5 Secrets To Make Her Fall In Love With You

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• Here are my 5 secrets to make her fall in love
  with you!
• Whether you just met, its your first date or
  youve been dating a while, girls want a story.
  They fantasize about a fairytale romance.
• Do what I tell you in this video and you will be
  able to create feelings of intense connection and
  love very quickly.
• Some guys tend to believe that they theres an
  elaborate formula to make a girl fall in love
  with you. Or that its all about money, fame, or
  looks for them. They couldnt be more wrong

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5 Create a Story

• Girls want a good story of how you guys met.
• Think about it, Women are conditioned by romance
  moves, and even by Disney movies as a kid, and
  the prince and princess never meet on tinder or
  at a club.
• Women fantasize about a movie moment where they
  meet their prince charming in a romantic way,
  like a bookstore or salsa class or any random
  unexpected way during the day where the man needs
  balls to approach her.

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• Like for me, I get approached way more at night,
  but it rarely happens during the day and I wish a
  charming guy would just come to say hi. And the
  same is true for a date create lots of moments
  for her throughout the date, for example, if you
  take her to the movies and make her miss a good
  scene because you are trying to kiss her, its
  not going to be as special or memorable as going
  for the kiss on the beach under the stars or
  while dancing to a romantic song in the park.
• Chivalry isnt dead!

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4 Bring her fairy tale to life

• Pay close attention to what she says to
  ultimately figure out her goals and dreams in
  life. Then create alignment with her future and
  your future.
• For example after a couple of dates and she
  tells you she wants kids, you can ask her do you
  think Id be a good dad? Therefore, you are
  getting her to start thinking about you as a
  fatherly-like figure. But make sure to always be
  real and authentic.

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• Another example could be if she wants to be an
  entrepreneur, you could talk about, how fun would
  it be to work on your businesses together on the
  beach. But make sure to be real and authentic,
  just dont make stuff up. You dont want to waste
  both your time if you are not compatible.

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3 Create an adventure

• The point here is to create great memories
  together because the more great memories you
  create the more invested and connected she will
  feel.
• So, instead of just going to dinner and the
  movies, like every other guy, plan something more
  memorable and original like fun activities
  together, for example, Rollerblading, ice
  skating, dancing, or hiking, remember that motion
  creates emotion.
• No girl wants to be bored on a date.

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2 Create Emotion

• People are used to having conversations about
  the same topics over and over again about work,
  the weather, family and where they are from.
• It is fine to talk about these things but if
  that is the bulk of your conversation, shell
  just go into her autopilot response and wont
  FEEL anything, and its emotions that create
  powerful memories.

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• For example do you remember where you were when
  9/11 happened, or when donald trump got elected?
  Probably bc You were either really excited Donald
  Trump was elected or really pissed. Either way,
  you were emotionally charged.
• But do you remember what you had for dinner last
  Tuesday? Probably not because it wasnt
  emotional, unless it was your birthday or you did
  something unique. Thats because memories form
  through emotion. If she doesnt feel anything
  then she wont even remember you, let alone fall
  in love with you. The worst thing you could do is
  be boring.

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• In fact, its better to create any emotion than
  no emotion. A man is usually too scared to offend
  or upset the woman, so he plays it safe.
• Ask memorable questions like
• What would you tell your younger self?
• What are your main goals in life?
• Whats one thing no one knows about you?

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• The first date I had with a guy was so
  memorable and I ended up dating him for 2 years
  after that.
• So keep her stimulated, most importantly her
  mind stimulated with emotion excitement. Its
  exciting and romantic memories that create the
  feeling of love.

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1 Show Affection the way she wants it

• You see, there are 5 major ways to show
  affection, also known as the 5 love languages.
• Touch massage, head scratch
• Quality Time attention is all on her
• Words of Affirmation telling her what you
  like, care about,
• Acts of Service doing something for her
• Gift Giving thoughtful presents (not
  necessarily expensive) that surprise and give
  value

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• You see, not every woman wants affection the
  same way. All of these forms of appreciation are
  important, but some are stronger than others for
  different people.
• For example, they are all important to me, but
  one of my strongest love languages is physical
  touch.
• The key is to find out which are most important
  to her, because you might think you are giving
  her all this value by communicating to her in
  your own love language, when really you might be
  smothering her.

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• One way to find out her love languages is to pay
  attention to how she reacts by reading her body
  language. If you touch her and she recoils or if
  you compliment her and she shuts it down then
  those might not be her love languages.
• You can even ask her, would you rather a back
  massage or a receive gift?. Or can even ask the
  girl if she knows what her love languages are,
  and if not you can explain it to her.
• Once you know her strongest forms of receiving
  affection, then simply start showing affection
  the way she wants. But make sure not to overdo it
  too soon.
• Women should earn your affection.

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Final Thoughts

• Remember, if you can create a story for her, get
  imagining a future with you, make fun memories,
  spark romantic feelings, and show affection the
  way she wants, feelings of love will be right
  around the corner.
• So, to help you out, Matt created a free
  conversation cheat sheet. where he breaks down
  exactly what to say after Hello to make her
  want you.

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• You get
• Our top conversation starters for any situation
• Simple techniques to never run out of things to
  say and create emotion
• A list of games to play that create fun-flirty
  memories
• And simple ways to escalate the interaction.
• And more
• https//www.theattractiveman.com/