Title: While You
1While Youre Waiting
- Complete the following sentence stems
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- The student whose behavior is of most concern to
me is - Describe the specific inappropriate actions
(Avoid labels and generalities) that the pupil
displays on a regular basis. - My best guess as to the cause of his/her pattern
of behavior is that s/he - Things that seem to set off or instigate the
behaviors include - A signal or sign that cues me of an impending
behavioral episode is - My usual response to his/her inappropriate
actions is to
2Why Does This Kid Keep Doing That?
- Putting the pieces together to figure out the
reason(s) behind inappropriate behavior patterns.
3The intervention(s) that we select will be
dependant upon the reason(s) for the behavior
pattern.
4Why does that kid keep doing that?
- (to me)
- In your teams Compile a listing of the many
reasons why kids might fail to quickly, fully,
and continually comply with teacher directions
and/or classroom expectations. - Phases of the moon
- Partly cloudy, cloudy, rainy, sunny, snowy, hazy,
foggy, warm, chilly, hot, cold, calm, breezy,
windy, humid, dry, (Gordon on teaching I am
the weather.) - Televised wrestling replacing Mr. Rogers
- Space aliens disguising themselves as children
- Mimes (my personal view)
- Something in the water .
5SoWhat did you come up with?
- Perhaps Im unknowingly involved in one of those
reality shows I see on TV. - Part of a vast conspiracy to control the world.
- (Its not paranoia when they really are after
you.) - Payback for my actions in a previous life.
- A side effect of global warming.
- Im stuck in a bad dream and cant wake up.
6Ages and Stages?
- Transitional phases of human development?
- -Late Infancy to Toddlerhood
- Sleep/Toilet training (Superego meets
Id) Thank your parents - Limitations placed on newfound mobility
(Superego v. Id) - Learns to say the power word
- NO!
- -(pre)Adolescence?
- -Old age?
- -Newly Married.
7Ages Stages (Continued)
- Some characteristics that are common and expected
at certain ages can spawn behavior that is viewed
by adults as being defiant or disruptive. -
- An awareness of these expected age-based traits
can help us develop greater toleranceand remind
us to make use of positive and respectful
interventions that TEACH more appropriate ways of
handling situations.
8Common Developmental Traits That Can Lead To
Non-Compliance - Ages 6 to 12
- Wants to determine behavioral boundaries (for
psychological comfort). - Tests behavioral boundaries and constraints
placed by authority. - Asks Why? often
- Ego-centric Sees self as center of the universe.
- Wants desirable things NOW.
- Wants to do non-desirable tasks on own schedule
- Difficulty seeing the view/rights of others.
- Often doesnt want rules, turn-taking, sharing to
apply to him/her. - Thinks people (including teachers) often pick on
him/her. - Reacts to perceived unfairness or lack of support
by withdrawing or complaining. - Possessive Impulsive
- Thinks his/her needs desires should come before
those of others. - Its mine., I had it first., I want it!
- Wants success at meeting goals to come easily
- Complains that tasks are too hard.
- Expects to win games/raffle.
- So what behaviors do you often see that reflect
these traits?
9Common Developmental Traits That Can Lead To
Non-Compliance - Ages 13 to 18
- Wants to make decisions influencing his/her life
- Peer group influence exceeds that of adults
- Engages in actions to earn acceptance of highly
perceived peers - Attempts to gain positive attention from those to
whom s/he is romantically attracted - Highly concerned about personal appearance
- Unconcerned about neatness of surroundings
- Needs to project appearance of competence even if
not so - I know it already attitude
- Views education unrelated to interests as
boring - Frontal lobe in boys probably poorly developed in
comparison to girls - lowered sensitivity to feelings of others
- less awareness/concern for safety of self
others - What behaviors do you commonly witness that
reflect these traits?
10Other Reasons For Defiant Behavior
- Hasnt learned behaviors that meet school
expectations. - Learned other "right ways" to behave in certain
situations. Their (re)actions reflect practices
common in - low income areas
- culturally different / immigrant households.
- Emulation of behavior/responses modeled in the
homes or neighborhoods of the disenfranchised.
(A learned pattern of confrontational behavior
when dealing with authority figures in demanding
situations). - Knows the appropriate behavior that is
expected, but hasnt had sufficient practice to
perform it proficiently.
