of the childrens needs. (How long is too long?
How much is too much?)
42Depressed neglect infants and children
- Must experience responsive and stimulating
environments that also provide human comfort for
a few hours each day. - The longer the child is exposed to helplessness,
the more intense and longer the intervention
needed to remedy the situation.
43Depressed neglect parents
- Must learn appropriate ways to show their
feelings - Practice smiling, laughing, soothing
- May be mechanical at first
- Genuine feelings will emerge with repetition
- As parents learn to show their feelings, the
childs responsiveness will increase virtuous
spiral
44Severe deprivation
- Eastern European orphanages, parents with serious
issues of depression, learning disabilities, drug
addiction, care system at its worst - Children left in cot or serial caregiving
- Combination of severe neglect and absence of
selective attachment child is essentially alone
45Severe deprivation children
- Infants lack pre-attachment behaviours of
smiling, crying, eye contact - Children impulsivity, hyperactivity, attention
deficits, cognitive impairment and developmental
delay, aggressive and coercive behaviour, eating
problems, poor relationships - Inhibited withdrawn passive, rarely smile,
autistic-type behaviour and self-soothing - Disinhibited attention-seeking, clingy,
over-friendly relationships shallow, lack
reciprocity
46Checkpoint 2 case management
- How should we manage cases of
- Emotional Neglect
- Disorganised neglect
- Depressed neglect
- Severe deprivation
47Emotional neglect case management
- Help parents to learn to use others for support.
- Teach parents to engage emotionally with their
children. - Must be highly structured as neither parent or
child know how to interact normally
spontaneously. - Fear of affect need clear rules roles
48Disorganised neglect case management
- Logic would argue for warding off crises for a
while so that families can be taught to organise
their lives, but - Family may want to have needs met, but cannot
delay gratification or trust logic and planning - Without intense demands associated with crises,
have no way of being important to others - Will CREATE new crises.
49Disorganised neglect case management
- Feelings must be addressed
- Need a structured, predictable environment with
no surprises where - There are rewards for clear, direct, and
undistorted communication of feelings and
accurate cognitive information about future
outcomes - Family can learn the value of compromise
- Teach parents how to use cognitive information to
regulate feelings (without denying them)
50Depressed neglect case management
- Involves much more than teaching appropriate
parenting - All family members must learn that their
behaviour has predictable and meaningful
consequences - Teach that it helps to share feelings with
empathetic others.
51Depressed neglect case management
- Our standard approaches dont work
- Threats / punitive approaches particularly
ineffective - Parents dont believe they can change so dont
even try. - Even most reasonable pressure results in
shutting down / blocking out all info. - Parent education may be ineffective because
judgment impaired and gains not transferable.
52Severe deprivation case management
- Highly unlikely to be in the childs best
interests to remain in the environment which
caused the harm - It is probable that the child and new carers will
require substantial therapeutic and emotional
support - Significant challenges often persist despite a
move to a caring and predictable environment.
53Capturing chronic abuse
- Judging the quality of care is an essential
component of any assessment but how well do we do
it? - Judgements subjective and prone to bias
- Intangible Difficult to capture and compare
- High threshold for recognition
- Neglect is a pattern not an event
54Capturing chronic abuse
- Judging the quality of care is an essential
component of any assessment but how well do we do
it? - Judgements subjective and prone to bias
- Intangible Difficult to capture and compare
- High threshold for recognition
- Neglect is a pattern not an event
55Our image of assessment
56The reality of assessment?
57Capturing chronic abuse
- Judging the quality of care is an essential
component of any assessment but how well do we do
it? - Judgements subjective and prone to bias
- Intangible Difficult to capture and compare
- High threshold for recognition
- Neglect is a pattern not an event
58The pattern of neglect atypical
59The pattern of neglect
60The pattern of neglect
61The pattern of neglect
62The pattern of neglect
63Cumulativeness
64Failure of cumulativeness
65Whats the problem?
- Chronic abuse and the principle of cumulativeness
- Files very long and badly structured
- Patterns missed and chronic abuse overlooked
- The problem of proportionality
- Acclimatisation (case, agency and geographical)
66Checkpoint 3 Acclimatisation
- Do you ever encounter acclimatisation?
- What do you do about it?
