Never Say These Things At A Funeral

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Never Say These Things At A Funeral
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• Theres no doubt that death is an unhappy and
  unwelcome truth of life, and its closeness makes
  us feel uncomfortable like anything else can.
  Indeed, even the friendliest or talkative person
  finds it difficult to talk to somebody who is
  grieving the demise of a friend, a family member
  or a companion. Lets take a look at a few things
  you need to avoid saying at funerals.

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• "I Know How You Feel"
• Actually, no, you don't have an idea how it
  feels. Like our identities, the manner in which
  each of us responds and reacts to pain is
  different. Expressing that you know how any other
  individual feels is a bit snobbish disdainful.
  Also, if you don't know how somebody grieving
  demise is feeling in their heart, its just
  alright to simply say, "I don't have words to say
  anything, but please know that I'm sad and
  sorry." Try not to say simply, "I'm sad for your
  misfortune." As this expression is too common and
  sounds unsettling for the grieving person.

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• "He/She Is In A Better Place Now."
• Any individual who expresses this expression has
  unmistakably never faced the loss of someone
  close because of death. Regardless of the
  possibility that you trust that the best place is
  paradise, saying this expression to the mourner
  recommends that he or she in some way or another
  should feel happy about the misfortune and that
  crying and showing pain about the circumstance is
  strange. So, avoid saying this statement.

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• "Dont To Cry" Or "Be Strong.
• Remarking on how somebody is reacting to or
  managing of a negative circumstance is bad and
  serves no purpose instead creates sentiments of
  guilt or even bitterness. Overall, individuals
  encounter a few comparable stages or periods of
  pain grief after loss of a companion. However,
  exactly when and how somebody displays his or her
  pain anguish is a personal decision. Asking a
  griever that he or she should not express
  emotions naturally can result in an irregular or
  complex reaction as the griever can't handle, or
  acknowledge, the sentiments connected with a loss
  due to death.

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• "He/She Looks So Natural."
• Have you ever taken a look at a living individual
  and said a statement like this before? Of course
  not, because somebody who looks natural in life
  will also look natural after death. He/she would
  not become artificial. In other words, theres no
  need to make a remark on it. Saying this remark
  when taking a look at a deceased person lying in
  a coffin just emphasizes that he or she is not
  alive.

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• Tell Me, If I Can Offer Help."
• Saying to someone grieving because of demise -
  and exhausted by the large number of choices he
  or she made in the previous few days, and then
  asking them to make yet another choice is
  insensitive, uncaring and oppressive. However,
  one thing you can ask the grieving person is to
  check whether the deceased person had taken a
  Funeral Plan or not. A Funeral Plan can surely
  bring a lot of financial and other support to the
  mourner.

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