Journey to Love Attracting

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Journey to Love Attracting Building Loving
Relationships

• Smart Marriage Conference
• 2008

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Learn from Your Past

• Who were your first teachers and mentors?
• What have you experienced in your past
  relationships?
• What are the lessons youve learned?
• Make a list of your dating and relationship
  styles are they working for you?

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Release and Let Go of Your Hurt

• Holding on to your hurt only keeps you stuck.
• Anger is like eating rat poison, hoping the
  other person will die.
• Clear out the hurt.
• Open your heart to receive love.
• Write letters to release people from your past
  to their highest and greatest good.

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Own and Support Your Own Personal Needs and
Desires

• We attract what we yet dont know.
• Why do you think we do that?
• We need to learn the lessons!
• Relationships always give us the opportunity to
  grow.
• Get clear with what you want or youll keep
  attracting what you dont want.

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Create Safe Boundaries

• What are boundaries?
• How do we know what boundaries we need to set?
• Look at our past hurts to see what boundaries
  you need to set?
• Honor your own boundaries first, and then others
  will also respect them.

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Accept Your Greatness

• Love yourself first.
• See your own true value.
• When you see your own true value it will shine
  through for others to see.

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What Do You Want?

• Your past is filled with lessons and gives you
  clarity on what you desire in a partner and a
  relationship/marriage.
• Write down 10 of the most important things that
  you must mutually share with a partner.
• What are the deal breakers that are going to
  let you know he/she is not the one.

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Do Something Different

• What are you doing now to meet your potential
  partner?
• Is it working for you?
• Where might you find your compatible partner?
• Do what you love and live your true passion.

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Enjoy the Process

• Dating is meant to be fun.
• If its not whats actually happening?
• When youre really clear with what you desire
  youll attract it into your life.
• Dont waste your time or someone elses, if
  theyre not the one for you.
• He/she is someone elses treasure.

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Inform the Universe

• What do you do when you really want something?
• Write it down.
• Get focused.
• Create your relationship story 5 years from now,
  as if its happening right now.
• Read it out loud. Share it with a trusted friend.

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Step-by-Step Process

• If you would like a step-by-step process, you can
  do it all in one book
• Journey to Love
• Attracting Building Loving Relationships
• Workbook

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If You Always Do

• If you always do
• What you always did,
• You will always get
• What you always got
• Dont give up
• What you really want
• For something you want
• RIGHT NOW.