Adult Years

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Adult Years
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Polygamy variations

• Polygyny
• Polyandry

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Cohabitation

• When cohabitating couples marry, they have a
  greater risk of divorce than those couples who
  did not cohabitate.
• Many believe long term commitment not necessary
  for living arrangement
• Not a substitute for marriage

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Marital satisfaction

• Satisfied couples have
• Closeness
• Individual independence
• The Prophet
• Couples who have a good marriage believe the
  marriage enhances themselves as individuals.

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Gottmans research predicting marital
dissatisfaction

• Facial expressions of disgust or fear
• Defensiveness
• Expressions of contempt

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Gottmans research predicting separation

• Men showing no response to partners concerns
• Women not accepting responsibility for her part
  in creating problems in the relationship
• Expressing contempt for partners behavior

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Gottmans best predictor of marital satisfaction

• Moments of support, kindness, passion mutual
  pleasure far outweigh moments of disgust,
  criticism, defensiveness and anger

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Sexual satisfaction within marriage

• Frequency
• Mutuality in initiating sex
• Frequency for orgasm among women
• Compared with Kinseys research
• Men and women now have a wider repertoire of
  sexual behavior

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Sexuality and a feeling of well-being

• Women
• Feeling sexually attractive
• Men
• Sexual performance and attractiveness

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Extramarital sex (nonconsensual)

• Reasons for
• Wanting to expand emotionally or sexually
• Unavailability of sex within the marriage
• Way to begin ending a marriage
• Other factors
• Symptom of a disintegrating marriage
• May cause marital breakups
• Other serious consequences for both participant
  and spouse

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Impact of extramarital sex

• Difficult to determine, it may
• Motivate the couple to deal with their problems
• Result is dissolution of the marriage
• Be traumatic, resulting in guilt and betrayal of
  trust

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Divorce

• Increasing due to
• Reduction in social stigma attached to divorce
• Increased economic independence of women
• Liberalization of divorce laws

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Most frequently cited reason for divorce

• For men Communication difficulties
• For women communication difficulties

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High divorce rates with second marriages related
to

• Less willingness to stick around when things get
  rough

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Aging and sex

• Need for affection and sexual intimacy continues
  into older years
• Medications
• In elderly may effect sexual desire and function

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Factors influencing sexual activity in later years

• Physical health
• Regularity of sexual expression
• Sexual activity levels in early adulthood

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Aging and hormone Replacement therapy