Title: Effective Tips In Dealing With Critical People At Work
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2EFFECTIVE TIPS IN DEALING WITH CRITICAL PEOPLE AT
WORK
3- No matter where people go, they will always come
across at least one critical person in their
lives.
4- And, whether they are right or wrong in doing so,
these critical people will always be quick to
point out perceived flaws and shortcomings in
others.
5- There will be people who criticize your
relationships and people who criticize your
school endeavors.
6- Workplace critics are some of the most
challenging to deal with because the worker is
forced to find solutions.
7- The following are some effective ways that a
person can deal with critical people at work
8EXTRACT THE POSITIVE ELEMENTS FROM THE CRITICISM
9Cutting down other people gives the critical
person feelings of superiority in the situation.
10Oftentimes, they are quick to criticize others
because of their own inner issues.
11Still, a criticism may have something golden in
it if you hear it the right way.
12A criticism may be able to tell you something
about your work strategy or your work tactics
that you werent aware of previously.
13Choosing to take criticism as a heads up to some
areas of improvement that you need to consider is
a sound choice.
14SEPARATE OR DISENGAGE FROM THE CRITICISM
15Another way you can deal with criticism from
another person is by disengaging.
16Disengaging from repetitive criticism is refusing
to let such criticism get into your head.
17You can simply tell yourself that you will not
allow anyone elses negativity to touch you.
18Learning to disengage from criticism may take a
while, but you will feel wonderful once you
master the process.
19KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS
20Kill them with kindness is a very old but still
relevant and often used saying.
21The statement, of course, does not mean that your
kindness will kill them in a literal sense
22 but it does mean that your kindness will kill
any destructive motives that they may have.
23A person will have a difficult time continually
tearing you down if you continually respond with
kindness.
24The browbeater personality usually grows tired
and moves on to an easier target.
25Eventually, the perfectionist will start looking
at himself or herself for faults and will,
hopefully, begin to work on themselves.
26BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF
27Finally, feeling confident about yourself and
your abilities is very important.
28One reason criticism may hurt you and cause you
to feel a sense of inadequacy or unimportance is
because of past experiences that insist on living
inside your head.
29You may feel that your work just isnt good
enough for your employer.
30Some of the same reasons that may be behind the
critical persons attacks.
31The best way to handle it is to keep in mind that
you are qualified to do the job that you have
been hired to do.
32You are as good as anyone else on the job and you
should never feel bad because someone tells you
that you need to improve on something.
33Recognize that it is an opportunity for growth
which is important in all aspects of life.
34Positive self-talk is one of the best ways to
combat criticism besides turning it around and
into something positive.
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