11A few more reasons
- Physical influences (SID, ADHD, Tourettes,
medication reactions) - Group influence/peer pressure
- Rebellion against authority/striving for
increased decision making influence over ones
life. - His/her initial attempts at performing the
desired behavior didnt work, so s/he
overgeneralizes and assumes that it will never
work with anyone at anytime in any place. - Surging emotions interfere with the display of
the behavior. When humans are under stress,
they often revert to behaviors that are most
familiar in those situations.
12Class IV section (Housatonic River, CT)
13Times When We Play a Significant Role in the
Appearance of Defiant Actions?
- Avoiding failure
- -feeling dumb in comparison to others.
- -failing publicly around non-accepting audience.
- Preoccupied by outside pressures our direction
becomes The straw that broke the camels back. - (Displaced anger)
- Fulfilling a role assigned ( maintained) by
significant adults (parents educators) - -bad
- -dumb
- -rude.
14- Frustration when educators interfere with their
present pursuit of a desired goal (completing a
task, reaching a stopping point in a game,
socializing, pestering another). - Directives assignments viewed as being
- -wrong
- -unreasonable
- -waste of time
- AND ones contributions/suggestions/contrary
views given no consideration by the adult. - A general dislike for each other between the
student and educational professional has become
ingrained. Each plays a continuing role that
instigates and escalates problems.
15Assessment Procedures
16Behavior Disabilities
- According to IDEA, we must engage in
investigative procedures to determine the reason
for persistent misbehavior IF - The student already has an identified disability
(any one). - If we believe that that student may have a
disability (be it an emotional/psychological/behav
ioral disorder OR another disability that might
be a contributing factor to the inappropriate
actions). - The combination of procedures is known
collectively as FBA. - FBA?
17An FBA is a set of precise and complex procedures
for
- helping the Committee on Special Education
arrive at the wrong conclusion with great
certainty. - determining the motivation, function, or cause
of the aberrant pattern of behavior. (Which
assists us in devising effective interventions.) - Some investigative methods that might be included
in an FBA are? - Medical evaluation
- Psychological evaluation
- Psycho-Social Assessment (ecological
assessment) - A-B-C Analysis
- Determination of the students Mistaken Goals
- (Oddly, rarely conducted nowadays)
- General data collection (behavioral recording,
checklists).
18- Steps for conducting all the evaluation
procedures that follow (A-B-C, Mistaken Goals,
Behavioral recording) can be found at
www.BehaviorAdvisor.com - Now for the A-B-C method for gaining insight into
a behaviors etiology. - Professionals engage in the A-B-C process in
order to determine the cause of repeated
behaviors that take the same (or very similar)
form and tend to happen under the same
circumstances. - This process is part of the evaluation procedures
of the ABA orientation. - ABA?
- .
19The World According to ABA
- All behavior is
- learned.
- A particular behavior is initiated by something
that happens previous to it. - Behaviors continue to exist because they
either - bring desired benefits (positive
reinforcement) or - fend off undesired events (negative
reinforcement). - Behaviors can be built, modified, or extinguished
by skillfully manipulating the events
and circumstances that surround
them. - We are one of those events.
- Behaviors are best understood by using the
- A-B-C method of analysis.
20A,B,Cits as easy as 1,2,3
-
- There you go again. Why do you always?
- An Antecedent (stimulus) sparks a Behavior that
is maintained by a Consequence.
21In order to prevent inappropriate behaviors from
being exhibited
- Assure that the Antecedent does not occur.
- Prompt (and promptly reinforce) a Replacement
Behavior that meets the same physical and/or
emotional need as the undesirable one.
22In order to extinguish a behavior, deprive it
of what keeps it going.
- Disallow the usual reinforcing Consequence (the
benefit, reward, or payout) and respond to
the behavior in what manner? - Punish it
- what is available to us often doesnt outweigh
benefits of behavior - generally ineffective and fraught with hazards.
- Ignore it
- Often difficult to do
- The practice is plagued with problems such as?
- Other pupils complain
- Other kids think that it is OK to emulate this
behavior - Some behaviors are self stimulating
- We frequently witness a behavior burst.
23How Does One Ignore Effectively?
- Ignoring will cause behaviors to eventually die
out (extinguish) IF - The student desires your attention
- All attention from all other sources is blocked
- You can withhold attention during the behavior
burst which often escalates to
extinction-induced aggression before ceasing.
