Should Sexual Fantasies Be Shared With Your Partner

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Should Sexual Fantasies Be Shared With Your
Partner?

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Deciding whether to share your sexual fantasies
with your partner is an important decision each
person needs to make for themselves. In some
cases, sharing the details can help strengthen
your relationship and increase the level of
intimacy both people feel

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On the other hand, sharing too much information
or certain types of fantasies could lead to a
less than desirable outcome or result in less
frequent sexual encounters. If you are
contemplating about sharing details of certain
sexual fantasies with your partner

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But are not sure how receptive they will be or
how they will react, it is best to seek outside
advice from a qualified psychotherapist, who
specializes in sexual therapy in Toronto, like
me, Ellen Starr. Being able to talk about your
fantasies with a therapist helps provide
additional insight about your sexual preferences
and desires, without risking your relationship.

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It is not uncommon for some people, who have
fully satisfying sexual relationships to never
speak about their fantasies with each other.
Rather, during the peak of their arousal, some
people are actually thinking about their
fantasies and as a result, increase the level of
passion between the couple.

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In addition, you do not have to feel like you
will be judged or made to feel uncomfortable
while speaking with your therapist. My objective
is to create a safe, secure, and comfortable
environment where you can feel relaxed and open
about talking about whatever fantasies you might
have, while at the same time helping you
determine if it is in your best interests to
share these with your partner.

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Should you decide to share some or all of your
sexual fantasies with your partner, your sexual
therapist is there to help guide you through this
process. For instance, they might offer
suggestions on how to approach the subject with
your partner, without giving away too much
information or details upfront to determine how
receptive they are, at first.

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In the event your partner is receptive, then you
are also enabled with the knowledge on how best
to proceed. For couples, where one partner is
insistent on learning more about the others
fantasies, sexual therapy can also be beneficial
for both people. Counseling sessions can be
conducted on an individual basis or as a couple.

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Although, sometimes when one partner is
pressuring the other to open up, it could signify
a deeper issue or concern, not entirely related
to the sexual intimacy the couple experiences or
sexual fantasies, but rather a feeling their
partner no longer openly communicates with them
as much as they used to do, for example.

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Exploring sexual fantasies can be a healthy
process for people in a relationship, with the
right guidance from a therapist. To schedule a
consultation appointment for sexual therapy to
discuss your fantasies or other sexual and
intimacy concerns, please feel free to call
my Toronto psychotherapy office at
416-488-3102.  Source- http//www.ellenstarrps
ychotherapy.com/sexual-fantasies-shared-partner/

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