Three Secrets to Supercharging Your Marriage Now

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Three Secrets to Supercharging Your Marriage Now
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• As anyone who is married or has been married will
  tell you, marriage can be one of the most amazing
  things on the planet. But at the same time, it
  can also be an incredibly challenging thing.
  Simply put, two human beings spending the
  majority of their time together, making massive
  and critical decisions together, sharing the same
  bank account, raising the same children, living
  in the same house, sharing a room, and sleeping
  on the same bed for years or decades is not an
  easy thing for anyone. While a good marriage can
  bring you a level of harmony and strength that
  goes beyond anything else in the world, a failing
  relationship can bring the strongest of people to
  their knees. There are three incredibly simple
  secrets that when applied on a consistent basis
  will absolutely supercharge your marriage,
  supercharge your relationship and ensure a
  beautiful and lasting marriage.

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Secret 1 Play together
Couples who play together, thrive together In
any relationship, the most important thing for a
couple to do together is to simply have fun
together. In fact, isnt that how your
relationship started? Most of us met the person
we love in a playful and fun environment. Even if
you met your significant other at work, school,
or another setting where play was not necessarily
the primary objective, if you think back, you
will recognize that even in that environment, you
met and fell in love while playing. Therefore, it
makes sense that playing together today should be
one of your primary objectives. Unfortunately,
many couples lose interest in playing together
because their interests change or they are
unwilling to take part in the type of play that
their significant other enjoys.
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Secret 1 Play together Cont.
If you are reading this article as a couple, I
recommend you spend time trying to do the things
that you both enjoy doing together. Most of you,
however, are reading this article by yourself and
as you read this, the tendency will be for you to
think about all the things you want your
significant other to do with you. For example, a
man reading this article might wish that his wife
enjoyed Monday Night Football as much as he does,
while some women reading this would say they
wished their husband could enjoy more of the
movies or TV shows they enjoy watching. But the
reality is that while you cannot change your
spouses behavior, you can certainly change your
own behavior. Therefore, come up with a list of
three things that your husband or wife loves to
do that you could try to take more of an interest
in them and ensure that you spend more time
playing together. Start with this and youre on
your way to supercharging your relationship.
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Secret 2 Learn together
Couples who learn together, grow together Ask
anyone who is married for more than 10 years and
went through a divorce and they will tell you the
most important factor was that they simply grew
apart. When I hear that, it makes me wonder if
they were both growing, why didnt they grow
together instead of apart?  The fact is if you
spend time learning together and doing things
that help you both expand your mind and body, you
can grow together in a similar direction. Not
only will you gain power as an individual, but
attain massive power as a couple. Growing
together could be as simple as spending time in
the same room reading books and then spending two
or three minutes each telling the other person
what youve learned from the book that youre
reading.
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Secret 2  Learn together Cont.
This does not have to be mechanical or robotic in
any way, meaning you do not need to give each
other an official review of the book. It just
means that as youre reading, you turn to the
other person and tell them about some of the cool
things that youve just learned or recognized as
a result of reading that book. Your books could
be about completely different topics and even
those that your significant other is not at all
interested. It does not matter because this time
spent learning together means that you are now
growing together, not apart.
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Secret 2  Learn together Cont.
Additionally, spend time working in the same room
but doing your own individual things. Do this
often and supercharging your relationship will
not seem like much of a struggle. For example,
you could take one hour every night and work
independently on your laptops on the things that
will help you make advances in your career. But
do it sitting at the same desk or kitchen table.
You can even turn to each other every few minutes
and ask a question or make a comment. While this
may not seem like a big thing, consider that
spending just one hour per night working together
means that at the end of the year, you will have
spent over 350 hours being productive and being
together.
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Secret 2 Learn together Cont.

• The power of this may not be immediately seen
  until you consider that this is the equivalent of
  46 workdays per year if you work an eight-hour
  shift. Considering that most individuals work
  about 22 days out of the month, that means that
  with this simple change, you have essentially
  added over two months of productive worktime to
  your career, but you have done this together.
  This is what is referred to as NET time. NET
  time means no extra time. Imagine what you could
  accomplish in your career if you had 14 months in
  a year, while everyone else had twelve.  Also
  imagine what it would do to your relationship if
  you spent these two extra months that no one else
  has together, learning together, and growing
  together. Do this and youre even closer
  to supercharging your relationship.

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Secret 3 Stand together
Couples who stand together, stay together. When
I fell in love with my princess 10 years ago and
decided to marry her, I had no rules and did not
ask much of her. However, there was one request
that I made. I even asked if she would be willing
to make it a rule in our relationship.  That
simple rule was that no matter what, we would
always stand together and be on the same team,
even if one of us was wrong. I learned this
through my years of experience as an entrepreneur
and having studied successful businesses.
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Secret 3  Stand together Cont.
In the most successful companies in the world,
the top level management often spends time in a
boardroom battling things out with extreme
passion, including loud voices and even people
pounding their fists on a conference table. But
the moment they walk out of that room, they stand
as one unit with one unified message. To the rest
of the company and the world, there is nothing on
which they do not agree. This, by the way, is why
they pound their fists on the conference table,
because they know that this moment is the last
time they can disagree with what someone is
saying. If they do not disagree right then and
they do not get their point across at that
moment, they know that they must agree with that
publicly and they cannot disagree in any way,
shape, or form.
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Secret 3  Stand together Cont.
In the most successful relationships, we find the
same thing. Couples in incredible relationships
focus on always standing together. That means you
never complain to your friends, family, and
allies about things which you disagree with your
significant other. You may disagree with them,
but you never disagree with them publicly. And
while they may have done something to hurt you,
upset you, or even throw you to the brink of
madness, you do not tell any of your allies
about this. That means you do not go to your
friends, family members, or colleagues with the
things your significant other has done wrong.
This may seem tough but its a critical secret to
supercharging your relationship.
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Secret 3 Stand together Cont.

• When I say this to couples, immediately I get
  asked the question of, Then who can I talk to?
  The answer is that ideally, if you ever have
  these issues come up, you can talk to your
  significant others allies, such as their family,
  closest friends, and colleagues. While your
  allies are going to give you bad advice and
  always defend your point of view, his or her
  allies will be a bit more even-handed. More
  importantly, your allies have absolutely no power
  to get him or her to make significant changes,
  while his or her allies have influence over him
  or her. That means your efforts might actually
  work, unlike telling your own friends about your
  problems.

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Secret 3 Stand together Cont.

• Apply these three simple secrets and watch how
  your relationship will thrive. The most
  successful couples in the world have learned
  these three master secrets and apply them on a
  daily basis. Remember that couples who play
  together, thrive together. Couples who learn
  together, grow together. Finally, couples
  who stand together, stay together. Put all of
  these together and couples who care enough about
  their relationship to apply these three simple
  secrets get the benefits of enjoying an
  incredible relationship full of growth, fun, and
  strength. Apply these in your relationship and
  remember to start with yourself, not your
  significant other. Enjoy supercharging your
  relationship!

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