Title: Male Female
1Male Female Cultural Differences Love
and Hate
- PSY 230 Theories of Personality
2Studies do not support gender differences in
personality
- Anatomy is destiny Freud
- There are similar personality traits for women
and men and they do not really differ that much
personality wise
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4Real Measurable Differences
- Female
- Verbal Abilities
- Start talking earlier
- Larger Vocabularies
- Better in reading
- Better at Nonverbal communication
- More sensitive to nonverbal cues
- More nonverbally expressive
- Concerned Involved in child rearing
- Male
- Spatial Abilities
- Better at tasks measures of spatial abilities
- Mathematics
- Verbal Physically Aggressive
- Take charge in small groups
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6Functionalism - Darwin
- Behavior and thought evolve as a result of their
functionality for survival - Maternal Instinct an inborn emotional tendency
towards nurturance that was triggered by contact
with a helpless infant. - Womens energy expended in pregnancy, childbirth,
and lactation - Justification for Male dominance and Female
submissiveness
7Genetic Sex
- Determined at moment of conception when female
egg with X chromosome joins male sperm with its X
or Y chromosome - Boy XY-Androgen-sexual genitalia-brain
- Girl XX-absence of androgen-ovaries
- In fetus on Hormones influence sex differences
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9Turners Syndrome
- Child born with single X chromosome XO
- Have external female genitalia but no ovaries
- Remain fertile and sterile since not exposed to
androgen due to lack of Y - Excessive timid and feminine behavior
- Weaker mathematical and spatial skills
10Androgenized Females
- Genetically female embryo exposed to excess
androgen - Either masculine or ambiguous genitalia
- Tomboy behavior
- Need sex hormone treatment to develop secondary
sexual characteristics
11Psychoanalytic Approach to Gender Differences
- Biological theory assumes differences in
aggression, jealousy, passivity, rationality,
dependency - Males
- Castration anxiety-penispleasure threats
remasturbation - girls dont have it so - Oedipus Crisis-incorporate maleness
- Females
- Penis Envy , inferiority, jealousy
- Replace desire for penis with want for child
12Neo-Analytic Approach
- Erikson
- Males-active, exploring, warring, pragmatic due
to external genitalia - Females-nurturance, gentleness peacefulness -
due to internal genitalia - Horney-reverse envy of males for child bearing
- Jung-Asian Ying and yang-both in all people
- Animus-male archetype, analytical, logical
- Anima-female archetype, relationship part
- Androgyny consolidation of male and female
characteristics as most healthy adaptive
13Biological Approach
- Hormone influence the sexual characteristics
- Maternal instinct does have large learned or
environmental component - Evolution used incorrectly to explain why men
more sexually active than females
14Behaviorist Social Learning Approach
- Gender type personality characteristics are
learned through reinforcement, modeling,
conditioning, generalization, vicarious learning
other learning - Parent primary source of modeling, socializers
for sex-typed traits. - Peers, teachers, mass media reinforce
gender-typed behavior - Most influential model for child has most
similarities to child e.g. same sex
15Cognitive Approach-Gender Schema Theory
- Our culture and gender-role socialization provide
us with gender schemas - Schemas organized mental structures that
delineate understanding of abilities of,
appropriate behaviors of, appropriate situations
for men women, boys girls - Cognitive filters-process gender-relevant
information - Assumptions about masculinity femininity
influence perceptions interactions
16Trait Approach to Gender Differences
- Culturally prescribed social roles sometimes
identify different characteristics as masculine
or feminine in different cultures - Masculinity and femininity are not a bipolar
trait but two separate traits which can co-exist
in each one of us - Study Aggression, Emotionality, Achievement
Motivation
17Bem Sex Role Inventory
- Feminine high in endorse feminine
characteristics - Masculine high in endorse masculine
characteristics - Androgynous high in both M F
- Undifferentiated low in both M F
18Humanistic Approach
- Maslow minimized gender traits highlighting
self-actualization - Assumes psychological equality of men and women
- Differences betweens sexes become smaller as
societies give equal rights and opportunities to
women
19Interactionist Approach
- Gender-relevant activities are heavily tied to
demands of social situations - Helping-research males higher, not so?