24Ignore The Behavior While Telling Others What
Youre Doing
- Thank you. Yes, Im aware of that behavior and
I will be addressing it later. Im definitely
not letting it go. The rules still apply to
everyone. I will be dealing with that persons
behavior later during(some non-academic and
desirable activity). Now lets return to our
activity. .
25Situation The teacher asks a question to the
class. Raheem quickly yells out an answer. The
teacher tells Raheem to raise his hand from now
on (as s/he always tells him to do), but thanks
him for the answer and goes on with the lesson.
- Your Teams Task
- Identify the
- Antecedent
- Behavior
- Consequence
- Be ready to report how the teacher might
manipulate the A and C. Also identify a
replacement behavior that meets the childs need
for attention, power, prestigue, money, sensory
stimulationwhatever the identified need.
26Some Possibilities
- The teacher could eliminate the antecedent by
calling on particular students. Do so after the
question is asked, not before (Jacob Kounins
group alerting technique)...or else all the
other students will let their minds wander. OR
Students could be given dry eraser boards and
pens so that everyone shows their answer on
command. - Â
- The teacher might also change the consequence by
ignoring the answer ("I only hear the answer of
students who raise their hands and wait to be
called upon. I'm looking for a hand.") or
punishing "calling out" behavior (while praising
the hand raising of other students). - The teacher might also work with Raheem to
develop a new behavior to get the
reward/reinforcement. Each time Raheem raises
his hand (whether he knows the answer or not, and
whether he is called upon by the teacher or not)
he gets a point. Twenty points allows him to
present information to the class tomorrow, or
gives him five minutes of personal time with the
teacher (allowing him to receive the desired
rewards of either appearing knowledgeable or
gaining personal contact with the teacher). OR
Teach him a special hand raise when you WILL
call on him (limited to two per day).
27Rudolf Dreikurs Model
- The greatest human need is to belong. If we
dont feel accepted and valued in an important
life setting, we react negatively progressively
so, if issues remain unresolved. - When kids dont feel valued by teachers and peers
at school, they engage in one or more of four (4) - Mistaken Goals
- Seeking ATTENTION (If not getting enough to feel
accepted and valued) - Seeking POWER (Accepting negative attention)
- Seeking REVENGE (Resentment and anger from
losing the power struggle) - Displaying INADEQUACY (Lack of success brings an
end to the pursuit to belong).
28Its in your hands
- Right now, well take a quick look at some slides
outlining the Mistaken Goals method of
assessment. - Semi-complete versions of them can be found
inside your packet. - Later, theyll serve as resources as we use the
content of these slides to - Determine the mistaken goal of a behavior viewed
on a video - Devise interventions for that mistaken goal.
29ATTENTION SEEKING
- Pesky behavior surfaces when kids aren't getting
the amount of positive recognition they desire
for their attempts to be good. (e.g., starting
a task, remaining on-task, completing work,
arriving on time, being nice to others). - It is especially prominent in kids who
- Struggle academically
- Dont get much positive attention at home
- Desire it from you
- Have learned to be satisfied with negative
attention - These kids feel important if the teacher pays
attention to them and provides them with extra
services. - They might
- -ask irrelevant questions  -call out
frequently  -fail to engage in the task or stay
focused - unless the teacher hovers over them
-
- Assessing whether were right Address the
mistaken goal in a friendly, respectful, and non
threatening manner. This course of action
removes the power of the mistaken goal. Try this
phrasing using concerned, polite, non sarcastic
wording and tone of voice. - "Could it be that you'd like me to spend more
time with you? - Verification verbal acknowledgement or
non-verbal look of recognition .
30An Example of an Attention-Seeking Pattern of
Behavior
- While we watch the Amy video clip
- Identify the actions that evidence this stage
- Consider how we might intervene in order to
address - Her academic concerns (assistance)
- Her need for positive contact (attention).
31SEEKING POWER (our defiant kids)
- If attention seeking actions don't work,
resentful youngsters may try to make your
professional life miserable. - Â They might
- -argue  -contradict  -lie  -refuse to
work or follow directions  -throw a temper
tantrum  -tell you to "go take a flying
leap"Â -behave hostilely toward you - Assessing whether were right Using concerned,
polite, non-sarcastic wording and tone of voice,
say - "When you try to prove that nobody can make you
do things you don't want to do, does that mean
youre upset with us? .
