Ways To Create A Tantric Relationship, Consciously

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Ways To Create A Tantric Relationship, Consciously
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• Do you want to bring more unconditional love into
  your relationship? Would you like to experience
  greater levels of harmony and understanding
  between you and your partner? Do you want to
  start having more tantric sex and take your
  tantra practice to new heights?
• If the answer is yes, here are 5 my best tips for
  building a conscious tantric relationship

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1. Know your true self

• Do you know yourself? Like, really know yourself?
  Do you know what all of your needs are? Your
  wants, priorities, must-haves, deal-breakers,
  likes, dislikes, fetishes, turn-ons, challenges,
  shortcomings, and absences?
• Having self-awareness about what you do and do
  not want/need from a relationship is absolutely
  crucial. Once you have this awareness of who you
  are and what your own needs are, you can then
  communicate them to your partner.

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2. Develop emotional intelligence.

• Speaking as a man, TO an audience who are mostly
  men, I can attest that emotional intelligence is
  harder for men to acquire than for women.
• Women are naturally more emotional creatures. We
  men on the other hand are conditioned and taught
  from a young age to swallow and hide our
  emotions. Tantric relationships recognize this
  difference and honor it.
• Thankfully, it is possible to develop your own
  emotional EQ. You simply need to give yourself
  the time and space to sit with, feel into and
  identify whatever feelings are arising.

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3. Know and speak your boundaries

• Find out what your boundaries are and practice
  communicating them in a healthy, non-demanding
  way. Of all tantric techniques, speaking your
  boundaries is perhaps the most important.

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4. Put the needs of the relationship above those
of your own

• It is also important to recognize that the
  relationship itself has needs. These are outside
  of and separate from the needs of the individuals
  inside of the relationship.
• Having a conscious relationship is about creating
  a third entity. You and your partner as one. That
  third entity must be treated like a child. It
  must come first. The child must receive priority,
  attention, and utmost care.

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5. Heal any sexual shame and sexual trauma

• When there is true intimacy within a
  relationship, sex (particularly tantric sex) has
  the power to shape, change and heal us. There are
  really no limits as to how far it can go.
• But when there are blockages, it cannot do its
  magic work.

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Steffo Shambo

Mentor at Tantric Academy

• Steffo Shambo is the founder of The Tantric Man
  Experience. His specialty is to empower men to
  realize their full masculine confidence, intimate
  power, and depth of connection to their partner.
  He has helped hundreds of men from all around the
  world to master their sexuality and masculine
  essence to save their marriage or attract their
  soulmate relationship.
• https//tantricacademy.com/