Maj Gen Jay Lindell on Leadership*

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RULE 1
Honor Duty respect
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RULE 2
Be a leaderall the time
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Prevention 101

1. Have mutual support Wingman Concept
2. Trust your instincts Caveman Concept
3. Avoid alcohol

WINGMANCAVEMAN
RULE 3
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RULES OF THE ROAD FOR 3RD CLASS CADETS
SY2013-2014 Current as of 19 Aug 2013
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Lineup

• Substance abuse
• Rules keys to success
• Sexual harassment/assault
• Rules and keys to success

People do what you do, not what you say you do
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Road Map for the 3rd Class

• To be a successful 3rd class cadet, you must
• Know and follow The Citadels Rules of the Road
  on substance abuse and sexual conduct
• Set positive examples for the
• knobs, who frequently choose
• to follow the road YOU are on
• Avoid roadblocks to future
• like substance abuse
• and sexual misconduct
• Grasp opportunities

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Road Block 1 Substance Abuse
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What are SC alcohol laws and The Citadels
alcohol policy?
State Law Answers

• What is the legal age to drink alcohol in SC?
• What is the definition of DUI in SC?
• What Blood Alcohol Content (BAC) does a person
  have to have to be considered legally intoxicated
  in SC?
• What might the results of a DUI be?
• Where can alcohol be consumed or possessed on
  Citadel property and by whom?
• What are possible results of disobeying The
  Citadels alcohol policy?

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State Law Answers

• The legal age for drinking alcohol is
• 21 years old
• DUI is defined as operating a vehicle
• (boat, auto, bicycle, or motorcycle)
• while under the influence of alcohol
• SC Law states that a person with a
• Blood Alcohol Content (BAC) level over .08
  is considered
• legally intoxicated.
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  Possible results for offenders?
• -- Fines,
  jail time, and loss of drivers license
• -- Increase
  in insurance rates or eligibility for
• insurance
  dropped

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THE CITADEL ALCOHOL POLICY (1)

• No alcohol consumption or possession on Citadel
  property
• Barracks, campus, Hagood Stadium, College Park,
  Beach House--REGARDLESS OF AGE
• Cadets 21 or older may drink off campus within
  the confines of the law, and are expected to
  behave with honor
• Cadets may receive dismissal from the college for
  the following offenses
• -alcohol use or possession on-campus, second
  offense
• -alcohol use off-campus that discredits The
  Citadel
• -DUI conviction

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THE CITADEL ALCOHOL POLICY (2)

• Cadets may receive demerits, tours, and a
  mandated alcohol abuse evaluation at the
  Counseling Center for the following offenses
• -alcohol use or possession by a minor off-campus
  
• -open alcohol container off- or on-campus
• -alcohol related disturbance
• Cadets may receive demerits, tours, a mandated
  alcohol abuse evaluation at the Counseling
  Center, and a company transfer for
• -alcohol use or possession by a minor on-campus
• -three or more Alcohol I offenses during cadet
  career
• -- MANDATORY CONDUCT REVIEW BOARD

MAKE THE RIGHT CALL AND HELP A CLASSMATE MAKE
THE RIGHT CALL, TOO
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Citadel Policy -- Other Drugs

• Zero tolerance
• Illegal use, sale, possession or solicitation of
  drugs or drug paraphernalia
• Synthetics like K2, Spice
• Hallucinogenic substances, such as Salvia
  divinorum,
• Policy applies to all cadets ANY TIME OR ANY
  PLACE
• Policy also applies to prescription drugs for
  which there is no prescription. You cannot share
  your prescriptions with anyone.
• Any of those offenses may result in expulsion

MAKE THE RIGHT CALL AND HELP A CLASSMATE MAKE
THE RIGHT CALL, TOO
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Legal does not mean safe when it comes to drugs

• SYNTHETIC THC SPICE/K2/SPACE/etc. This is not a
  drug to be taken lightly, users are risking
  inducing psychosis, a mood disorder
• Could lead to serious and potentially long-term
  mental disorders.
• The patients experienced anxiety, depression,
  paranoia and hallucinations to include seeing
  ghosts and hearing imaginary voices
• Unlike marijuana, synthetic chemicals in
  spice-type products are more potent to the brain
  and other organs.
• They bind themselves more permanently to those
  receptors, at 200 times the level of THC
• Its not yet known how long these chemicals stay
  in the body or what changes happen to those
  cells, so it is difficult to know how they may
  harm the brain and the rest of the body
• Chemicals in spice take longer to bind to those
  receptor cell
• It takes longer for a spice user to feel the high
  than a marijuana user.
• That causes more people to overdose on the
  substance
• They will end up using a lot more thinking they
  might need more to get high

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• Beyond the Policy
• Respect Your Life
• Respect Lives of Others
• People will Notice
• What you do

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Know Someone who Might Have a Drug or Alcohol
Problem?