67The assessment of neglect
- An approach based on the Graded Care Profile by
Dr OP Shrivastava - GCP provides
- Framework for making assessment
- Baseline measurement
- An element of objectivity
- Judgement about care
- Reliable standardised evidence
68GCP users
- Health visitors
- School nurses
- Social workers
- Family centre workers
- Education welfare workers
69GCP uses
- Pre-referral assessments
- Snapshot assessments
- Contribution to CAF assessments
- Contribution to Core Assessment (parenting
capacity) - Self-assessment (parents and carers)
- Young persons assessment of parenting
- Tool for setting goals and assessing progress
- Tool to facilitate discussion
70Domains of Care
Stimulation Approval Disapproval Acceptance
Sensitivity Responsivity Reciprocity Overtures
Self actualisation
Esteem
Love and belongingness
Present absent
Safety
Physical needs
Nutrition. Housing, Clothing, Hygiene Health
Maslow, A. 1954
71What to observe
Nutrition Housing Clothing Hygiene Health
Quality, Quantity, Preparation, Organisation,
A. PHYSICAL B. SAFETY C. LOVE D. ESTEEM
72Grades of Care
Grade 1 Grade 2 Grade 3 Grade 4 Grade 5
Level of care All childs needs met Essential needs fully met Some essential needs met Most essential needs unmet Essential needs entirely unmet/hostile
Commitment to care Child first Child priority Child/carer at par Child second Child not considered
Quality of care Best Adequate Equivocal Poor Worst
73Example AREA C LOVE
Sub-areas 1 2 3 4 5
1. Carer
A Sensitivity Anticipates or picks up very subtle signals- verbal or nonverbal expression or mood. Comprehends clear signals distinct verbal or clear nonverbal expression. Not sensitive enough stimuli and signals have to be intense to make an impact e.g. cry. Quite insensitive needs repeated or prolonged intense signals. Insensitive to even sustained intense signals or aversive.
B Response Synchronisation Timing Responses well synchronised with signals or even before in anticipation Responses mostly synchronised except when occupied by essential chores. Not synchronised for own recreational engagement synchronised if fully unoccupied or child in distress. Even when child in distress responses delayed. No responses unless a clear mishap for fear of incrimination.
C Reciprocation (quality) Responses complementary to the signal. Both emotionally and materially, can get over stressed by distress signals from child. Warm. Material responses (treats etc.) lacking, but emotional responses warm and reassuring. Emotional reciprocation warm if in good mood (not burdened by strictly personal problem), otherwise flat. Emotional reciprocation brisk, flat and functional, annoyance if child in moderate distress but attentive if in severe distress. Aversive/punitive even if child in distress, acts after a serious mishap mainly to avoid incrimination, any warmth/remorse deceptive.
74Sub-Area Scores Scores Scores Scores Scores Area Score Comments
(A) Physical 1. NUTRITION 1 2 3 4 5
(A) Physical 2. HOUSING 1 2 3 4 5
(A) Physical 3. CLOTHING 1 2 3 4 5
(A) Physical 4. HYGIENE 1 2 3 4 5
(A) Physical 5. HEALTH 1 2 3 4 5
(B) Safety 1. IN CARERS PRESENCE 1 2 3 4 5
(B) Safety 2. IN CARERS ABSENCE 1 2 3 4 5
(C) Love 1. CARER 1 2 3 4 5
(C) Love 2. MUTUAL ENGAGEMENT 1 2 3 4 5
(D) Esteem 1. STIMULATION 1 2 3 4 5
(D) Esteem 2. APPROVAL 1 2 3 4 5
(D) Esteem 3. DISAPPROVAL 1 2 3 4 5
(D) Esteem 4. ACCEPTANCE 1 2 3 4 5
75Targeting Items of Care
Targeted Areas Current Score Target Score Timescale Reviewed Score
1
2
3
4
5
76Making an assessment
- Guidance provided (follow up scores of 4 or 5)
- Evaluates strengths as well as weaknesses
- Allows progress to be assessed
- A relatively objective measure
- Allows help to be targeted where needed
77Making an assessment
- Common language, common reference
- Objective measure child focussed
- Effective tool to promote partnership assessments
and planning with parents - User friendly
- Comprehensively covers all areas of care
- Child and carer specific
78Â Scale for Assessing Neglectful Parenting
(Northamptonshire)
- 179 individual questions under the following
headings - Food and Eating Habits
- Health and Hygiene
- Warmth/Clothing
- Safety and Supervision
- Emotional Needs
- Cognitive Development
- Educational Needs
79Â Example questions (Health and Hygiene)
21 The home lacks showering or bathing facilities
which work, and are available for maintaining
personal hygiene  22 The bath and basin are
dirty, or inaccessible 23 The family lacks a
toilet which works  24The toilet is regularly
left dirty or stained 25 Toddlers potties are
left unemptied containing urine and faeces  26
The kitchen is dirty (eg cooker ingrained with
old food, grime on walls, floor, kitchen
utensils, sink)
80Â Making an assessment
- Each statement scored 1, 2 or 3 according to how
true it is. - Blank spaces for Summary, Conclusions and Action
Plan - Lengthy and comprehensive list of relevant
factors - No guidance on making overall judgments
- Statements all identify weaknesses
- Allocation of questions to headings a little
eccentric at times
81Putting it all togetherThe chain of reasoning
- Facts
- ?
