EUPHORIC RECALL: WHAT IT IS & HOW TO DEAL WITH IT

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EUPHORIC RECALL WHAT IT IS HOW TO DEAL WITH IT
When recovering from sex addiction, its
important to address the euphoric recall that can
potentially trigger a relapse. While only
remembering the positive feelings associated with
your past behaviors, these recollections dont
remind you of any negative physical or emotional
consequences of your actions. What is Euphoric
Recall? Euphoric recall is an addictive thinking
that brings to light how great the event was
while minimizing or even completely blocking out
any troubles you may have experienced because of
this behavior. When recalling events in your
memory, the same areas of the brain are activated
that were in use during your pleasurable
encounter. In fact, these memories create a
biochemical response
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that may even feel better than the actual event.
This allows you to justify your behaviors and
minimize costs and consequences. With all types
of addiction, the brain tends to focus on
positive outcomes that can trigger a
relapse. Due to this enhanced memory of
pleasure, you may experience some other dif
culties as a result of this warped view on
reality. Positive Expectancy As the brains
biochemistry is altered as a result of the
addiction, you may begin to expect only positive
outcomes from engaging in the undesired behavior
since your brain is blocking out or minimizing
the negative impact. These expectations may lead
you to believe that you are on the right path
for a good life and can lead to distortions in
judgment and your ability to control your
impulses. Anhedonia Preview in new tab(opens in
a new tab) When the pleasure center in the brain
is constantly kept stimulated with excess
chemicals enhanced by recalling euphoric events,
this can lead to what is known as anhedonia.
Anhedonia is a state where you cannot gain
pleasure from regular activities. In addiction,
this typically leads to engaging in the unwanted
behavior more frequently just so that you can
feel something. Do Cravings Equal Euphoric
Recall? Cravings are not the same thing as this
twisted recollection of events. However, only
remembering the positive feelings associated with
your past behaviors and failing to recall the
bad that could occur as a result can lead to
craving the activity even more. Once this occurs,
you must overcome these cravings to prevent a
relapse. Relapse, or recovery maintenance, is a
critical part of the process. Signs Youre
Experiencing Euphoric Recall Perhaps the most
obvious sign that you are experiencing euphoric
recall is that you either cannot remember bad
consequences to giving in to your addiction or
you nd ways to justify or minimize engaging in
that behavior. There are some other signs that
may show you are experiencing this detrimental
way of thinking Obsessing over the behavior
Feeling depressed Suffering from mood swings
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How to Cope with Euphoric Recall Although you may
not always be able to prevent memories from
coming to mind, there are some ways that you can
look more realistically at past events to prevent
these recollections from triggering a
relapse. Negative Recall Rather than focusing on
the positive aspects of giving in to your
addiction, you should take the time to emphasize
your thoughts on the negative consequences you
will face if you engage in sexual activities.
Whenever you recall the euphoria that comes with
the actions, replace those thoughts with how bad
you will feel if you give in until the euphoria
passes. Use a journal or make a list of all of
the costs if you nd this helpful. Grounding If
the enjoyment of past events comes to mind, you
can focus on the here and now by engaging in an
activity that uses your ve senses. The physical
sensations of grounding can make you more aware
of the moment to take your mind off of unwanted
recollections. Here are just a few ideas to get
you started Suck on a sour or strongly flavored
piece of candy Sing a song or recite a poem Use
aromatherapy with essential oil by lighting a
candle or by spritzing some air freshener around
the room Hold an ice cube and focus on the
sensation as it melts in your hand
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Engage in strenuous exercise such as jumping
jacks or running around the block
Go outside to focus on the sounds or turn on a
podcast to listen to Rub lotion on your hands or
feet Drink herbal tea and savor the
flavor Create something through crafting,
drawing, painting, sculpting, woodworking,
taking pictures, or some other artistic
endeavor Use the 54321 method to point out five
objects, listen for four different sounds, feel
items with three different textures, identify two
scents, and enjoy one flavor for
taste. Meditation Many people nd guided
meditation to be helpful in moving the mind from
unwanted to more desirable thoughts. Not only
will you change your thinking, but you will also
be more relaxed and in touch with your mind,
body, and the present. You can nd guided
meditation sessions easily for free on
YouTube. Regulated Breathing Whether you choose
deep breathing or more regulated forms of
breathing, you must focus your attention on the
technique, which will get your mind onto the
present while providing some relaxation and
relief from stress. Some methods of regulated
breathing include belly breathing and 4-7-8
breathing. Other Methods If it is continually
hard to distract yourself from continuing recall
episodes, you may need to take additional
measures. Acupuncture causes a release of
endorphins that can be pleasurable to the brain,
potentially reducing the need to seek pleasure
through addiction. Take the time to talk to your
sponsor or a trusted friend. This person can help
to get you grounded or draw your focus away from
the euphoric recollections. Although it is
important to address the issue with this
individual, it can help if you continue to engage
in small talk for a bit to bring your attention
to real-life matters. Sometimes, a familiar
environment can produce memories more frequently.
When no other options provide you with relief
from reliving your past encounters, it might be
time to move to a new location. However, if you
choose this option, make sure you will have the
support for your recovery in place before you
nalize your move.
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The Importance of Continued Care
Recovery is a continuing process, so it is
important to maintain your care to prevent a
relapse. In fact, research has shown that those
who keep up with aftercare are less likely to
return to their addictive actions than those who
stop. Whether you attend group or individual
sessions, meetings, or other types of continuing
care, you will be better able to handle any
episodes of euphoric recall and resist the urge
to relapse into old behaviors. In addition to
our treatment programs, Begin Again Institute is
committed to ensuring you maintain your
recovery. Through our Continuing Care Program,
you have the opportunity to connect with a broad
community of support persons.
Category Sex Addiction
By Begin Again Institute
October 22, 2020