Marriage Is A Companionship

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Marriage Is A Companionship Genesis 218,21-22
Mnziex Tin-Hungh ih hnoi haih heuc Meih nyei. Mv
baac hnamv daaih maiv zeiz yiem meih nyei cell
phone. Tov meih bungx daic oc. March 20, 2011
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18 ZIOUV Tin-Hungh aengx gorngv, "Nduqc laanh
mienh ganh yiem hnangv se maiv horpc. Yie aengx
oix zeix dauh daaih puix ninh, caux ninh zoux
doic tengx ninh." 21 ZIOUV Tin-Hungh ziouc bun
wuov dauh mienh bueix m'njormh ndo nyei. M'njormh
mingh wuov zanc, ninh zorqv diuh wuov laanh mienh
nyei la'saengx mbungv aengx bun orv ziangh ndipc
mi'aqv. The LORD God said, "It is not good for
the man to be alone. I will make a helper
suitable for him." 21 So the LORD God caused the
man to fall into a deep sleep and while he was
sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and
closed up the place with flesh.
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22 ZIOUV Tin-Hungh longc yiem m'jangc dorn zorqv
cuotv wuov diuh la'saengx mbungv zoux benx dauh
m'sieqv dorn, aengx dorh daaih taux m'jangc dorn
wuov. 23 Wuov dauh m'jangc dorn ziouc gorngv,
"Dongh naaiv aqv. Mbungv yaac yie nyei mbungv
benx daaih. Orv yaac yie nyei orv benx daaih. Oix
zuqc tengx ninh cuotv mbuox heuc m'sieqv dorn,
weic zuqc ninh yiem m'jangc dorn cuotv daaih.
22 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib
he had taken out of the man, and he brought her
to the man. 23 The man said, "This is now bone
of my bones and flesh of my flesh she shall be
called 'woman,' for she was taken out of man."
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24 Weic naaiv m'jangc dorn dorng jaa, leih ninh
nyei diex maac, caux jienv ninh nyei auv gapv
daaih. Ninh mbuo ziouc benx yietc dauh mi'aqv. 25
Naaiv dauh m'jangc dorn caux ninh nyei auv laengh
gaengv nyei yiem mv baac laanh maiv nyaiv laanh.
24 For this reason a man will leave his father
and mother and be united to his wife, and they
will become one flesh. 25 The man and his wife
were both naked, and they felt no shame.
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Biux Mengh Waac Introduction Mbuo buatc yiem
naaiv douc Ging-Sou Tin-Hungh liepc dorng jaa
nyei jauv weic 4 diuc jauv. We see in this
passage God instituted marriage in 4 different
purpose.
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• Weic zoux mbienz doic mienh.
• For the companionship (vs. 18).
• ZIOUV Tin-Hungh aengx gorngv, "Nduqc
• laanh mienh ganh yiem hnangv se maiv
• horpc. Yie aengx oix zeix dauh daaih puix
• ninh, caux ninh zoux doic tengx ninh."
• The LORD God said, "It is not good for
• the man to be alone. I will make a helper
• suitable for him."

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(2) Weic zeix hoz doic mienh. For procreation
(having children (128). Tin-Hungh buang waac bun
ninh mbuo. Ninh gorngv, "Meih mbuo oix zuqc maaih
fu'jueiv hiaangx daaih buangv lungh ndiev yaac
gunv duqv mbuoqc lungh ndiev nyei ga'naaiv. Oix
zuqc gunv yiem koiv nyei mbiauz, yiem
ndaamv-lungh nyei norqc, caux nyungc-nyungc maaih
maengc, nyorng ndau-beih nyei ga'naaiv." God
blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and
increase in number fill the earth and subdue it.
Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of
the air and over every living creature that moves
on the ground."
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(3) Weic mbienz doic caux jiu tong nyei jauv.
For companionship and intimacy (Vs.18). ZIOUV
Tin-Hungh aengx gorngv, "Nduqc laanh mienh ganh
yiem hnangv se maiv horpc. Yie aengx oix zeix
dauh daaih puix ninh, caux ninh zoux doic tengx
ninh." The LORD God said, "It is not good for the
man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable
for him."
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(4) Weic caux doic nyei jauv. For sexual intimacy
(vs. 24-25). 24 Weic naaiv m'jangc dorn dorng
jaa, leih ninh nyei diex maac, caux jienv ninh
nyei auv gapv daaih. Ninh mbuo ziouc benx yietc
dauh mi'aqv. 25 Naaiv dauh m'jangc dorn caux ninh
nyei auv laengh gaengv nyei yiem mv baac laanh
maiv nyaiv laanh. 24 For this reason a man will
leave his father and mother and be united to his
wife, and they will become one flesh. 25 The man
and his wife were both naked, and they felt no
shame.
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I. Worldly Views of Marriage

