Best First Date Questions (5 things to ask)

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Best First Date Questions (5 things to ask)
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• Heres my new post about the Best First Date
  Questions!
• What if I told you height, money and looks arent
  the only way to win a girl over? In fact, if you
  ask her these 5 questions I am about to tell you,
  you will leave a lasting impression that will set
  you apart from every other guy.
• Im Renee Slansky for The Attractive Man Team,
  and in this video, Im going to reveal to you the
  top 5 questions to ask a woman on a first date,
  that will have her wanting to know more about you
  on a second date!

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5 BEST First Date Questions

• 5 Are you OK here or would you like to go
  somewhere else? I want you to be comfortable
• The first thing a woman will be instinctively
  feeling and thinking is Do I feel comfortable
  and safe with this guy Because we are doing two
  things when we meet you in the first 5 mins

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• Working out if we are attracted to you
• Working out if we feel safe around you.
• As the weaker sex , we instinctively want to
  make sure we can trust you to lead us and make us
  feel secure and protected.
• This is why its important to ask her that! Ask
  her if she feels too cold or hot, is it too loud
  or are there too many other males there so she
  feels intimidated.

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• Guys be the hero from the first date, take
  control and show straight away that you are
  concerned about how she feels.
• Asking about if she feels too cold is also a
  great opportunity to take your jacket off and put
  it around her as well. By expressing your
  concern, you come across as a gentleman, which is
  what we want to know you are.

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4 Can you let me know as soon as you get home,
so I know youre safe?

• BOOM! This is so good because once again it
  shows that you are concerned for our safety, and
  that you will be still thinking about us after we
  have gone. Its downright chivalrous behaviour
  and makes us feel like a damsel in distress, plus
  it gives us an excuse to text you first! (which
  is what we secretly want to do if we really like
  you.)

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• Remember one of the main impressions you want to
  leave on us, is that you actually care about our
  safety and wellbeing. It makes us feel valued and
  really feminine! We then already start to see you
  in the light of being a gentleman and a hero. NO
  joke thats how we work, it really is that simple.

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3 Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

• Ok this is a great question because it does two
  things the first is that it gives you an
  indication of who we are as a woman and what we
  want (remember guys dont just aim to impress
  women , aim to impress women that are actually
  worth dating and investing into)

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• And secondly, it also sends the message to her
  that you are a future thinkerthat you are a man
  with a plan and it may very well include her!
• Trust me before we have even met you we are
  already starting to work out if you are our
  future husband and by the first 10 -30 mins we
  are now starting to piece together everything.
  its how we work as women (hence why I coach
  women to not jump ahead and just stay present!)

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• But on the flip side use that weakness to
  your advantage IF you have the right intentions.
  It doesnt mean she is the one, but by at least
  asking her this question it shows that you are
  also a man who thinks about the next part of your
  life.

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2 Have you ever been told that you look like
(insert a gorgeous celebrity)

• Ok, there is a slight rule with this onemake
  sure you choose someone who she actually remotely
  looks like no point saying she looks like
  Beyoncé if she is Chinese. Also, make sure the
  celebrity is someone that has some sort of
  credibility, no woman wants to be compared to
  some trashy figure.

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• If you cant think of anyone, then find another
  way to compliment her without it being
  sexualised, for example Has anyone ever told
  you, you have a beautiful smile? or Did you
  know your eyes change colour in different light
  ?
• Point out the small details that you are
  noticing and she will feel singled out and very
  special and you will come across really
  romanticlike seriously we melt with that sort of
  stuff.

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1 Are you a family type of girl?

• Double BOOM! This is going to hit her right in
  the feels because it shows that you are someone
  who appreciates family which equals good man
  good husband good father jackpot. Yep, we go
  that far.

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• Ask her about her family, parents and siblings
  to show you care and then talk about your own so
  that she can feel more connected and closer to
  you. No doubt the subject of children will come
  into the conversation at some point, feel free to
  express your own opinion here, but make sure you
  do so in a way that is thoughtful and promising,
  but not necessarily committed. For example, dont
  say I hate kids and never want kids instead
  say Im pretty certain I dont want kids because
  I think the right woman is enough for me

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• Or if you do want children, then casually say I
  think when I meet the right girls , then Ill be
  ready for children .you want her to start
  painting pictures in her mind that she might be
  the special one for you!
• Guys these are just 5 simple questions that can
  literally get her hooked on you. The thing is
  they are also great starting points for
  conversation to get to know more about each other
  which helps make a date flow .

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