- Nurturance, giving-female but cross culture?
- Sociability-no difference
- Nonverbal Behavior-Female higher
- Influenceability-slight female more
- Insturmentality vs expressiveness
20Instrumentality vs Expressiveness
- Instrumental behavior being oriented to
objective that are task focused and separate from
interpersonal system - Expressive behavior involves emotional
well-being of ones social and family group
21Social Roles Alice Eagly 1987
- Social behaviors that differ between the sexes
are embedded in social role - Social roles gender roles as well and many other
roles pertaining to work and family - Different roles that men women find themselves
in, specify behavior
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23Gender Roles-social roles based on gender
- Beliefs attitudes about abilities, activities,
and aspirations of members of each gender
role-which affects performance - Elicits behaviors that are specified by gender
role in wide range of circumstances making them
look like stable, internal gender characteristics
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25Same gender in-group comparisons
- Brenda Major 1994 found
- People tend to compare themselves to same sex
people in group and are at ease if their roles
are the same in the group - This can results in cross gender inequities of
status and pay - more likely ignored
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27Cross Cultural Gender Differences
- Margaret Mead 1935
- Argued that gender differences vary among
cultures produced by the culture through
socialization - New Guinea
- Arapesh-M F feminine nurturing
- Mundugamor-M F masculine aggressive
28Cultural Ethnic Differences in Personality
Perspective
29Culture
- Is one key determinant of what it means to be a
person beside the biological and social
influences - Cultural effects shared behaviors and customs
people learn from institutions of their society - Ethnic group cultural traditions
- Social class economic educational status
30Ethnocentrism
- Evaluation others from ones point of view
- Tendency to degrade or dismiss the different
practices in other cultures - Viewing habits of other cultures as strange and
even abhorrent using terminology e.g. heathen,
uncivilized, perverse, barbaric etc.
31Margaret Mead, 1929, 1939
- Observed children and adolescents in Samoa in the
South Pacific - Focus on childrearing
- Adolescence was a smooth transition to adulthood
based on effect of society on the individual how
the society approaches adolescence
32Beatrice Whiting John Whiting, 1975
- Studied Mexican Filipino children
- Found them helping care for their younger
siblings and cooperating in doing family chores
Grow up to be prosocial helping others - Contrast to competitive American youth
- Hispanic kids might do less well in competitive
school situations than would American kids
33Ralph Linton, 1945
- The Cultural Background of Personality
- A person comes to situations armed with much
knowledge derived from culture, e.g. boy from
hunting tribe finds self alone in woods after
dark will know how to build shelter survive the
night, even if he has never been alone or done
this before - People are shaped by their cultures and
subcultures are the same as those in the same
cultures and subcultures
34Bradd Shore, 1996
- In studying Samoans
- Only after he became familiar with the shared
culture of the community could he recognize the
differences in personalities within the people in
the community and see each person as a unique
individual with difference from other members of
the same culture
35Kurt Lewin, 1930
- Study of different style of leadership
effectiveness - Democratic vs autocratic(fascist)
- Morale higher in Democratic
- Task performance was not as high in Democratic
and higher in autocratic
36emic Approach vs etic Approach
- emic approach culture specific-focuses on a
single culture, understood on its own
terms-linguisticspecific language sounds - etic approach cross cultural approach, searches
for generalities across cultures- linguistic
universal ways of describing speech sounds - Various culture specific variables must be
considered
37Jungs Archetypes
- Found in mythology, religion, ancient rituals,
dreams - Collective unconscious depository of memories of
human evolution-guiding thoughts motivations
shared over time - Archetypes universal structures of the
collective unconscious-universal concepts at same
time with cultural variations
38Individualistic vsCollectivist Cultures
- Autonomous individual vs centrality of the