• 1. Dorng jaa nyei jauv se danh fanh yiem mienh
  hnamv doic hnangv. Marriage will last as long as
  people love one another.
• 2. Jiu tong hnamv doic nyei jauv weic haaix
  nyungc jauv haih bun nqoi doic duqv. The
  relationship can be dissolved for any reason.
• 3. Dorng jaa nyei jauv kungx weic douc buonv
  hnangv. Marriage is only for procreation (having
  children)

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4. Pouh tong dorng jaa nyei leiz. Pouh tong
dorng-jaa nyei leiz biux mengh gorngv mienh benx
I hmuangv nyei jauv hnangv, haaix zanc oix leih
doic yaac maiv benx haaix nyungc. Common Law
marriage. A common-law marriage is legally
binding in some common law jurisdictions but has
no legal consequence in others.
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5. Dongh saeng nyei dorng jaa leiz jiex gorn yiem
2001 wuov hnyouv maaih ziepc norm deic-bung
nzaeng taux naaiv deix leiz, maaih deix hungh jaa
nqoi nzuih bun dongh saeng nyei mienh maaih leiz
dorng jauv duqv. Same-Sex marriage Same-sex
marriage (also called gay marriage) 1 is a
legally or socially recognized marriage  between
two persons of the same biological sex or social
gender. Since 2001, ten countries and various
other jurisdictions have begun legally
formalizing same-sex marriages, and the
recognition of such marriages is a civil rights,
political, social, moral, and religious issue in
many nations.
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6. Bungx nqoi sueih binc mienh hienx auv hienx
nqoi, maiv zuqc dingc zuiz. Open marriage
amounts to adultery without consequences.
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Dunh Yunh Nyei Cai-Doix Successful Marriage
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• Mbienz doic mienh (Companionship)
• Ziepc zuoqv hnyouv (Commitment)
• Jiu tong doic (Communication)
• Laanh ei laanh (Cooperation)
• Huon-in (Courtship)
• Laanh cauh fim laanh (Concern)
• Lomh nzoih ziux goux fujueiv (Children)

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COMPANIONSHIPGenesis 218-24

• Mjangc mienh qiemx zuqc msieqv mienh
• daaih caux zoux doic. Man needed a human
• companion
• 1. Saeng-kuv fai fin-mienh maiv haih bun ninh
• buangv eix. No animal or angel could satisfy his
  
• loneliness
• 2. Ndoqc nyei jauv benx dayietv nyungc bun
• Tin-Hungh mangc maiv benx. Loneliness is the
  first
• thing which Gods eye named not good.

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3. Msieqv dorn benx lengc bun mjangc dorn se
weic ninh longc mjangc dorn nyei lasaengx
mbungv zeix daaih. Woman special because taken
from mans rib v. 21-22 4. Msieqv dorn zeix
daaih puix mjangc dorn se bun mjangc dorn benx
nzoih zunh nyei mienh. Woman created to
complement man helpmeet to make him
whole or complete
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Setv Mueiz Waac Conclusion Genesis 218-24

• Mbienz doix mienh maaih haaix nyungc longc
• jienv? Why is companionship so important?
• Bun ndoqc nyei jauv duqv buangv eix. To satisfy
  loneliness Gen. 218-24
• Tengx hoqc hiuv zien nyei hnamv dongh haaix
  nyungc. To learn true love Eph. 521-33 I Cor.
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• Bun oix doic nyei jauv haih duqv buangv eix. To
  satisfy sexual desire I Cor. 71-9 Heb. 134

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• Laanh tengx laanh haih duqv hingh seix hnyouv
  nyei sic. To help one another face the challenges
  of life I Peter 37 Proverbs 3110-31.
• Tengx hoqc hiuv duqv laanh qiemx zuqc laanh nyei
  jauv, maiv zeiz gorqv-zeic ganh haih yiem. To
  learn interdependence, not independence Gen.
  221-24 Eph. 521-33.
• Biux mengh bun mbuo hiuv duqv oix zuqc bangc
  Tin-Hungh nyei jauv. To show total dependence
  upon God I Peter 37.