What Women Think When Talking to You

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What Women Think When Talking to You

• Are you just starting out in a relationship and
  want to know how to make it stronger? Have you
  been known to jump into a physical relationship
  only to later wonder why it failed? When is it
  appropriate to start having sex in a
  relationship? If you are searching for the
  answers to these questions, this article will
  give you a clear idea on how to properly
  strengthen your relationship.
• Passion is a really hard thing to fight. It is so
  easy to give in and start having sex early in a
  relationship. After all, it is what you are
  feeling, right? However, men and women simply
  don't look at sex the same. Women can very
  quickly fall in love after having sex. Men can
  very easily separate love and sex. So, when a
  woman gives into sex too quickly, men tend to
  think that the woman isn't interested in a
  serious relationship.
• This really clashes with the social norm of women
  being allowed to have a more active sex life.
  Today, women are allowed to admit that they like
  having sex and aren't looked at badly for having
  sex before being married. This is a very far
  picture from the way things used to be. However,
  if you are looking for more than just a fling, it
  really is important that you hold off on having
  sex early on in the relationship.

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• Waiting to have sex serves two main purposes. The
  first is that weeds out the guys who are just
  looking for another notch in their belts. To put
  it more bluntly, you are avoiding the guys that
  are just looking for a sex partner. The second
  thing that you are accomplishing is that waiting
  to have sex allows you and your guy to build an
  emotional relationship first.
• Building a relationship outside of sex gives you
  a bond that is much stronger than that of a
  physical bond. A loving emotional bond is what
  keeps people together. You are now not just
  lovers, you are friends first. Being friends
  helps the two of you to take each other's
  feelings into consideration during many of the
  relationship trials. All of this is done without
  the distraction of a physical relationship.
• Once the two of you have committed to only seeing
  each other and you truly feel that there is a
  strong emotional bond on both ends, it is up to
  you as to when to start a physical relationship.
  If you can get through the desires to have sex
  early in the relationship, you will find that you
  have one that is much more fulfilling.

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• We've been taught that men want a seductive and
  sexually generous woman and many have fallen into
  the trap of using their bodies to go fishing.
  There is a cultural message that women should no
  longer have restraints when it comes to dealing
  with the opposite sex. We are to be
  super-charged, aggressive, and exercise our
  sexual rights - now that we are free, we should
  do whatever we want with our bodies.
• But does this type of mentality really work with
  men? Do men really want the take-charge, sexually
  generous image that we see everyday? My answer is
  no. Men love to look at the object of a sexually
  powerful woman and some may not even mind having
  some free for all non-committed friends with
  benefits sex, but when it comes to dating or
  getting him to think about marriage, real men
  want quality women - women they can truly
  respect.
• This doesn't mean you can't have sex. Just know
  that sex alone won't make him want to marry you.
  If you've been his girlfriend for a while and
  he's not indicating where things are going, it is
  because he's more interested in being physically
  gratified because of the pattern you've scripted
  inside his psyche.

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• In conversations with women that successfully get
  you a phone number, a kiss, or more, three
  elements are required. These elements are to
  laugh, listen, lead. Learning how to use these
  elements will revolutionize your whole approach
  with women. When you have the Erect On Demand
  Review self-assurance to laugh, smile and be
  positive when you talk with a woman, you make her
  feel special and sexy. Your ability to make a
  woman laugh and enjoy herself during a
  conversation also helps her to form a very
  positive outlook about you.
• No doubt you've read plenty of women's magazines
  telling you your sexuality is wrapped up in being
  lbs, zero cellulite, inflated boobs and legs that
  go on forever. We've been taught that men want a
  seductive and sexually generous woman and many
  have fallen into the trap of using their bodies
  to go fishing. There is a cultural message that
  women should no longer have restraints when it
  comes to dealing with the opposite sex.
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