The Making of an Individual

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The Making of an Individual
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The Making of an Individual
Behavior
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The Making of an Individual
Behavior
Values
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The Making of an Individual
Behavior
Values
Beliefs
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The Making of an Individual
Behavior
Values
Beliefs
Relationships
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For I am constantly aware of your UNFAILING
LOVE, (Psalm 263 NLT)
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and I have lived according to your TRUTH.
(Psalm 263 NLT)
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Teach me your ways, O Lord, that I may live
according to your TRUTH!
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... for your LOVE for me is very great.
(Psalm 86.11,13 NLT)
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So the Word became human and lived here on
earth among us.
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He was full of UNFAILING LOVE and TRUTH.
(John 114
NLT)
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For the law was given through Moses
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Gods UNFAILING LOVE and TRUTH came through
Jesus Christ.
(John 117 NLT)
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But speaking the TRUTH
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in LOVE
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T
ruth without ELATIONSHIP leads
to EJECTION
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R
ULES without ELATIONSHIP leads
to EBELLION
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For I am constantly aware of your UNFAILING
LOVE, and I have lived according to your TRUTH.
(Psalm 263 NLT)
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HARDWIRED TO CONNECT
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We are hardwired to connect to other people.
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• Human beings are BIOLOGICALLY wired to form
  relationships.

Hardwired to Connect The New Scientific Case
for Authoritative Communities
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To impart ones values or truth to an individual,
one must
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• Develop loving, intimate connection/
  relationship with the child

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• Model the very truth/value you want to see
  ingrained in the child.

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• I have given you an
  example to follow. Do as
  I have done to you.

John 1315 (NLT)
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Philippians 317 (NLT)

• my children, pattern your
  lives after mine, and
  learn from those who follow our example.

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we were happy to share with you
not only the gospel of God
but also our own lives, because you
had become dear to us. I Thessalonians 27-8
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Children raised in a single parent home where the
Mother is the head are
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More likely to use drugs, alcohol, or be violent.
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Children who are raised in a two parent family,
but with a fair to poor relationship with the
father are
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More likely to use drugs, alcohol or be violent.
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Children who are raised in a two parent family
who have a good to excellent relationship with
their dads are
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less likely
to use drugs, alcohol or to be violent.
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For I am constantly aware of your UNFAILING
LOVE, and I have lived according to your TRUTH.
(Psalm 263 NLT)
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FBI Study The
Classroom Avenger Profile
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FBI Study The
Classroom Avenger
The father was either distant or non-involved in
the parenting process.
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For I am constantly aware of your UNFAILING
LOVE, and I have lived according to your TRUTH.
(Psalm 263 NLT)
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Johns Hopkins Medical School Study

• Thomas and Duazunski
• Studied 1,377 medical students over 30 years to
  find a common cause for

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Mental illness
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Hypertension
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Malignant tumors
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Coronary heart disease
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Suicide
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Could they find a common cause?
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The lack of was the most significant predictor
of these 5 diseases.
CLOSENESS TO PARENTS
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For I am constantly aware of your UNFAILING
LOVE, and I have lived according to your TRUTH.
(Psalm 263 NLT)
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12-14
Teens without a close relationship
to their father are
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12-14
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15-16
Teens without a close relationship
to their father are
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15-16
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Michael Jackson
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• I am not your father, I am your manager, and
  dont you ever forget that.

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• I just wanted a dada father who showed me
  loveAnd my father never did that.
• He never said, Michael, I love you.

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For I am constantly aware of your UNFAILING
LOVE, and I have lived according to your TRUTH.
(Psalm 263 NLT)
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A human child is talked
into talking
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and loved into loving
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• And related into believing.

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For I am constantly aware of your UNFAILING
LOVE, and I have lived according to your TRUTH.
(Psalm 263 NLT)
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• Mr. McDowell, would you give me a hug?

My father never ever once told me he loved me or
gave me a hug.
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Ive never known a time in my life my father
didnt love me unconditionally
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Do you know what that did for me?
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IT GAVE ME
FREEDOM TO FAIL.
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Son, do you know that I
love you?
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Do you know that
I love your mother?
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• Sean, when you get married, do you want to have
  love, marriage and sex and family what I have
  with your mother

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• and relationships with your kids as I do with
  you?

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HUGH HEFNER Playboy founder
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I knew my mother loved me, but she never
expressed it, so I learned about love from the
movies.
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He threw me on my bed
and started telling me he loved
me
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And I was thinking in
my head I just
remember my head spinning,
saying, Oh, wow, this man loves me.
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I never had a man tell me they
loved me before.
(Amy Fisher,
September 27, 2004)
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At that moment I would have done anything for
Joey.
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If I could speak in any language in heaven or
on earth but didnt LOVE others, I would
only be making meaningless
noise like a loud gong or a
clanging cymbal...
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If I could speak TRUTH to my child, but did not
have LOVE, (then to) my child, I am only making
meaningless noise like a loud gong
or a clanging cymbal.
(I Corinthians 13 paraphrase)