Failure is not the End of everything

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Failure Is Not The End
By Anshu E-Mail dreampinch_at_gmail.com Blog
www.dreampinch.com
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• I failed. My life is useless now.
• I am no more a useful person to anyone.
• I cant achieve anything in my life.
• I wasted so much money and so much time.
• I broke someones trust.
• This is the end of my life.
• I should die.
• Anyone who is facing failure trauma usually piled
  up with these odd kind of thoughts.

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• Every one of us faced failure someday and may
  face it in the future, because human life starts
  with learning and failure is the key to learning
  and Ultimately learning is the key to success.
• Just facing failure is not the key to success,
  but learning from failure and gracefully emerging
  out of the failure instead of quitting from the
  situation, is the next path toward success.

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• During my engineering course, I remain in the top
  three students of the class. So I always thought
  that I would get job very easily.
• But when I became the part of the battle, I
  failed. I failed twenty four times. I faced
  twenty four software companys interview
  sessions, but I failed.
• After that I got jobs back to back in five
  multinational companies. After each failure I
  cried a lot, but never dying attitude helped me
  to win.
• During that tough time I get to know that its
  not an easy task to overcome failure trauma but
  neither its too tough.

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• If someone has been the victim of failure, he/she
  doesnt easily get the way to come out from this
  stigma. Many people suffer from depression.
• The victims mind tries to find the easiest way
  to get out of the situation - get disappear from
  the world, in short suicide.
• This situation becomes worse for teens. Even
  sometimes, parents dont know how to deal with
  this thing. So if youll know the way to deal
  with failure, you will never have a fear of
  failure, which may stop you from pursuing your
  dream.
• So instead of diving into the depression world,
  lets find out a way to deal with the word
  Failure.

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• Failure could be of any type Failure in love,
  failure in education, failure in relationships,
  failure in career, etc. Human efforts are prone
  to errors and failures.
• If you just faced failure or if in future you
  face failure any day, follow the below 7 steps
  plan
• Step 1 Keep a hankie as your companion with you.
  Cry out aloud in your room, feel all the odd
  things which happened to you.

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• Step 2 Share it with your nearer one, with whom
  you feel comfortable in sharing the problem. They
  can be your parents, friends, and spouse.
• If you find uneasy to share this in person write
  a letter or write an e-mail to them.
• If you really do not want to share it with
  anyone, write your all grudges on a blank paper
  (dont try to write it in proper language, just
  make it easy) and keep that paper in a safe place
  because in future when you will read this, you
  will laugh at it.

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• Step 3 Give a treat to yourself. Do what you
  love. Enjoy good food, do shopping, watch movies,
  listen music or just follow your hobby.

Step 4 Failures first fear is, what people
would say? So face it. Whenever people discuss
about your failure, just take it easy and laugh
along with people.
Step 5 Do analysis of your failure. Ask yourself
a series of questions. What I did wrong? I would
not have failed, if I have done this.
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• Step 6 Its fine, you failed but from now start
  trying to find new ways and new options to get
  success. Do complete research. You can take more
  days because this step/process matters a lot for
  future action plans. At the end finalize the way
  you want to choose to work upon or if you want to
  do totally new thing choose the new destination.

Step 7 Gear up yourself for the new work. Do
complete researches for new work, read inspiring
stories, try to keep positive environment around
you. Try to be away from negative thoughts. Go
ahead with the above plan and break the failure
stigma suit. It is a tough process but not
impossible.
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• Say to yourself I can accept failure, but cant
  accept quitting.
• Lesson Failure is the part of effort, but make
  sure, you keep the things always in mind which
  caused failure for you and vow not to follow the
  same.

• Share with me Please share your story or your
  way. What you did when you faced failure. How you
  overcame and started walking again. You never
  know, maybe your story can help someone to
  overcome his/her odd time. You own way can
  inspire someone to shrug off the failure.
• Send me your mail at dreampinch_at_gmail.com

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• Thank You

By Anshu E-Mail dreampinch_at_gmail.com Blog
www.dreampinch.com