Internet Safety

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Internet Safety

• An Oxymoron?

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What do these mean?

• ROTFL MoS or POS or POL or 1
• OMG PRW
• BTW PCM
• B/F or G/F WAN2TLK
• G2G SSINF
• H8 TPM
• JK or -) or ? WAYF or WUF?
• KOTL or X ASL or A/S/L
• STR8 YBS
• MorF WMIRL
• SUP? NMGOH WWW

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How About These?

• -( (((H))) -X
• -) (-D )
• -! -----) )
• --) _at_----

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Are you familiar with these?

• Candy Cigs Dr Ads to No Smoking Cigarettes
  warning labels
• Cyanide laced TylenolSafety seals
• Litterbug Campaigns
• Give a hoot! Dont pollute!Hootie the Owl
• Crying Native American commercial
• Pitch it in!
• Fire Bad!
• Only you can prevent forest fires. Smokey the
  Bear

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The Shift

• Children play in the toy section of the
  supermarket parents collect the children before
  leaving the store. OR Leave them at home and
  shop quickly.
• Parents children shop in separate stores at
  mall.
• Parents put children on a leash while shopping.
• Parents give children cell phone, to know what
  their children are doing at all times AND a
  computer to help with school work.

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Online ThreatsWhat do parents do?

• Parent Control software
• Have computer in a public area
• Figure children know what theyre doing
• Huh? They have no clue what is going on.
• I dont understand technology.

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Oh please, I know what to do

• Teens have the perfect combination of
  OVERCONFIDENCE INEXPERIENCE to get in trouble
  easily
• Teens may be tech savvy but are not usually
  relationship savvy.

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Numbers-They are Against You!

• 1996-2003, the FBI reported a 2050 increase in
  online predator cases opened (from 113 to 2430).
  2003-2007 showed a 2026 increase over that!
• 1 in 5 students have been approached in a
  chatroom
• Over 50,000 pedophiles online at any given time.
• The average teen spends
• 13 hours/week watching TV
• 16 hours/week ONLINE

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Let your fingers do the walking

• Instant Messenger, Chat rooms, social
  networking sites like MySpace, Facebook,
  Friendster, Xanga, online dating or matchmaking
  sites, etc. are the White/Yellow Pages for
  online predators

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Advice sites

• They also love those sites like iVillage,
  magazine sites, and other sites males and females
  frequent to gab about themselves, their problems,
  relationships, how to dress, how easy it is to
  befriend someone in these environments!

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Resume sites

• Even job searching sites like Monster.com can be
  a shopping place for online predators looking for
  the older end of the youth.

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Yes, Kids LIE on the netexcept in their profiles
because their friends read them

• Predators know this so they compensate by
• -subtracting 3 years to any age you give(ex.
  actually 13 is online 16)
• -finding out where you really are by your IP
  address just agree to receive or send a file,
  talk person to person, chat over a connected
  phone/microphone
• -searching your screen name
• -using their groups to share your info

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Safe Anonymous online is anything but

• On social networking sites, the URL listing
  contains their name or screen name they used when
  registering.
• This name can be searched and usually leads to
  other sites where information is not blocked.
• Even when a search leads to a blocked site, the
  cached information to be found there is NOT
  blocked.

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• Nowhereville Im from suchsuch private school
  I can show you around the city get out of
  Hicksville one day well have fun
• Phone map of house
• Pedophiles will take the time search and search
  and wait only surf for kids diff btwn 15 18
  dont want 18
• Danville Med Ctr higher s of peds not
  treated just released
• Search DramaChic no AIM profile but has a
  MySpace account theres all the info I need
• Talk to someone for 2 seconds Hey U, Hi, put
  string into search trace connection, MS-DOS
  Net Stat put in dynamic address, locate her, find
  schools in area Google Earth know area
• Make up summer camp story hey I know a friend
  of yours from camp want to see a pic of her
  drooling in sleep? Get IP address gotem (not
  same person oops G2G
• 30,000 kids cut class each day on the chats

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Pedophile symbols often in jewelry
Boy Love - Prefers boys
Girl Love Prefers girls
Child Love - Both
All encompassing pedophilia
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Searching for the next victim

• Your screen name is so cool that you use it
  everywhere for everything BAD MOVE!
• You cant change your screen name everyone
  knows it by heart!
• You dont check the advanced settings the
  program has the protective defaults set
• Your friends have you listed in their info so a
  trail leads right to you - BFF

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Dont talk to strangers!

• Would you let a 40 year old man
• into your bedroom at 2am?
• You know, just to chat?

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They WILL do the work
You may think you are hidden.Just because you
cant see them, doesnt mean that they cant
see you.

• But you can just be naïve and give them
  everything they need.

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But I didnt tell them anything!

