Pay attention to your child during a divorce

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Pay attention to your child during a divorce
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Divorce is difficult for adults, but children who
have to live through their parents divorcing are
placed in a precarious position. These children
love both parents and likely can't stand the
thought of having to choose between parents. The
adults in these situations need to remember that
this is a hard time for the kids.   There are
several things that you can do to help your
children when you are divorcing. One is to
remember that they have certain rights that you
should make sure remain in place. While you might
find that you need to add to this list based on
your child's needs, here are some to get you
started   Right to be a child Your children
shouldn't be treated as miniature adults. Even
though you are spending a lot of time with them,
don't fall into the habit of exposing them to the
problems and struggles of the divorce. You also
shouldn't allow children to be used as messengers
between parents.
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Right to see both parents Children don't want to
have to pick one parent over the other. Even if
you don't want to see your ex, you should still
make sure that your children get to build a
relationship with both parents. There are some
exceptions to this, such as cases of
abuse.   Right to spend time with other family
members Most children have good relationships
with extended family members, such as
grandparents and cousins. They should be able to
nurture these even though you are divorcing your
ex. Both parents can work together to nurture
these relationships.   Right to have friends As
children grow, they will forge friendships. Just
because you are divorcing doesn't mean that they
can't continue to stay connected to these
friends. Even if you end up moving, you should
try your best to foster their close friendships.
Using online methods like video chats might make
this easier.
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Right to have and express feelings Try to help
your children work through their feelings. Some
children might have trouble thinking of what to
say to relay what they are thinking and feeling.
Don't get irritated or upset with the kids when
they need to express those thoughts. Try to help
them find productive and appropriate ways to do
this. A divorce is a challenging change for
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-during-a-divorce.shtml