32A Power Struggle with a Defiant Kid
- Which possible precipitating factors for the off
task behavior should the teacher have considered
before intervening? What might have contributed
to the students failure to copy from the board
as others were doing during that time? - Does it appear as if the student and teacher have
established a warm personal connection to one
another? Is the classroom a welcoming,
validating, and valuing place for this youngster? - Which of the teachers interventions were
counterproductive? What facets of her approach
contributed to the decay of the situation? - What might this teacher have done, or what might
she do in the future, to avoid the problems we
witnessed, address the mistaken goal, and
accomplish her instructional goal? - Consider how she might address
- His academic needs
- His need to avoid losing face
- (being the recipient of a public shaming).
- This video is available from National
Educational Services and is part of the Circle
of Courage (Brendtro, Brokenleg, VanBockern)
training packet.
33We have met the enemy
- and it is us. (Pogo)
- When we set out to Teach em a lesson., we
dont. - Teachers who didnt receive adequate behavior
management training tend to (over/under)react to
inappropriate student actions in either Hapless
or Hurtful (ala PsychoTeacher) ways. - Support and training for becoming a Helpful
educator can be found at www.BehaviorAdvisor.
com .
34Recognize that some issue is affecting
performanceSuch as?
- Feeling ill.
- Left glasses at home.
- Unable to do the assignment.
- Outside concerns brought into the classroom.
- Continuing issues with you that need to be
- resolved in order to build/maintain positive
- feelings about each other.
35Suggestions.
- Deal with issues in private.
- Stay in control of ones emotions.
- The greatest lesson we can learn is infinite
patience - never-ending persistence. (Franklin Delano
Roosevelt FDR) - -Use a civil tone of voice
- -Avoid put downs
- -Avoid saying that a task is simple or easy
- -not EZ for LD kid who forgot how to do it
- -not worthy of being taught in school if its
easy. - Never use a frontal attack on a superior
opponent (or anyone else for that matter). - Make use of the positive strategies from past and
future SPED 702 sessions.
36Research On PublicBelittlement / Verbal Bullying
- When people were publicly chastised, only 1 in 10
improved his/her performance. 9 of 10 performed
worse the next time around. - Publicly criticized individuals
- -felt increased self doubt regarding their
abilities - -resented the approach taken to address
- their actions/performance
- -felt dislike toward the ones who chastised
them .
37Positive Feedback Versus Criticism Ratio
- Real life is 3-1
- Morale problems set in at 2-1
- Despair starts at 1-1
- To promote appropriate behavior and positive self
concept, the PBIS.com site recommends a ratio of
5 positive comments for every negative one
(other sources recommend 8-30) with frequent
contact for each student. Frequent meaning... - (at least once every 5 minutes)
- Is you worst behaved student receiving a 5-1
ratio? - (or even 3-1?)
38SEEKING REVENGE (our aggressive kids)
- If attention or power seeking doesn't work, kids
may seek revenge against you or others. Their
belief "I can only feel significant if I hurt
others. I'm just doing what they've done to me.Â
I don't care if I'm disliked. They deserve this
behavior. It is a victory to be disliked and to
undergo punishment if I have retaliated and made
them suffer. - (Typically not done during a moment of
confrontation. The vengeful act happens in a
concealed manner or at an unexpected time.) - They might
-  -treat others cruelly  -set themselves up to
be punished via the use of aggression - -engage in pranks or vandalism behind your back
-
- Assessing whether were right In concerned,
polite wording and a non-sarcastic tone of voice,
say "When you did that, were you trying to ? - hurt me because you're angry with me? .
39DISPLAYING INADEQUACY
- Underneath the bravado of seeking revenge is deep
discouragement. The rejection by others
eventually makes them feel worthless. They
think "Why even try anymore? - Discouraged kids guard what is left of their self
esteem by removing themselves from public and
social tests. They think "If I pretend to be
stupid or refuse to cooperate, people will leave
me alone. - They might
- -avoid interaction become invisible in the
class - -passively refuse to participate in class
activities - -request to be left alone
- -sit silently and engage in no activities
- Assessing whether were right In concerned,
polite wording and a non-sarcastic tone of voice,
say "When you pretend that you're not capable of
doing this work, are you trying to make me - go away? .