• Get help!
• TREATMENT Alcohol Abuse
• Treatment at the Counseling Center is
  confidential ask for help for yourself or
  another cadet before there are life-altering
  consequences
• Goals of treatment for may include learning risk
  management strategies and making more informed
  decisions, rather than abstinence
• Focus may be on protecting people, both the cadet
  and others, from harm that results from alcohol
  misuse

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By the Way

• Approximately 70 of sexual assaults among
  college students involve alcohol/drug use
• Alcohol/drugs cloud judgment
• Alcohol can lead to misinterpreting someones
  behavior
• Alcohol and drug use is not a defense for
  inappropriate behavior

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Road Block 2 Sexual Misconduct
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What are SC Laws and The Citadel Sexual
Harassment/Assault Policies?

• What is definition of sexual harassment?
• What is definition of sexual assault/rape?
• What is legal consent?
• What are possible results of sexual misconduct?

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The Law and Citadel Policy--Sexual Harassment--

• Sexual harassment
• Includes unwelcome sexual advances, requests for
  sexual favors, and other verbal or physical
  conduct of a sexual nature
• Is frequently a display of formal or informal
  power intended to demean, embarrass, intimidate,
  or coerce a person
• Can occur between members of the same gender
• In a nutshell, sexual harassment is
• UNWANTED verbal, physical, written, or visual
  sexual attention
• Possible results for offenders?
• Expulsion, dismissal, suspension
• Tours, cons
• Arrest and jail

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Beyond the Law and Policies Respect Others
People will Notice What you do

• Sexual harassment has real consequences
• Victims of SH more likely to drop out of school,
  suffer from depression, have anxiety attacks, and
  even commit suicide

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The Law and Citadel Policy--Sexual Assault--

• Rape is
• Sexual penetration (anal, oral, or vaginal),
  however slight
• Which is forced, manipulated, or coerced upon a
  person who has not given affirmative consent
  and/or who is legally unable to consent
• Sexual assault is
• Rape and all other forms of unlawful sexual
  behavior and contact which is not mutually agreed
  upon (or legally cannot be agreed upon) by all
  persons involved. Examples
• unwanted touching on skin or through clothing
• touching an intimate part of another person such
  as genitals, buttocks, or breasts

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Legal Affirmative Consent

• People can only consent to sex if they are
• Of age (16)
• Conscious
• Awake
• Sober or straight enough to make reasonable
  decisions
• Not mentally challenged
• Free of mind-altering drugs
• Not coerced physically or by someone in a
• position of power or authority
• If these criteria are met, sex may occur if both
  people
• Give consent during the ENTIRE encounter
• Unresponsiveness is NOT consent
• Pushing away is NOT consent
• If these criteria are not met, then sexual
  assault or rape might have occurred

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The reality of rape is not a joke
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What can you do to stay safe and help others?

• Follow The Citadel, state, and federal rules and
  laws
• Do not tolerate criminal behavior of others
• Do not have sex with someone you do not know well
• Do not have sex with someone who has been doing
  any drugs, including alcohol
• Ask, ask, ask, ask, ask, ask, ask and listen,
  listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen
• Look out for your fellow cadets establish
  battle buddies
• Dont drink alcohol
• Watch your drink (even water) when you are out
• Be aware of your surroundings and take
  precautions
• If you or another cadet believe you have been
  sexually assaulted or sexually harassed
• Go to a safe place
• Report the situation as soon as possible to
  whomever you feel comfortable talking to about
  the incident (in or outside the chain of command)
• The situation then needs to be reported to Ms.
  Shealy (CARE), who can provide complete
  information regarding options for medical
  treatment counseling other resources academic
  accommodations seeking informal reporting
  filing formal disciplinary charges filing a
  report to law enforcement and/or Public Safety

CARE 843-425-1315
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On Retaliation

• Retaliation against anyone who reports sexual
  assault and/or sexual harassment is against our
  policies and will not be tolerated

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Point to Ponder--Russ Keller--

• A leader is visible all of the time, living in a
  glass house.  Keep in mind the audience is a big
  one and ever present.
• PRACTICAL ADVICE  Dont look at the glass house
  as something negative the glass house effect is
  actually a huge advantage that gives us the
  opportunity to reinforce the good stuff all the
  time

Never Underestimate Your Effect on People
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Rules of the Road
Honor Duty respect
Be a leaderall the time
WINGMANCAVEMAN
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• QUESTIONS?

MAKE THE RIGHT CALL AND HELP A CLASSMATE MAKE
THE RIGHT CALL, TOO