collective - Individualistic themes Western cultures
- Collectivist themes Eastern cultures
- Americans like lone cowboy
- Asians may like group leader, winning team
- Personal responsibility is not likely to develop
if a focus on collective identity interferes with
the initial development of personal identity and
responsibility
39American Dilemma Gunnal Myrdal 1944
- The American constitution stated All Men are
created equal at same time allowed for slavery
worth 3/5 of a man
40Racial stereotypingKatz Braly, 1933
- In racial stereotype test
- Americans industrious, intelligent, progressive
- Negroes superstitious, lazy, happy-go-lucky,
musical - Simplistic categorization by race ignores
promising concepts as temperamental differences
among individual cultural influences on
behavior and development
41SES Gradients
- Socioeconomic Status measure of peoples levels
of education income - SES Gradient higher a persons SES the lower the
risk of getting sick or dying prematurely - Social Class can have sweeping effects on
individuals
42Karl Marx 1818-1883
- German social philosopher wrote on effects of the
economic system on individual behavior - Marx belief many societal institutions served
mainly to maintain the economic power of the
elite - Saw strong socioeconomic influence on what it
means to be a person - Influence on thinking of Fromm capitalist
society must create a culture of consumption
43Language Identity
- Speaking listening are a pervasive mode of
interpersonal interaction in all human societies
a central part of who we are - Language is one of the defining features of a
persons identity-you are what you speak-keeps
out those who cant speak it and reinforces ties
among those that do
44Idiolect Dialect
- Idiolect each individual speaks a unique version
of the native language which is a form of
self-expression and part of personality
(Johnstone Bean 97) - Dialect variations between groups of people who
share regional or cultural characteristics-importa
nt aspect of group identity. Used to assert
speakers membership in the dialect group
prevents outsiders from understanding the
communication among members
45Example of Shared Language Culture
- Deaf community being deaf interferes with them
being able to fully communicate with the larger
society - They share their(sign) language inside their
group but not outside it become a linguistic
social community - Hearing family members are often not members of
this deaf culture
46English Only Movement
- Limiting all governmental communication to
English - Based on US citizens to full participants
contributors to society forced to become
proficient in language of majority - English embodies the essence of public life in
the USA. - Opponents say racist, exclusivist, bigoted,
undermines cultures-take away rights of
non-English speaking minority
47Linguistic Relativity-Sapir-Whorf hypothesis
- Our interpretation of the world is to a large
extent dependent on the linguistic system by
which we classify it. - Our language influences not only how we say
things, but even how we think about understand
perceive the world
48Pronouns and Status
- Each language community enforces norms of
politeness that are reflective of its view on
proper conversational interaction - You familiar used with intimates subordinates
You polite used with whom respect is due - tu vs usted Spanish,
- tu vs vous French
- du vs sie German
49Gender Language
- Many languages have different pronouns for each
sex for first, second and third person pronouns - Gender neutral language need to eliminate use of
male pronoun as default rather use gender free
term - Language usage influences how we think and behave
50Culture and Personality Testing
- Culture-Free Tests not dependent on culture
- Culture-Fair Tests control for or rule out
effects that result from culture rather than
individual differences - System of Multicultural Pluralistic Assessment
(SOMA) assumes test results cannot be divorced
from the culture-comparison within cultural group
rather than between groups (Jane Mercer,1979)
51Stereotype ThreatClaude Steele, 1997
- Threat that others judgments or their own
actions will negatively stereotype them - Testing situation filled with with social
expectations - If people believe that the test is not gender or
race relevant their performance improves- - Individuals identity depends on how they
construe the challenge and affects behavior in
predictable ways
52Incorporating Culture Personality
- Personality predictable behavior are
meaningless outside of a framework or cultural