40An Inadequacy Episode (or two)
- Gayles spelling test - Our student is behind in
reading, and struggles with written language. - Shelly - Lunch time for a student in the
inadequacy stage.
41 Another Way to Determine The Reason
- If the youngster doesnt respond to your
assessment question, you can still identify the
Mistaken Goal" via these guidelines - If you feel                          The student
is probably seeking Annoyed                    Â
               ? Threatened
                               ? - Hurt                                           Â
? - Disheartened (at inability to reach this
student)                        ?  -   If a student                                 Â
Then the probable goal is - Stops a behavior, but then repeats it ?       Â
Refuses to stop and increases the
misbehavior ?      Becomes violent or
hostile ? - Â Refuses to cooperate, participate, put forth
effort, - or interact ? Â
- What might be the mistaken goal for David? .Â
42Intervening With Mistaken Goal Kids
- Â 1. Explain that s/he is not the 1st kid to feel
this wayExperts know about this way of
feeling/acting, have studied it for generations,
and know of better ways for youngsters to meet
their needs. Help him/her devise a plan to meet
the needs in more appropriate ways. -
- 2. Change your actions when confronted by the
various behaviors - If the mistaken goal arises again, avoid reacting
in the same old way - Draw out, then positively recognize, the
desired replacement behavior - 3. Build a positive bond between you and the
student. How so? (Teams) - Create an extensive history of positive
interactions - Use sandwiches when criticizing or offering
suggestions - Be alert for opportunities to catch em being
good - State your belief in the youngsters ability to
succeed (academics behavior) - Interact in a manner that allows the student to
feel valued and respected - 4. Create Esprit de Corp in the classroom. How
do you do so? (Teams) - Conduct interesting cooperative group activities
- Allow only supportive comments in class. No
put-downs - Compete against other classrooms
- Implement a group reward system
43Specific Interventions for Attention Seeking
- Provide the youngster with acceptable ways of
gaining the attention that is sought. - Role play those new ways to increase the chances
of them being used. - Give signals/hints to prompt the behavior in real
life situations. - Set up a plan with the youngster which allows
him/her to earn time with you. - Provide the youngster with supports (e.g., a peer
who will help the youngster if academic
difficulties occur, a secret signal, etc.) - Remind the youngster of what must be done to get
your attention (e.g., raise hand). If this
action is not yet a usual response for the
youngster, upon its display give your attention
immediately (in order to reinforce that correct
behavior). - Verbally praise the youngster for displaying the
appropriate behavior. Wean the student from the
immediate reaction on your part by telling
him/her that you see his/her appropriate behavior
and that you'll be there in just a minute (after
attending to the other hand raisers first, or
finishing the writing of a note, etc.) .
44Specific Interventions for Power Seeking
- Avoid power struggles
- Stay out of the "Conflict Cycle prevent
escalation of    the event. - Dont find fault. Find solutions. Use problem
solving (www.behavioradvisor.com) - Recognize the youngster's need for power and
influence. - Involve the student in making decisions.
- Give responsibilities and positions of influence
to the youngster. - Use "I messages" (covered later today) followed
by questions - "I'm hearing some offensive language. Could I
hear that opinion restated in more restrained
terms?" .
45Specific Interventions for Revenge Seeking
- Design activities in which the student and others
(perhaps you) interact positively and
cooperatively. - Bond with the youngster.
- Give him/her the time of day.
- Build a friendly relationship.
- Treat him/her respectfully and supportively
- Expect resistance to your efforts at first. Be
unconditionally and persistently respectful and
supportive. Dont be a punching bag, but be
politely assertive in your reactions.
46Specific Interventions forKids Who Display
Inadequacy
- Offer encouragement and support to the youngster.
Do not criticize. - Focus on the putting forth of effort, not
accuracy or grades. - Set up the youngster for success and recognize
his/her efforts. - Blame any lack of success on the curriculum,
materials, or the way you taught the lesson, but
do not blame the youngster. - If minimal effort (or less) was exerted,
positively acknowledge it and focus on ways to
improve in that area. Devise ways that you can
support heightened exertion. - Have the student self-evaluate, identifying what
s/he did correctly and incorrectly. Then have
him/her develop a plan for improvement (or have
him/her redo the task well). Assist as needed. - NEVER show frustration. This reaction may
reinforce a sense of worthlessness.