• Profile address fake Boring Street, Nowhere,
  PA, 18201? REAL STATE ZIP
• CougarGal77 screen name
• Nothing to do here in this backwards town
• Saw latest movie name with friends
• G2G2 practice-game against teachers Thurs

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Back
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Back
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The Predator has all of your information nowtime
to meet
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Protecting AIM Some steps to take to help
protect AIM
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PART 1 OLDER VERSION OF AIM
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Got to the Edit Preferences Area
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Select an item on the LEFT and look at the
settings for the item
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Go to the Profile setup
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Make sure this box is unchecked click on next
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Make sure this box is unchecked click on next
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This area should not contain any personal
information nor information about friends
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PART 2 AIMS NEWER VERSION (6.0) Gee-looks like
MySpace
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Click on Edit
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Click on Settings
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Select an item on the LEFT and look at the
settings for the item
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Monitor all Messages by clicking on IM Logging
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Click on My Buddy Info
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This area should not contain any personal
information nor information about friends
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Click on My AIM page
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This page should not contain any personal
information nor information about friends
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MySpace
Notice Me!
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MySpace Monitor or Remove an Account
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From this screen Click on Help
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Scroll down this screen
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Click on
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• How do I remove
• my childs profile
• from MySpace.com
• --Follow the directions--

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Gone but not forgotten

• You can remove or block things from your site
• BUT whatever was already cached can still be
  brought up.
• So the lesson - NEVER post things you might
  regret in the first place.

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This also includes what you post about others too

• You can get in serious and legal trouble for
  posting bad things about other people.

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CYBERBULLYING
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CYBERBULLYING
SAD ANGRY UPSET DEPRESSED
VIOLATED HATED ANNOYED HELPLESS
EXPLOITED STUPID PUT-DOWN
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CYBERBULLYING WILLFUL AND REPEATED HARM
INFLICTED THROUGH ELECTRONIC TEXT
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A Cyberbully is often an adolescent who posts
inappropriate or rude things about a specific
person or otherwise harasses that person on the
Internet, in e-mails, through IM's, or though
other digital formats such as text messages on a
cell phone.
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• 53 percent admit saying mean or hurtful things to
  someone online.
• 42 percent have been bullied online.
• 35 percent have been threatened online.
• 20 percent have received mean or threatening
  e-mails
• 58 percent have not told their parents or another
  adult about someone being mean or hurtful to them
  online.

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More statistics

• 90 of middle school students have had their
  feelings hurt online.
• 75 have visited a Web site bashing another
  student.
• 40 have had their password(s) stolen and changed
  by a bully (who then locked them out of their
  own account or sent communications posing as
  them).
• Only 15 of parents polled knew what
  cyberbullying was.

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Cyberbullying is a violation of the "terms of
use" of most service providers. File a
complaint by providing the harmful messages and
ask that the account be terminated and any
harmful material be removed.
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IT IS A CRIME!
HARASSMENT Post something in public 3rd Degree
Misdemeanor 1 year in jail 2,500
fine STALKING Several communications are sent
directly to victim 1st Degree Misdemeanor 5
Years in jail 10,000 fine
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Other Consequences

• Get dropped from your ISP
• Trouble getting accepted into college
• Trouble getting a good job

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• Do not keep this to yourself!
• Inform your parents or teacher
• Inform your local police
• Inform your Internet Service Provider (ISP)
• or cell phone/pager service provider

• Don't reply to messages from cyberbullies
• Allow only messages from those on the buddy list
• Do not erase or delete messages from cyberbullies
  
• You don't have to read it, but keep it, it is
  your evidence.

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Today video
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If you are the victim of a cyberbully who has set
up a Web site that is defaming, or mocking you,
contact the Internet Service Provider and inform
them about what is happening, also inform the
police.
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INFORMATION THAT CAN BE GATHERED FROM A SIMPLE
EMAIL OF I HATE YOU
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ESMTP id eahnhaaa for needhelp_at_cyberbullying.org
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If you are receiving harassing messages from
cyber bullies through Web-based mail services
like Hotmail, Yahoo Mail etc., it becomes very
difficult to trace such accounts as
cyberbully_at_hotmail.com. You may have to delete
your current e-mail account and start a new one.
Tell only a select few people you trust about
your new e-mail account when, and if you choose
to re-establish one.
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SILENCE, when others are being hurt, is not
acceptable!
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Dont Feed the Bully

• Stay calm
• Dont show fear
• Assess the likelihood of violence
• Get away report physical actions
• Until something actually happens authority
  figures have no evidence a bullys parents
  loudly protest that their child did anything bad
• Have a thick skin sense of humor
• If you dont react, they get bored and move on
• Collect evidence
• Record altercations, print offensive material,
  get time, place, who said what, and who was
  involved.

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Questions

• How many days/wk R U in a chat room?
• How long do U spend in a room each time?
• What type of chat rooms do you visit most often?
• Do U use IM?
• If yes Whats your screen name?
• Do U have a profile?
• If yes, what did U type?
• Did U
• Allow others to search for U by common interest?
• Allow anyone to send U an IM?
• Fill out the screen for name address?
• Did anyone ever ask U for your real name, gender,
  age, school name, activities, etc.?

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RULES

• Stay away from any social networking sites
• DO NOT TALK TO STRANGERS
• NEVER
• Agree to meet anyone met online
• Give out any personal information
• Talk to an unknown screen name
• Call anyone met online (caller ID)
• Give out information to a CALLER
• Give your schools name
• Tell your location state, town, street, etc.
• Allow People to Search for Me in IM
• Give out your e-mail address
• Put friends names in your profile
• Talk P2P or send a file to a screen name esp.
  over fixed IP

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Visit these sites

• www.missingkids.com
• www.netsmartz.org
• www.Idthecreep.com
• www.fbi.gov/innocent.htm
• tcs.cybertipline.org
• www.pameganslaw.state.pa.us
• www.wiredsafety.org
• www.ISafe.org
• www.safekids.com
• www.iKeepSafe.org
• www.2SMRT4U.com