- Analysis/summary
- ?
- Conclusions/recommendations/action
82The chain of recording
- What happened/what you saw
- ?
- What this means
- ?
- What you did/what should be done (and why, if
this is not clear from the above)
83The chain of recording
- But how do you know which facts?
- Must be informed by a basic risk assessment
(would not always be spelled out on paper)
84Risk assessment
- The dangers involved (that is the feared
outcomes) - The hazards and strengths of the situation (that
is the factors making it more or less likely that
the dangers will realised) - The probability of a dangerous outcome in this
case (bearing in mind the strengths and hazards)
- The further information required to enable this
to be judged accurately and - The methods by which the likelihood of the feared
outcomes could be diminished or removed.
85Bias and Balance
- Include information favourable to the other
side as well as that favourable to yours - It is your job to make judgements but
- avoid empty evaluative words like inappropriate,
worrying, inadequate - Give evidence for descriptive words like cold,
dirty and untidy - Beware the danger of facts
86Bias and Balance
- Born in 1942, he was sentenced to 5 years
imprisonment at the age of 25. After 5
unsuccessful fights, he gave up his attempt to
make a career in boxing in 1981 and has since had
no other regular employment
87Lies, damned lies and killer bread
- Research on bread indicates that
- More than 98 percent of convicted felons are
bread users. - Half of all children who grow up in
bread-consuming households score below average on
standardized tests. - More than 90 percent of violent crimes are
committed within 24 hours of eating bread. - Primitive tribal societies that have no bread
exhibit a low incidence of cancer, Alzheimer's,
Parkinson's disease, and osteoporosis. - In the 18th century, when much more bread was
eaten, the average life expectancy was less than
50 years infant mortality rates were
unacceptably high many women died in childbirth
and diseases such as typhoid, yellow fever, and
influenza were common.
88Incomplete or out of date
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90Can you trust a snapshot?
91Assessment Pitfalls
- Parents behaviour, whether co-operative or
uncooperative, often misinterpreted - Information from family friends and neighbours
undervalued - Coping with aggressive or frightening families
- Failure to give sufficient weight to relevant
case history Start again syndrome - Not enough attention is paid to what children
say, how they look and how they behave
maintenance of a wholly child-centred approach
92A child centred approach
- The purpose of assessment is to understand what
it is like to be that child (and what it will be
like in the future if nothing changes)
93Information handling pitfalls
- Picking out the important from a mass of data
- Facts recorded faithfully but not always
critically appraised - Too trusting/insufficiently critical
- Decoyed by another problem
- False certainty undue faith in a known fact
- Discarding information which does not fit the
model we have formed - Department of Health (1991) Child abuse A study
of inquiry reports, 1980-1989, HMSO, London
94Assessment pitfalls
- Rule of optimism
- Natural love
- Cultural relativism
- Too much
- not enough
- Adult services and childrens services
(hand-in-hand or hand-to-hand?)
95Childrens services and adult services
- Working on the same case but not working jointly
- Mutual incomprehension and misunderstanding
- False expectations and assumptions
- Abdicating responsibility
- Need for interpreters
96Information handling pitfalls
- Keeping your head down
- Hesitancy to challenge other professionals or the
conventional wisdom - Tendency to move from facts to actions without
showing your working
97Challenge your dodgy thinking
- I am only a and he is a, so I had better keep
my opinion to myself. - I am obviously in a minority, so I had better
keep my opinion to myself. - We need to maintain harmonious relations, so I
had better keep my opinion to myself.
98But what is analysis?
- You have gathered lots of information but now
what? - All you need to do is ask yourself my favourite
question - So what?
- You have collected all this data, but what does
this mean, for the service user, for the family
and for my setting?
99Conclusions and recommendations
- Summarise the main issues and the conclusions to
be drawn from them. (The facts do not necessarily
speak for themselves it is your job to speak for
them.) - Define objectives as well as actions
- Draw conclusions from the facts and
recommendations from the conclusions - Explain how you arrived at your conclusions (Have
you demonstrated the factual/theoretical basis
for each?) - Consider and discuss alternative possibilities
100Conclusions and recommendations
- In drawing conclusions be aware of the extent and
limitations of your own expertise. - Conclusions may be supported by research (Dont
go outside expertise be careful with new or
controversial theories be aware of counter
arguments) - Your recommendation should usually be specific
(not either/or) - Remember conclusions may be attacked in only two
ways - founded on incorrect information
- based on incorrect principles of social work
101Conclusions and recommendations
- Problems
- Unsupported assertions or judgements
- Inability or unwillingness to analyse and draw
conclusions - Failure to answer the key question So what?
