Are You Losing You in the Relationship?

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Are You Losing You in the Relationship?
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• Relationships can turn out to be beautiful
  things. When you are in love, you feel like being
  with your partner all the time. You often get so
  involved with our partners that they slowly
  become our whole world. After finding the one
  true love, a relationship can be a wonderful
  partnership filled with happiness, fun, pleasure,
  and respect. Sometimes, you get so engrossed in
  making your partner happy that you forget your
  own selves, which is why seeking validation in
  relationships is a must.
• Slowly and gradually, you stop connecting with
  your friends as much, and you stop doing
  activities you love, all because youre invested
  with that one person so much so that you are
  slowly losing yourself in the relationship.

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• Whether its because the other person is toxic or
  because you havent established solid boundaries
  with them yet, this leads to losing yourself in
  the relationship and can have an adverse effect
  on your mental health.
• Love can be like a pair of magical glasses that
  you put on, and the world around you seems to
  change. Food tastes better, color seems brighter,
  and it feels like love is in the air. Although it
  feels special during this love phase, it is
  important to remember not to lose yourself in
  this new and magical endeavor.

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• Have a look at the clear signs that identify that
  you are losing yourself.
• You Give in To Their Demands
• This is one of the most obvious signs of losing
  yourself in a relationship. When in a healthy
  relationship, we try our best to make our partner
  happy, but we also want to be happy ourselves.
  There are situations in which we dont get
  everything neither our partner does. Thats when
  compromise comes into play.
• If you are losing yourself in the relationship,
  youll be giving in to everything your partner
  wants. This can be as simple as letting them
  choose the movies you watch, the places you eat,
  or anything for that matter.
• If your partner makes all the decisions in your
  relationship, no matter how big or small, that is
  the greatest sign determining that you are losing
  yourself.

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• Your Own Goals and Dreams Have Disappeared
• When you save thousands of dollars for your dream
  car but spend it on the needs of your partner,
  thats when you realize that your own goals and
  dreams have disappeared. Everyone has some goals
  and dreams in life that can be short-term or
  long-term. If you are losing yourself in a
  relationship, then your plans, goals, and dreams
  once planned are gone now.
• You Dont Remember Your Own Likes/Dislikes,
  Opinions, etc.
• When you lose yourself in a relationship, you
  lose your likes, dislikes, and opinions as well.
  After agreeing to all your partners demands, you
  dont remember your own likes and dislikes
  anymore. When people around you are surprised
  when you express your opinion, that means you
  lost your own opinion.

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• If you dont want to lose yourself in a
  relationship, then dont compromise on yourself.
  Try taking a stand for yourself.
• Prioritize Yourself
• Self-care is extremely important even if you are
  in a relationship. It means that you are taking
  good care of yourself and loving yourself. Make
  sure to not rely on another person for your own
  happiness. In true love, fulfillment can come
  from various parts of your life, and the major
  portion comes by prioritizing yourself.

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• Dont Replace I With We.
• Remember that you are still an individual no
  matter how long you and your partner have been
  together. You have your own identity and
  individuality. Dont let anyone overshadow your
  own opinions and thoughts. Try to keep your
  identity separate from your partner.
• Dont Compromise Too Much
• It is a healthy relationship compromise to some
  extent is good, but too much compromise in a
  relationship can be harmful to your own mental
  peace of mind. Its important to know when to
  bend in a relationship, but make sure you dont
  bend so much that you break.

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• Keep Seeing Your Friends and Family
• It is exciting and wonderful to live with someone
  new. Meeting their family and friends can be
  nerve-wracking the first time, but soon it feels
  like you are part of the gang too. Even though
  you hang with your partner all the time, it is
  important to give your loved ones time.
• Final Words!
• If you are also losing yourself in a
  relationship, then try to get out of it and take
  a stand for your own happiness. Check out our
  website to get great advice on a happy and
  healthy relationship.
• Contact us 801 422 6573 Visit _at_
  https//www.chelomleavitt.com/