How can your child overcome bullying

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How can your child overcome bullying?
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• A lot of school kids today around the globe need
  to overcome bullying. Have you ever wondered why
  a child become prey? Why is your child a victim?
  A weakness in childhood needs to be overcome if
  you want to ensure a smooth adulthood and
  professional success.
• It all depends on the upbringing and surroundings
  of your child. I for one was a victim in my
  childhood, mainly because I am the only child of
  my parents. I did not experience the fights of
  siblings, which rendered me a rookie when it came
  to a conflict.
• Parents overprotective nature can also be the
  reason for the child to develop a soft attitude.
  You have got to let your children find their own
  way, protecting them more than you should and
  over pampering them wont go to their benefit. It
  makes them more dependent on you, and they are
  not able to get a good exposure of the outside
  world. There should be a balance in everything,
  if you keep doing things for your children, it
  will stop them from learning.

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• Give them some freedom, to speak, to share and to
  pursue their hobbies. Discuss things with them
  (homework, play, school, food, anything), make
  them talk to you every day, their ability to
  speak freely helps in developing a personality
  that is hard to bully.
• You should focus on the development of childs
  skill-set. Do not let the time pass with just
  studies only, make them take self-defense
  lessons, or any other hobby they might have. The
  more developed your child is, the higher chances
  of success in future, bullies will be the least
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1. Ignore bullies

• First step is to not care. The more you care, the
  more you will get bullied. Remember, bullies need
  attention and victims give them by reacting to
  their every act. If someone is calling you by a
  bad name, its best not pay any heed to it, soon
  it will be forgotten. But if you react to that
  name, show disagreementand oppose it, they will
  get encouraged, they will know it bothers you and
  they wont stop calling you by that name. It will
  only become tougher to overcome bullying. So do
  not aggravate the situation by reacting to it.
  Make sure to tell his to your child very clearly,
  at the same, tell him to not get angry and engage
  in a conflict with bullies, we are better than
  this.

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2. Dont isolate

• After that mental breakdown viz, bullied by
  someone, he wants to just stay alone. Dont let
  him do it, the more they stay alone, the more it
  will change them as a person and harder it will
  become to overcome bullying. In future, you dont
  want them to become a person who does not like to
  talk or hang out with people. Instead, encourage
  them to go out and play with their friends, talk
  with them and let them know youre there for them
  if they need to share something.

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3. Praise your child

• To make them happy and overcome their emotional
  breakdowns from bullying, praise them for their
  good work and reward them. Make them realize they
  are good boys and girls. This will reinforce the
  feeling of being important and good in them. They
  will stop doubting their goodness in school
  because of some bully saying something bad about
  them.

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4. Inform the teacher

• Kids bully each other, and there should be a line
  drawn to protect those who bear excessive
  bullying. If your kid is being bullied and it is
  affecting his mental condition. Sometimes, it is
  not the childs attitude that attracts bullies,
  may be the bullies are crossing the line. In
  order to overcome bullying, you can involve the
  teacher to keep a check on bullies

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5. Involve bullys parents

• It generally does not come to that point, but if
  it does, do not hesitate to involve the bullys
  parents. Today, small school kids walk in their
  tiny gangs bullying other kids. In their games
  period, or somewhere else, they might cross the
  line of verbal abuse and start physically abusing
  the child. This level of bullying is dangerous
  for both the victim as well as the bully. On the
  one hand, the victim will have a mental breakdown
  worse than ever, it will hurt hisfeelings and
  start negative thinking.
• On the other hand, the bullys attitude will only
  get worse in future which will seriously stop him
  from becoming a successful person in life. It is
  a good idea to let the bullys parents know about
  their kid, may be they have no idea about their
  sons attitude in school. It could well be a
  wakeup call for them. The most important thing to
  take note of is, how you raise your children
  shapes their attitude. Make them talk to you,
  make them participate in school debates,
  encourage them to take part in extracurricular
  activities. Staying inside wont help them,
  exploring the outdoors will.

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