Manipulative Kids – Why Do Kids Manipulate Their Parents

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Manipulative Kids Why Do Kids Manipulate Their
Parents
Tantrums and children go hand in hand. They learn
to throw tantrums for everything, and they learn
this before they even know what a tantrum is.
They cry when they are hungry, sleepy, or require
their parents' attention when they are babies. So
every time babies cry for food, a diaper change,
or just some lap time and their parents rush over
to help them, it reinforces in their minds that
crying gets them what they want.
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As infants grow older and start going to
Montessori school, they utilise this subconscious
understanding to persuade their parents to buy
them toys, chocolates, extra playing time, pizza,
or anything else. Through cajoling, sobbing, or
flattery, they persuade their parents that they
"need" those goods despite having so much
already. When these tactics fail to get them what
they want, or when they don't get the results
they want, they may resort to lying, slandering
the parent, making the parents feel guilty for
not being caring and loving, or performing a
favour or chore to make the parent feel obligated
to comply with their demands. All of these deft
man oeuvres by children to persuade their parents
to give in to their whims and fancies are
manipulation. Such manipulative strategies are
sometimes used by children to get the attention
or appreciation of their parents, siblings, or
even friends.
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Why do kids manipulate their parents? According
to the experts of Pasadena, CA children may
influence their parents for a variety of reasons,
including emotional or financial gain. While
children are capable of manipulating you, you
should not encourage them to do so. Parents
frequently wonder when their children will be
able to influence them. Even at a young age, your
child can begin to manipulate you. This deceptive
approach can impair your child's psyche and
personality as they grow older. As a result, it's
vital to start disciplining a manipulative child
right once. Some of the most prevalent reasons
for your child influencing you to include
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• To obtain toys, gifts, or other anything that
  they desire
• They may use manipulative tactics to settle a
  score with you or provoke you to make you upset
  if you don't allow them to do things like stay
  out or play at their friend's house or eat
  chocolates before meals.
• They may use emotional manipulation to get you to
  do what they want if they know you value their
  happiness or want to see them happy.
• When they feel ignored, they will manipulate you
  to get your attention.
• They use you to create a sense of anxiousness,
  and you purchase the goods, so they can fit in
  with their friends, peers, or social circle.

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• To be aware that they wield power over you.
• They exploit you to make you feel bad for
  neglecting them or being unkind to acquire your
  love and care.
• They utilize deception to cover up their error.
• Your Montessori going children may use
  manipulation to communicate their emotions at
  times.
• They employ manipulation to communicate their
  dissatisfaction, overwhelm, or terror.
• Your child may throw tantrums or manipulate you
  to communicate their grief or uncertainty
  following the arrival of their sibling.

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