context in which they are to be understood. - Erikson 1950 studied the Sioux-students did not
act like white students and were seen as
flawed-did not cooperate or do well in the
classroom
53Allport, 1954
- Bring culture in as a key consideration of
personality - Culture is part of what it means to be a
person-no people without cultures - Prejudice more likely during social change,
economic rivalries exist, government sanctions
scapegoats, traditions support hostility, society
has unfavorable attitudes towards assimilation
and pluralism (after WW1, Great Depression,
1930s, prior Vietnam War era)
54Impact of Culture on Us
- Impact on roles we are to assume behaviors
- Helps us set goals by way socialized
- Impact on cognitive sets
- Impact on way one leads ones life
- Impact on healthy way of living e.g. 7th Day
Adventists
55Impact of the Group on Individual
- In Japan success of society is seen as utmost
importance - Selflessness self-sacrifice of ones life is
admired Japan culture but scorned in US - American hero people who rebel against
overcome social expectations-Susan B Anthony,
MLK, Jobs from Apple
56Love and Hate
57Ethnological Theories of Hate
- Aggression product of adaptive evolutionary
process (Lorenz, 1967 Eibl-Eibesfeldt, 1972
1979)-fatalistic view, hatred is inevitable
natural - Hatred is innate since aggression was adaptive in
the evolution of our species - Natural hatred can be distorted expressed
inappropriately if restrained or
frustrated-serial killers have strict parents
58Brain Disorders Hatred
- Alcohol Drug Induced Brain Disorders can result
in aggression-murder, rage - Lesion on or near hypothalamus amygdala
(temporal lobe)-intense rage-sudden
uncontrollable - Low density of dopamine receptors in basal
ganglia-more aloof, detached
59Freuds Theory of Thanatos
- That all people have a death instinct
- Drive toward death self-destructive behaviors
- Projection of aggression-hatred paranoia
towards others - Use of defense mechanism to redirect thanatos
drive towards out-group of people
60Antisocial Personality Disorder
- psychopaths
- Violate rules and norms of society
- Have no or little conscience
- Lie to and con others
- Violate rules as youngsters pull wings off
insects, carry knife to bully others, destroy
property, fire setters, kill or torture small
domestic animals
61301.7Antisocial Personality Disorder
- Disregard for violation of the rights of others
since age 15, as indicated by 3 or more - Failure to conform to social norms or lawful
behavior repeated acts-grounds for arrests - Deceitfulness, repeated lying, use of aliases or
conning others for profit/pleasure - Impulsivity or failure to plan ahead
- Irritability aggressiveness, repeated physical
fights or assaults - Reckless disregard for safety of self or others
- Consistent irresponsibility, repeated failure on
job or to meet financial responsibility - Lack of remorse, indifferent, rationalize
hurting, mistreating or stealing from others
62Jungs Ruling Type
- Shadow Archetype Primitive, animal instincts
reside - Inappropriate or uncontrolled expression ones
shadow-results primal hatred aggression - Power complex could increasingly influence
perceptions actions until it is in control - Shadow Power Complex thinking-extroverted
(rigid, obstinate) typeRuling Type
63Adler Horneys Belief about Hatred
- Hostile hateful personalities developed during
childhood - Adler focus on early coping rejectionworld
inhospitable hostile - Horney children who experience extended time
when do not feel safe-shamed, embarrass,
punish-repressed anxiety-self-protective
measures-achieve power control over
others-neurotic trends to be aggressive
personality-move against people
64Eriksons view of Aggression
- Emerges during social interactions in early
childhood - 3 unsuccessfully resolved psychosocial stages
result in angry, hostile, hateful - Lack of trust as infant
- Treated in hostile manner as seeking autonomy
- Punished initiative thwarted rather than
realistically channeled
65Fromms Authoritarian Personality Type
- Existential Arises empty societys loneliness
alienation - Biological Cruel penchant for exerting power,
abusing and taking others possessions- Actually
want to cause the suffering of others - Social Interaction Generated by negative
relationship with parents-poor channeling of
drives
66Rogers View of Hatred
- Negative emotions stem from lack of positive
regard-parents especially - Lack of unconditional love and acceptance-especial
ly from mothers - Grow up anxious, afraid to realize full
