RDCL

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RDCL

• Unlearn, Learn
• Gourmet food for the brain
• Samir Elias Zehil
• Member of the Worldwide Association of Business
  Coaches (WABC)
• Member of the International Coach Federation
  (ICF)

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12.5 OF SUCCESS COMES FROM TECHNICAL KNOWLEDGE
87.5 COMES FROM CHARACTER
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TWO INDICATORS FOR A PERSONS GOOD
CHARACTERHOW HE DEALS WITH PEOPLE WHO CANNOT
FIGHT BACKHOW HE DEALS WITH PEOPLE WHO CANNOT
DO HIM ANY GOODABIGAIL VAN BEUREN
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3 MEASURES FOR A HEALTHY PERSONALITY

1. YOUR PERSONALITY IS HEALTHY TO THE DEGREE TO
   WHICH YOU SEE THE GOOD IN EVERY SITUATION AND
   PERSON
2. YOUR PERSONALITY IS HEALTHY TO THE DEGREE TO
   WHICH YOU CAN FORGIVE
3. YOUR PERSONALITY IS HEALTHY TO THE DEGREE TO
   WHICH YOU CAN GET ALONG WITH ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE

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• WE DONT TELL A PERSON WHAT SHE DOESNT KNOW,
  WE JUST REVEAL TO HER WHAT SHE ALREADY KNOWS
• ARISTOTLE

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2 Steps to G-Attitude

• Focus on the Future/ Solution
• What do we do from here?
• Look for the Good/ Valuable Lesson
• What did we learn?

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What Sabotages Self Esteem?

• Destructive Criticism

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Correcting People Constructively through7
Actions
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-1- ALWAYS MENTION A POSITIVE QUALITY OF THE
PERSON protect peoples self esteem before
engaging in any discussion
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- 2 - ATTACK THE PROBLEM NEVER THE PERSON Say
always the way you did that was wrong and use
the I felt bad when this happened
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- 3 -

• BULLET- POINT THE PROBLEM
• Say always there are only 2 things that you must
  work on, and the rest is perfect

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• 4 - FOCUS ON THE FUTURE NOT THE PAST
• Say always from now on, we will...

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- 5 - LEADERS ALWAYS SAY WE
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- 6 -FINISH THE MEETING WITH A POSITIVE
NOTE Say I am sure you will do it right next
time (To trigger positive expectations)
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- 7 - PIP is sacred
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Part VII Unlearn Stress
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7 Sources of stress
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1. Lack of Direction
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2. Unfinished Things
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3. Trying to please everyoneType A behavior
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4. Denial
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5. AngerGross physical impact activity
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6. Inability to say NO
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7. Toxic Friendship
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Part VIIIThe 5 As to improve relationships
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• Agreeable
• Acceptance
• Appreciation
• Admiration
• Attention
• Boomerang principle

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Energy Sappers

• We all have between 60 and 100 small things
  pending
• Open a file on your phone and name it Energy
  Sappers
• These drain your energy, reducing your ability to
  attract success
• By simply writing them down, we regain 30 back
  of our energy
• Theyre like the a/c, you dont realize how loud
  they are until you turn them off

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CLUTER CONTROL

• You CANNOT accept anything new in your life
  unless you create the space for it
• Clutter are in Closets, Cars, Houses, Old
  Magazines.
• What you have NOT used for the last 6 months, you
  are NEVER going to use it (unless it its
  seasonal)

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What Clutter does!

• Less Stuff More Energy
• Clutter make you FAT (Karen Kingston)
• Clutter slows down the attention, focusing and
  thinking clearly
• Clutter can cause excess fatigue even
  depression

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Comfort Zone isYour Number One Personal Enemy!
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Traits of People who Suffer From Homeostasis

• Late risers
• Unfit, overweight
• Take same road to their work
• Read newspaper, not books
• Never consider changing jobs

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Traits of People who Suffer From Homeostasis

• Sit with same people in the cafeteria
• Hang out with the same group of people
• Never change their eating habits
• Never change their talking habits
• Changing house furniture for them is a nightmare
  

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Traits of People who Suffer From Homeostasis

• Dog-eat-dog strategy with restructuring
• Fight any new software
• Paralysis through analysis

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What is Psycho Sclerosis?
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Symptoms of Psycho Sclerosis

• It is when we are in love with our own ideas
• We become impatient
• We like to hear and talk about ourselves
• We hate contradictions (B. Ghali)

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• Whatever you are, be a good one
• Georges Washington