102Reaching a decision
- Often a decision is made first and the thinking
done later (Thiele, 2006) - As humans, we resort to simplifications, short
cuts and quick fixes! - We reframe, interpret selectively and
reinterpret. - We deny, discount and minimise
- We exaggerate information especially if vivid,
unusual, recent or emotionally laden and - We avoid, forget and lose information
103Good Assessments
- Are clear about the purpose, legal status and
potential outcomes - Are based on a clear theoretical framework
- Are clear about context and value base
- Are collaborative and promote accessibility for
service users - Are based on multiple sources of information
- Value the expertise and understanding service
users bring to their situation - Are clear about missing information
104Good Assessments
- Identify themes and patterns about needs, risks,
protective factors and strengths - Generate and test different ways of understanding
the situation - Give meaning to themes, using knowledge based on
experience/research - Lead to an evidence-based conclusion
- Use supervision to assist reflection, hypotheses
and objectivity - Are able to record and explain outcomes
- Are reviewed, updated amended in light of new
information
105Spotting the bad onesOrganisational Clues
- Mythology exists about the family this family
is/always/behaves like - Negative stereotypes about other agencies exist
so their information is discounted - Sudden changes about view of risk not explained
- Sudden changes of plan not rationally explained
106Worker clues
- Gut feelings says something is wrong
- Worker does not ask difficult questions
- Analysis does not account for facts/history
- Proposed plan does not address issues raised in
assessment - Practitioner is working much harder than the
parents to explain significant concerns - The childs story is missing
107Inter-Agency Clues
- Agencies have conflicting views of the
family/risk - Agencies have strong views but offer
ambiguous/limited evidence - Some agencies unwilling to share information
- Pressure to agree suppresses permission to
question / inter-agency acclimatisation
108Family Clues
- Parental intentions not supported by actions
- Parental optimism involves denial of difficulties
- Children's accounts conflict with parents
- Parents talk about their child is
contradictory/lacks coherence - Co-operation is only on the parents terms
109Checkpoint 4 So what?
- We have spent some time considering how to
recognise and respond to neglect. - What does this mean for us? What are the
implications for local services? What, if
anything, will be different?
110A final thought
- We are guilty of many errors and many faults
but the worst of our crimes is abandoning our
children, neglecting the fountain of life. Many
of the things we need can wait. The child cannot.
Right now is the time his bones are being formed,
his blood is being made, and his senses are being
developed. To him we cannot answer 'Tomorrow.'
His name is 'Today.' -
- Gabriela Mistral (Chilean poet, 1889-1957)
111Bonus material
112Working with resistance
- In many cases parents were hostile to helping
agencies and workers were often frightened to
visit family homes. These circumstances could
have a paralysing effect on practitioners,
hampering their ability to reflect, make
judgments, act clearly, and to follow through
with referrals, assessments or plans. Apparent or
disguised cooperation from parents often
prevented or delayed understanding of the
severity of harm to the child and cases drifted.
Where parents made it difficult for professionals
to see children or engineered the focus away from
allegations of harm, children went unseen and
unheard. - Families tended to be ambivalent or hostile
towards helping agencies, and staff were often
fearful of violent and hostile men. Although
parents tended to avoid agencies, agencies also
avoided or rebuffed parents by offering a
succession of workers, closing the case, losing
files or key information, by re-assessing ,
referring on, or through initiating and then
dropping court proceedings. - Brandon, M, and others (2008) Analysing child
deaths and serious injury through abuse and
neglect what can we learn? London Department
for Children, Schools and Families
113Engagement
- Engagement is the basic task of a child and
families worker but can never be taken for
granted and must always be worked for
114Context
- Involuntary work may be characterised by
- Guardedness or reluctance to share information
- Avoidance and a desire to leave the relationship
- Strong negative feelings such as anxiety, anger,
suspicion, guilt or despair.
115Context
- We need to accept that
- The best we may be able to achieve is honesty
rather than positive feelings and a high degree
of mutuality - Conflict and disagreement are not something to be
avoided, but are realities that must be explored
and understood.
116How might resistance show itself?
- By only being prepared to consider 'safe' or low
priority areas for discussion. - By not turning up for appointments
- By being overly co-operative with professionals.
- By being verbally/and or physically aggressive.