potential-threatened by life experiences - Discrepancy between perception of self and life
experience-distortion of realityhatred and
aggressiveness
67Maslows View of Hatred
- Fears and doubts about self are root of
immaturity and hate - Comes from unmet safety needs
- Evil and Hatred not basic part of peoples
personality-from deficient environment - Child abuse, poverty, divorce discrimination
- Need structure regulation along with love and
feelings of safety to grow and change
68Hatred as a Trait
- Cardinal Trait (Allport) personality
characteristics highly influential in persons
personality and daily actions - Hatred aggression cardinal traits
- Cattell-factor analysis of aggression
- Eysenck-aggression related to psychoticism
- Feshbach(1971) empathy inhibits aggressive
feelings and behaviors
69Kellys Cognitive Simplicity
- People do not make many distinctions about other
people -likely perceive other people as similar
to one another - Authoritarian people might dismiss whole groups
of people as enemies - Hostility-results when concept of other is not
supported by evidence-try to fit or constrain
others to fit their concept rather than change
their interpretation of reality-distortions of
meaning of social interactions
70Hate as Learned Behavior
- Aggression is acquired through the same
mechanisms as all behavior - Hateful emotions are conditioned responses
- Hateful behaviors is modeled, observed, imitated
vicariously reinforced
71Love Explained by Evolutionary Psychology
- Love through the millennia developed because of
its adaptive consequences - Attraction to members of opposite sex necessary
for reproduction - Insure genetic transfer characteristics
- Ensure survival after birth
- Ensures that helpless child survives to
reproductive age
72David Buss, Evolutionary Psychologist Attraction
- Cross cultural characteristics sought due to
reproductive roles - Men attracted to suitability to conceive carry
healthy offspring-young,fit, healthy - Females attracted to potential fertility
genetic health based on attractiveness skills
to be successful to acquired resources-earning
potential- to support women in pregnancy
73Romantic Attachment Styles-Phillip Shraver
- Attachment learned during childhood accounts for
differences in quality of adult relationships - Secure lovereasily forms and invites warm close
relationships - Avoidant loveruncomfortable, trouble trusting
- Anxious-ambivalent lover wants closeness,
insecure, pushes others away
74Maslows Being Love vs Deficiency Love
- B-Love unselfish cares for the needs of the
others-more self-actualized and help partners to
actualization - D-Love selfish needy, immature
75Erich Fromms Types of Love
- Love humanizes people-overcome feelings of
loneliness-positive result of people joining with
people - Immature love taking of love overwhelms the
giving of love - Motherly love one-side, unequal-unconditional
love, asking nothing-gives stability security - Brotherly love loving all others-mankind,
reunites isolates self with others - Erotic Love short lived intimacy, satisfy sexual
need, alleviates anxiety, control or be
controlled - Mature love incorporates brotherly love and
self-love, each partner cares for the other,
sense of responsibility towards one another,
knowledge of one another, self-respect
76Rollo Mays Types of Love
- Humans are depersonalized by modern culture
technology - Violence dehumanization results
- Types of Love
- Sex lust, tension release
- Eros procreative love-savoring, experiential
- Philia brotherly love, liking
- Agape devotion to welfare of others, unselfish
love - Authentic love incorporates other other types of
love
77Cultural Difference in Love
- Match Making made on basis of
- Respect
- Maturity
- Potential for deep integrative love
- Physical compatibility
- Practical concepts about love
78Concepts of Loneliness
- Difficultly finding love and forgo meaningful
relationships - Difficulty forming relationships, trusting
others, getting close - Difficulty talking about themselves, disclosing
feelings, forming social relationships,
uncomfortable socially - Low in extroversion, agreeableness, emotional
stability - Negative explanatory style, see things out of
their control, view others negatively
79Attraction to Sexual Aggression Scale Malamuth1989
- Identify men who are apt to engage in sexual
violence towards women - Believe in rape myths-women enjoy rape, women
strong need for being dominated - Positive attitudes sexual aggression
- Lack understanding of humanness
- Lack empathic abilities