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15 Real Problems After Intercaste Marriage

• We have achieved high levels of growth rate and
  we have also been successful in removing some
  forms of inequalities in the society. We have
  made pioneering developments in technology and
  helped achieve equality in the form of education
  for all. But these achievements are of no use as
  long as the rifts between castes and religions
  still form the basis of our society.
• How can we call a progressive and modern country
  when two people who are in love with each other
  are allowed to live together? What is most needed
  is to tackle the challenges faced by inter-caste
  marriages in the country in such a way that love
  wins over the evils of the caste system. Knowing
  the problems faced by interracial couples is a
  step in this direction. Here are 15 common
  problems faced by interracial couples

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1.Couple is rejected by families
Couples who show the courage to marry each other
despite the disapproval of their families, have
to say goodbye to their families forever. They
are rejected by their respective families, who
break all ties with the couple. For families,
conservative values ??and principles become more
important than their son or daughter.


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• 2.The couple is ostracized by the community
• Not only do the couples families disapprove and
  break ties with the couple, but the community at
  large also excludes the couple and creates
  problems in the couples life. The people in the
  community do not interact with the couple and
  ignore the existence of the couple. In rural
  areas, they are not even allowed to live in their
  village.
• 3. Social pressure makes life stressful for the
  couple
• Since inter-caste marriage is not well accepted
  in the Indian society, the couple has to face a
  lot of social pressure. No one will support the
  couple, especially if they have married without
  parental approval. When renting an apartment,
  landlords can make inter-caste marriages an
  issue. The couple may have no friends and no
  relatives may come forward to offer any help.

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• 4. Lifestyle differences are hard to cope with
• Obviously, peers will have different lifestyles
  and cultures because they belong to different
  races. This means they have to adjust and adapt
  to these differences. Most of the couples fail to
  do this, as arguments and fights become a common
  occurrence between the couples. 5. Continuous
  interference of family members in married life
• Even if the families approve of the inter-caste
  marriage, we can still see that there is constant
  interference of family members in the life of the
  married couple. They try to impose their family
  and caste norms on the couple at all times. Under
  such pressures, love usually takes a backseat and
  the couple themselves get embroiled in caste
  politics.
• 6. A sense of superiority can damage the
  relationship
• One of the comrades may think that his caste is
  far superior and better than his mates caste.
  This will create a sense of superiority in the
  person and he/she may start behaving in a
  degrading manner with the partner. After some
  time, this can lead to dissatisfaction and
  eventually break the marriage.

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• 7. Survival Gets Really Difficult for Couples
• Honor killings have become very popular in the
  country. National Crime Records Bureau figures
  put the number of people killed in this category
  at 251 in 2015. Note, these are only reported
  cases.
• Honor killings have become very popular in the
  country. National Crime Records Bureau figures
  put the number of people killed in this category
  at 251 in 2015. Note, these are only reported
  cases. Therefore, it is clear that the couple
  will live in constant fear, as their survival
  will become really difficult.
• 8. Financial issues faced by the couple
• The couple is left to fend for themselves. They
  do not get any support from their families or
  friends. Some relatives also create hurdles when
  the couple tries to earn a living and live life
  on their own. Due to all this, financial problems
  are faced by the couple, which creates more
  emotional pressure on the alliance.

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• 9. Couples also have to suffer professionally
• At times, the couple has to suffer professionally
  as well. Inter-caste marriage may not be accepted
  by the offices of both the partners, and people
  in the workplace may treat them with hatred. One
  may face harassment at the place of work and may
  also have to leave on unethical grounds.
• 10. Couples have to listen to taunts on a regular
  basis
• After marriage, the couple has to hear taunts on
  a regular basis. Instead of accepting the
  marriage, relatives and friends keep looking for
  ways to humiliate and humiliate the couple. For
  example, a wifes mother-in-law,
  grandmother-in-law and family aunts always
  criticize her for her dressing sense, her looks,
  etc.

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• 11. Couples can have disagreements when it comes
  to raising children
• There may be disagreement between the couple over
  the matter of raising their children. For
  example, there will be a difference of opinion as
  to which religion or caste children should follow
  and so on, which festivals should be celebrated,
  which gods should be worshipped, which cultural
  morals should be imparted. should be done and
  it can put the relationship in trouble.
• 12. Instability in Inter-caste Marriage
• The chances of an inter-caste marriage breaking
  up are very high as there is a constant
  difference of attitude and interest between the
  couple. Along with this are social pressures that
  can destroy love. Therefore, the married and
  family life of an inter-caste couple is generally
  considered very unstable.

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• 13. Interracial marriage is psychologically
  exhausting
• If the inter-caste couple is unable to live up to
  each others expectations, the couple regrets
  their decision and blames each other. As a
  result, the couple will be disappointed and
  unhappy with each other..
• 14. Children of inter-caste couple also face
  discrimination
• Children of inter-caste couple are always in
  dilemma as to which caste or religion they belong
  to. Even when asked, they fail to give a clear
  answer about it, due to which they are treated
  differently by other people.
• 15. Inheritance problems are common in
  inter-caste marriages
• Generally, both the families fail to accept the
  inter-caste couple, due to which problems related
  to inheritance become common. The inter-caste
  couple may have to deal with property and money
  disputes to get their share of the entitlement.
  As you can see, the inter-caste couple has to go
  through many family problems and troubles to stay
  together and have a happy married life. By facing
  these problems and being ready to support each
  other at all times, an inter-caste couple can be
  successful in achieving a prosperous married
  life.