- By minimising the issues.
- (Egan, 1994)
117Potential parental responses
- Genuine commitment
- Compliance / approval seeking
- Tokenism
- Dissent / avoidance
- (Horwath and Morrison, 2000)
118Identifying resistance 4 categories
- Hostile resistance anger threats, intimidation,
shouting - Passive aggressive surface compliance covers
partly concealed antagonism and anger - Passive hopeless Tearfulness and despair about
change - Challenging Cure me if you can!
119Strategies for enhancing engagement
- Before you start, check your mindset (your own
biases and assumptions) - Have realistic expectations
- It is reasonable that involuntary clients resent
being forced to participate - Because they are forced to participate,
hostility, silence and non-compliance are common
responses that do not reflect my skills as a
worker - Due to the barriers created by the practice
situation, clients may have little opportunity to
discover if they like me - Lack of client co-operation is due to the
practice situation, not to my specific actions
and activities - (Ivanoff et al, 1994 )
120During initial contacts
- Adopt a non-defensive stance
- Be clear, honest and direct and acknowledge the
involuntary nature of the relationship - Clarify roles and expectations, including what is
required of the client - Explain consequences of non-compliance and the
advantages of compliance - (Ivanoff et al, 1994 )
121Try to
- Invite participation
- Understand how the client sees the problem as
well as how we see it - Understand what the client wants, as well as what
we want - (Ivanoff et al, 1994 )
122What might we be doing to make it worse?
- Becoming impatient and hostile
- Doing nothing, hoping the resistance will go away
- Lowering expectations
- Blaming the family member
- Allowing the family member to control the
assessment inappropriately - Failing to acknowledge our fear
123What might we be doing to make it worse?
- Becoming unrealistic
- Believing that family members must like and trust
us before assessment can proceed. - Ignoring the enforcing role of some aspects of
child protection work and hence refusing to place
any demands on family members. - (Egan, 1994)
124Avoid
- Expressions of over-concern
- Moralising
- Criticising the client
- Making false promises
- Displaying impatience
125Productive approaches
- Give practical, emotional support - especially by
being available, predictable and consistent - See some resistance and reluctance as normal
- Explore our own resistance to change and by
examining the quality of our own interventions
and communication style - (Egan, 1994)
126Productive approaches
- Helping family members to identify incentives for
moving beyond resistance - Tapping the potential of other people who are
respected as partners by the family member - Understanding that reluctance and resistance may
be avoidance or a signal that we are not doing
our job very well - (Egan, 1994)
127Confrontation
- In child welfare services, the Childrens Service
Worker must be a skilled confronter.
Confrontation is, basically, facing the client
with the facts in the situation and with the
probable consequences of behaviours - (Texas Department of Human Resources)
128A scale for assessing motivation
- Shows concern and has realistic confidence.
- Shows concern, but lacks confidence.
- Seems concerned, but impulsive or careless
- Indifferent or apathetic about problems
- Rejection of parental role.
129Shows concern and has realistic confidence.
- Parent is concerned about childrens welfare
wants to meet their physical, social, and
emotional needs to the extent he/she understands
them. - Parent is determined to act in best interests of
children - Has realistic confidence that he/she can overcome
problems and is willing to ask for help when
needed - Is prepared to make sacrifices for children.
130Shows concern, but lacks confidence
- Parent is concerned about childrens welfare and
wants to meet their needs, but lacks confidence
that problems can be overcome - May be unwilling for some reason to ask for help
when needed. Feels unsure of own abilities or is
embarrassed - But uses good judgement whenever he/she takes
some action to solve problems.
131Seems concerned, but impulsive or careless
- Parent seems concerned about childrens welfare
and claims he/she wants to meet their needs, but
has problems with carelessness, mistakes and
accidents. Professed concern is often not
translated into effective action. - May be disorganised, not take enough time, or
pays insufficient attention may misread
signals from children may exercise poor
judgement. - Does not seem to intentionally violate proper
parental role shows remorse.
132Indifferent or apathetic about problems
- Parent is not concerned enough about childrens
needs to resist temptations, eg competing
demands on time and money. This leads to one or
more of the childrens needs not being met. - Parent does not have the right priorities when
it comes to child care may take a cavalier or
indifferent attitude. There may be a lack of
interest in the children and in their welfare and
development. - Parent does not actively reject the parental role.
133Rejection of parental role
- Parent actively rejects parental role, taking a
hostile attitude toward child care
responsibilities. - Believes that child care is an imposition, and
may ask to be relieved of that responsibility.
May take the attitude that it isnt his or her
job. - May seek to give up the responsibility for
children - (Magura et al,1987)