Overcome Betrayal

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Overcome Betrayal

• October 19

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Think about this

• Think of a situation where you were initially
  upset by what was going on, but it turned out for
  the good?
• Joseph was certainly upset when his brothers sold
  him to a caravan of Ishmaelites.
• Today we look at how God is at work
• Even when its not obvious

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Listen for Josephs very bad day.

• Genesis 3719-24 (NIV) 19 "Here comes that
  dreamer!" they said to each other. 20 "Come now,
  let's kill him and throw him into one of these
  cisterns and say that a ferocious animal devoured
  him. Then we'll see what comes of his dreams." 21
  When Reuben heard this, he tried to rescue him
  from their hands. "Let's not take his life," he
  said. 22 "Don't shed any blood.

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Listen for Josephs very bad day.

• Throw him into this cistern here in the desert,
  but don't lay a hand on him." Reuben said this to
  rescue him from them and take him back to his
  father. 23 So when Joseph came to his brothers,
  they stripped him of his robe--the richly
  ornamented robe he was wearing-- 24 and they
  took him and threw him into the cistern. Now the
  cistern was empty there was no water in it.

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Hatred and Jealousy

• Initially, how did the brothers propose to get
  rid of Joseph?
• What intercessory role did Reuben play? What
  was his plan?
• What do you remember about the reference to that
  dreamer?
• What was the significance of the detail about
  Josephs coat?

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Hatred and Jealousy

• Based on some of these things, why did Josephs
  brothers hold him in such contempt?
• What emotional reaction do you have to Josephs
  betrayal?

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Hatred and Jealousy

• How do you respond when youre betrayed by people
  close to you?
• What makes jealousy such a powerful emotion?

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Listen for a twist in the plot.

• Genesis 3725-27 (NIV) 25 As they sat down to
  eat their meal, they looked up and saw a caravan
  of Ishmaelites coming from Gilead. Their camels
  were loaded with spices, balm and myrrh, and they
  were on their way to take them down to Egypt. 26
  Judah said to his brothers,

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Listen for a twist in the plot.

• "What will we gain if we kill our brother and
  cover up his blood? 27 Come, let's sell him to
  the Ishmaelites and not lay our hands on him
  after all, he is our brother, our own flesh and
  blood." His brothers agreed.

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People AbandonGod Is Always Attentive

• What did Josephs brothers do to him?
• What suggests to you that the brothers were
  worried about bearing the guilt of Josephs
  death?
• How would Joseph expect his life to change, once
  he was sold?

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People AbandonGod Is Always Attentive

• So, what are our options when we feel betrayed?
• What aspects of Josephs experience can you
  relate to most deeply?

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Listen for where Joseph ends up.

• Genesis 391-2 (NIV) 1 Now Joseph had been taken
  down to Egypt. Potiphar, an Egyptian who was one
  of Pharaoh's officials, the captain of the guard,
  bought him from the Ishmaelites who had taken him
  there. 2 The LORD was with Joseph and he
  prospered, and he lived in the house of his
  Egyptian master.

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People Betray God Blesses

• Who were the main people in these events, and
  what kind of people were they?
• Even in less than desirable circumstances for
  Joseph, how did God bless him?
• What ways can conflict, in good ways and bad,
  change someones life?

Bad ways Good ways

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People Betray God Blesses

• Why is it difficult to trust God when bad things
  happen?
• You know some of the rest of the story how do
  you think God was at work in this horrible
  betrayal?
• How should you respond the next time someone
  mistreats you?

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Application

• Thank God
• Be thankful to God in every situation
• When good things happen, thank Him for His
  blessings
• When bad things happen, thank Him for His power,
  His love, His authority at work in your life

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Application

• Forgive yourself
• If you feel the guilt of a past failure or
  shortcoming
• Claim 1 John 19 God forgives!
• Receive that forgiveness and go on from there

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Application

• Forgive others
• If you have a situation of betrayal that
  continues to impact you
• Write the persons name on a slip of paper
• Underneath the name write, I forgive you.

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Overcome Betrayal

• October 19