Title: Why Do Couples Get Divorced?
1Why Do Couples Get Divorced?
2Divorce is incredibly common these days, with
more than 50 percent of marriages ending in
divorce. Why is this happening? What are the
factors that lead to couples getting divorced?
There are quite a few reasons why couples get
divorced and they vary from egregious issues to
the silliest of reasons. A Fort Lauderdale
divorce attorney Gustavo E. Frances would like to
discuss the reasons why couples get divorced in
this presentation.
3Even when people get married they still need to
have an individual identity. Many people who get
married mesh with their spouse to become one
identity. This can easily lead to a divorce as
one or both spouses could get tired of not having
their own identity. This is whats known as being
in a codependent relationship, where you have to
rely on the other spouse for just about
everything in life.
No Individual Identity
4Couples that get married for the wrong reasons
will almost always wind up getting divorced. One
of the most common of these is marrying for
money. Money happens to be a big reason for most
divorces, but its usually due to a high amount
of debt, unemployment, or someone is spending too
much of the marital income. But, marrying simply
for money can easily lead to divorce in Florida.
Marrying for the Wrong Reasons
5Couples that dont have a shared vision for their
marriage likely wind up filing for divorce. The
shared vision must include whether or not the
couple wants to have children,
how income will be made, no one can agree on the
roles and responsibilities within the marriage
and much more. All of these issues can lead to
arguments that might not be solved.
No Shared Vision
6Many divorcing couples state that their marriage
didnt work because of expectations that were
never met during the marriage.
If expectations are never met, the spouse who is
disappointed might wind up filing for divorce.
Expectations That are Never Met
7A successful marriage needs two types of intimacy
in order to succeed physical and emotional. When
a couple stops talking to each other about their
problems, listening to each other, holding hands,
kissing and hugging, the intimacy has
disappeared. Both forms of intimacy need to be
present for a marriage to work. When one form of
intimacy disappears the couple could have trouble
coming up with a fix.
Lack of Intimacy
8A marriage that lacks conflict resolution is one
that will inevitably struggle to survive. Both
spouses must know how to resolve conflict so that
their fights do not escalate or extend to days on
end. There needs to be ground rules in any
marriage that define how arguments will be
handled by each spouse.
No Conflict Resolution
9Hire An Attorney
Has your marriage exhibited one or more of these
issues that typically lead to divorce? If so, it
is time to speak with an experienced Fort
Lauderdale family law attorney Gustavo E. Frances.
10Address
200 SE 6th St, 402
Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301
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Website
954-533-2756
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11Thank You