SELF ESTEEM

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SELF ESTEEM
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Self Esteem

• What is Self Esteem ?
• Self esteem is the opinion you have of yourself.
  It is based on your attitude to the following
• Your value as a person
• The job you do
• Your achievements
• How you think others see you
• Your purpose in life
• Your place in the world
• Your potential for success
• Your strengths and weaknesses
• Your social status and how you relate to others
• Your independence or ability to stand on your own
  feet

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Self Esteem

• What is Low Self Esteem?
• Low self esteem results from you having a poor
  self image caused by your attitude to one or more
  of the above.
• Example you do not value the job you do highly
  or you feel you have no purpose in your life.

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Self Esteem

• Low Self Esteem - Here's what not to do
• Low self esteem feeds on negative messages and
  thoughts so Don't indulge in self criticism. Why
  are you joining the other side to wage war
  against yourself? Silence your inner judge.
• Don't always try to please others. It is
  considerate when you care about others feelings
  but aren't your needs just as important? Don't
  neglect yourself!

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Self Esteem

• Don't try to be like someone else. This leads to
  lack of self worth and confidence. You are unique
  and you cannot be someone else. Strive to be
  better yes but don't criticise yourself for not
  being as successful, as beautiful, as slim or as
  popular as somone else. You deserve better.
• Don't take life or yourself so seriously. Failure
  just means you are not successful YET. Everybody
  fails on their way to succeeding, don't look on
  it as failure but as a means to learning. Perhaps
  you just need a change of direction. Problems can
  make you stronger if you strive to overcome them.

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Self Esteem

• What is High Self Esteem?
• High self esteem is the opposite! It is a very
  important aspect of your life. If you have a high
  level you will be confident, happy and sure of
  yourself. You would be highly motivated and have
  the right attitude to succeed. 
• Self esteem is therefore crucial to you and is a
  cornerstone of a positive attitude towards
  living.

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Self Esteem

• Name Calling
• Laughing at You
• Making Fun of You
• Dont Want to Be Your Friend
• Start Rumors
• Tell You Things That Are False
• Saying What You Are Doing is Stupid

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Self Esteem

• Quotes
• Those who follow the crowd are quickly lost in
  it 
• You will always miss 100 of the shots you don't
  take 
• You cannot discover new oceans unless you have
  the courage to lose sight of the shore 
• The great thing in this world is not where we are
  but the direction in which we are moving 
• Luck is when preparation meets opportunity
• Obstacles are those annoying things we encounter 
  when we lose sight of our goals 
• It  is never too late to become what you might
  have been

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Self Esteem

• 6 Ps of Life
• Prior
• Proper
• Planning
• Prevents
• Poor
• Performance