47Other ideas for motivating the unmotivated
(Displaying Inadequacy)
- Modify materials and presentation.
- Ensure understanding by asking the student to
repeat the directions in his/her own words. - Check in early with the student to assure
understanding and task engagement. - Promote motivation by
- Focusing on effort rather than accuracy
- Reminiscing about earlier successes that resulted
from effort - Relating material to the students life
interests - Assign peer helpers/cross age tutors.
48Psycho-Social Assessment
- This information gathering process supports the
Mistaken Goals and A-B-C assessments, and helps
us to fill in the blanks. While watching the
multi-faceted information gathering process, - Conduct an A-B-C analysis for the two incidents
with the teacher (floor hockey game, classroom
independent work). - (Scott DVD 3 minute/Teams)
- While working in your teams for 10 minutes,
please identify - The Mistaken Goal (if apparent)
- Other possible reasons (as per the previous two
slides) - Services that might be recommended
- Interventions strategies .
49OK, now I know that the student is defiant or
aggressive because
- Hasnt learned behaviors that meet school
expectations - Learned other "right ways" to behave in certain
situations - low income
- culturally different / immigrant
- Knows the appropriate behavior, but hasnt had
sufficient practice to do it proficiently. - His/her initial attempts didnt work, so s/he
overgeneralizes and assumes that it will never
work - Surging emotions interfere with the display of
the behavior - Now What? .
50Whats the job of a teacher?
- Teach em what they dont yet know
- but what and how (behaviorally speaking)?
- Reflective decision making
- Problem solving
- Social skills
- Anger management
- Conflict resolution
- Character education, in order to
- Provide a solid foundation on which to base the
newly acquired social-behavior skills - Prevent a self-serving display of appropriate
behavior .
51How is teaching behavior like teaching academics?
- Determine the current level of knowledge/skill.
- (questioning, observation)
- Make the learning relevant useful to the
learner. - Make use of present knowledge/skills.
- Instruct, model, provide guided practice.
- Provide more guided practice (at least 20
successes to ingrain in memory bank) with
progressively more pressure. - Recognize effort progress.
- Re-teach parts with which s/he has difficulty.
- Source Mary Beth Hewitt, What Changes Behavior?
Punishment or Remediation. Choices
52Why Dont More Teachers Teach Behavior?
- They dont know how to do so.
- (Yet)
- Take heart! The process and procedures for
teaching new behaviors are similar to the ways in
which we teach new academic material. Therefore,
you already possess the skills needed to do so. - However, many teachers dont accept the premise
that behavior can or should be taught. Consider
the following points in a commonly found
school-based mindset. -
- (derived in large part from Jones, 2001, page
296).
53Infrequent ProblemsAcademic versus Behavioral
- Academic Assume the student was trying to make a
correct response that the mistake was
accidental. - Behavioral Assume the student was not trying to
make the correct response, and that the behavior
was deliberate. - Academic Provide assistance.
- Behavioral Provide a negative consequence.
54Persistent ProblemsAcademic versus Behavioral
- Academic Assume the student learned the wrong
way to do it or has been taught (inadvertently)
the wrong way to perform the action. - Behavioral Presume that all students are capable
of behaving correctly. Assume that this
youngster consciously chooses to misbehave and
be uncooperative.
55- Academic Diagnose the nature and cause of
problem in order to guide practice. - Behavioral Provide more negative consequences.
- Academic Determine a more effective way to
present the material within the classroom. - Behavioral Remove the student from the classroom
context. - Academic Provide practice, feedback, and review.
- Behavioral Provide no instruction.
56Final Assumptions
- Academic Problems Based on the performance after
instruction, assume that the student understands
the concept and can apply the skill. - Behavior Problems Based on no instruction or
remediation, assume that the student has learned
a lesson and should therefore behave correctly
in the future.
57With apologies to the Mahatma
- Be the change you want to see in the world.
- The school-based version
- Be and teach the change you want to see in this
world.
58Foundations for Understanding Behaviors (so that
we can teach better ones)
- (nearly) All behavior is learned.
- Behaviors continue to be shown because there is a
benefit to doing so. - Behaviors can be built, modified, or extinguished
by skillfully manipulating the events and
circumstances that surround them. - We are one of those events.
59When emotions start to Flare Remember