How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

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How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

• Marriage Enrichment Series

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Introduction

• Proverbs 515-23
• Proverbs 627-29, 32-35
• Cheating has become Americas national pastime!

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The Anatomy of David Bathshebas Affair (2 Sam.
6-12)

• Estrangement

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Top 5 Things Men Want in a Wife

1. Respect
2. Domestic support
3. Companionship
4. Sexual fulfillment
5. An attractive wife

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Top 5 Things Women Want in a Husband

1. Affection
2. Conversation on a Feeling Level
3. Honesty Openness
4. Financial Support
5. Family Commitment

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The Anatomy of David Bathshebas Affair (2 Sam.
6-12)

• Estrangement
• Encounter

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The Anatomy of David Bathshebas Affair (2 Sam.
6-12)

• Estrangement
• Encounter
• Empathy

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The Anatomy of David Bathshebas Affair (2 Sam.
6-12)

• Estrangement
• Encounter
• Empathy
• Enjoyment

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The Anatomy of David Bathshebas Affair (2 Sam.
6-12)

• Estrangement
• Encounter
• Empathy
• Enjoyment
• Expedite

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The Anatomy of David Bathshebas Affair (2 Sam.
6-12)

• Estrangement
• Encounter
• Empathy
• Enjoyment
• Expedite
• Expression

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The Anatomy of David Bathshebas Affair (2 Sam.
6-12)

• Estrangement
• Encounter
• Empathy
• Enjoyment
• Expedite
• Expression
• Effects

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How do you know if youve crossed the line
between friendship and something more?

1. Emotional Intimacy
2. Sexual Tension
3. Secrecy

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Conclusion

• Making your marriage affair-proof requires a
  large investment of time and emotional capital.
• But the investment is well worth it!

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Rules to Avoid Temptation

1. Spend all your recreational time either alone or
   with your spouse.
2. No meals alone with someone of the opposite sex.
3. No rides in cars alone with those of the opposite
   sex.

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• 4. Never tell someone of the opposite sex that
  you find them attractive or that you like them.
• 5. If someone of the opposite sex ever tells you
  that they find you attractive, start talking
  about how much you love your spouse.
• 6. Cultivate same-sex friendships with persons
  who share your morals and values.