DEVELOPING THE LEADER WITHIN YOU Part 2

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DEVELOPING THE LEADER WITHIN YOUPart 2
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SELF- DISCIPLINE

• The Price Tag of Leadership

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• Leaders should be willing to take control of
  areas in their lives that will bring them success
  or failure.

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• 1 Responsibility of Great Leaders
• Discipline themselves and grow as a person

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The Process of Self-Discipline

• Start with yourself
• Start early
• Start small
• Organize your life

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Personal Organization

• Set your priorities
• Organize your workspace
• Work according to your temperament
• Use travel time and extra time for personal for
  light work and growth
• Develop systems that work for you

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Responsibility

• Be responsible for who you are
• Be responsible for what you can do
• Be responsible to those you lead

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Importance of Accountability

• People have blind or weak spots The hidden part
  of our lives can lead to spiritual downfall if
  we do not have them examined and corrected by
  godly people.

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Biblical Basis of Being Accountable to One Another

• Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you
  who are spiritual should restore him gently.
  But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.
  Carry each others burden and in this way,
  fulfill the law of Christ.
• Galatians 61-2

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Biblical Basis of Being Accountable to One Another

• Each of you should look not only to your own
  interests but also to the interest of others.
• Phil 24

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Biblical Basis of Being Accountable to One Another

• Two are better than one because they have a good
  return for their work. If one falls down, his
  friend can help him up. But pity the man who
  falls and has no one to help him.
• Eccle 49-10

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Biblical Basis of Being Accountable to One Another

• .Faithful are the wounds of a friend.
• Prov 276

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Biblical Basis of Being Accountable to One Another

• As iron sharpens another iron, so one man
  sharpens another man.
• Prov 2717

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Key areas in our lives in which we have to be
accountable

• Relationship with God (e.g. prayer life and bible
  reading)
• Relationship with spouse and kids
• Submission to spiritual leaders and relationship
  with other church members
• Use of money and time (tithing, budgeting,
  financial stewardship)

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Key areas in our lives in which we have to be
accountable

• Moral and ethical behavior
• Areas of personal struggle (temper, smoking,
  gambling, lust)

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Character

• PAY NOW, PLAY LATER

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• CAN A LEADER ACCOMPLISH ALL
• OF HIS GOALS?
• WHY OR WHY NOT?

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The 10 Commandments of Confrontation

• Do it privately
• Do it asap
• Speak about one issue at a time
• Once youve made a point, dont keep on repeating
  it
• Deal only with actions the person can change

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The 10 Commandments of Confrontation

• Avoid sarcasm
• Avoid words like always and never
• Present criticisms as suggestions or questions
• Dont apologize for confronting
• Dont forget the compliments

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