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Title: How to Plan your Celebration of Life


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How to Plan your Celebration of Life
  • An Evening of Thought Presented to _________
    (Catholic) Church
  • Nancy Lohman, Lohman Funeral Homes, Cemeteries
    Cremation

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How to Plan Your Celebration of Life
  • First the Key Decisions
  • The ExperienceCreating Memorable Moments
    Lifes Keepsakes
  • The Value of Memorialization
  • Where do you go from here?

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The Key Decisions
  • First Your Personal Preferred Choice
  • of Disposition
  • Burial (Interment) within a Cemetery
  • Entombment in a Mausoleum or Crypt
  • Cremation
  • Forwarding out of state,
  • followed by Burial or Entombment

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What Specifically is the Cremation Process?
  • Process by which the body is reduced by intense
    heat over several hours to produce small skeletal
    fragments. These fragments are then processed
    through a grinder/sieve and placed in a container
    called an urn. The urn is then usually placed in
    a memorial niche or ground space in a cemetery or
    kept in some other location, such as your home.

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Is Forwarding the Remains Possible?
  • Your Funeral Home here will serve as both your
    advisor and your protector/agent working long
    distance with another funeral professional.
  • Your Funeral Home is experienced and has a
    network of other helpful professionals around the
    country.
  • Most Funeral Homes belong to our national
    association (ICCFA) which greatly enhances our
    ability to efficiently coordinate the legal and
    practical details of a death through a variety of
    professional tools. These tools include books
    which provide information on funeral homes
    nationwide as well as daily newspapers nationwide.

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  • Second Regardless of disposition, choose your
    funeral tribute of choice. Funeral rites aka
    burial rights ceremonies commemorating a life,
    performed in an established or prescribed manner.
  • Funeral funeral rites held at the time of
    disposition with the body present.
  • Memorial funeral rites held at the time of
    disposition without the body present.
  • Committal Service the portion of the service
    which is conducted at the place of disposition.
  • Forwarding up north (typically) for services
    up there.
  • Graveside Service ceremony at the place of
    disposition (with no service prior
    to the graveside service).

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The Key Decisions
  • Lastly- which elements of your familys
    celebration of your life are most important to
    you?
  • Spend time reflecting on The Experience.
  • Your visitation, funeral and final resting
    place are personal expressions of love and
    individuality.

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Creating Memorable Moments and Lifes Keepsakes
  • The Funeral Experience
  • Allows for a final act of love.
  • Allows us to create the significance of our loved
    one and our loss.
  • Like a baptism or wedding, the Rite of Passage
    (service) allows us to recognize an important
    event that distinguishes our lives forever.
  • It commemorates life.
  • Allows family and friends to say goodbye.

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  • Creating Memorable Moments and Lifes Keepsakes
  • The Funeral Experience
  • Helps you establish ongoing support.
  • Provides a safe environment to grieve.
  • Provides an opportunity for extended and
    sometimes unexpected family, friends and
    acquaintances to grieve and show you compassion,
    comfort and caring.

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Creating Memorable Moments and Lifes Keepsakes
  • The Funeral Experience
  • Helps you gently embrace a new reality
  • Helps you (especially a spouse) adjust to a new
    identity
  • Allows for the first steps toward healthy
    emotional
  • adjustment after loss
  • We must accept that death has occurred before
  • we can begin resolving our grief
  • Helps you go from the present to memories
  • Provides an occasion for saying goodbye
  • reminiscing and reflection.

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Making it Personal and Unique
  • The Vigil
  • Eulogies
  • Story Telling
  • Personalization
  • Photo tributes DVDs
  • Memorabilia
  • A small token or keepsake for each guest
  • A written tribute
  • A keepsake which is kept for a lifetime
  • Is often a persons only printed life story

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  • The Value of Memorialization
  • Creating a permanent memorial of you and your
    life
  • Sadly overlooked and leaves some family members
    feeling empty
  • Requires careful thought, planning and financial
    resources, particularly if cremation is the
    preferred choice of disposition because of the
    myriad of choices

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  • The Value of a Cemetery Memorialization
  • Provides a tranquil sanctuary where you and your
    family can find peace, hope and healing
  • It is a place where you can connect spiritually
    and emotionally
  • It can be a place for dedicated thought,
    reflection and prayer
  • It can be private as in family garden estates
    allowing for an entire area to be dedicated to
    your family name and/or consecrated and blessed

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Fr. Ryans Familys Private Family Catholic
Garden
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The Value of Above Ground Entombment
Memorialization
  • It began with Jesus entombment
  • It often has a permanent chapel
  • It can be private with a walk-in vestibule
  • Typically, it not only commemorates and pays
    tribute to a life, but also makes a statement
    about the impact that family has had in their
    profession or community, i.e. John Rockefeller.

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The Value of Memorialization
  • when Cremation is the preferred choice
  • Niches a space in a columbarium or mausoleum
  • Glass front niches are used for the permanent
    placement of cremated remainsallows you to
    personalize and create a story
  • Ground inurnment is used for the permanent
    placement of cremated remains
  • Cremation memorials benches, honor rocks
  • Scattering pond and scattering rock gardens

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Where do you go from here?
  • Educate yourself
  • Talk about your wishes with your family
  • Complete a Personal Planning Guide
  • Meet with a Pre-Planning Specialist
  • What you should know
  • Florida state laws highly regulate funeral homes
    and cemeteries
  • Pre-planned funeral services are 100 refundable
    and/or transferable in the state of Florida

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Costs can be outlined in 4 areas
  • Services of the funeral home
  • Cemetery memorialization burial space or
    mausoleum crypt, cremation niche, scattering
    garden, family garden estate, and memorial marker
    or monument
  • Casket and vault or urn and urn vault
  • Optional items Death Certificate, flowers, etc.

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What you should know
  • Funeral homes and cemeteries are financially
    audited every 3 years by the FL Department of
    Banking Finance
  • Surprise inspections occur annually for all
    funeral homes by the FL Department of Banking
    Finance
  • Funeral homes have 3 licenses
  • Funeral Home License
  • Pre-Need License (Certificate of Authority)
  • Funeral Directors License
  • Cemeteries must have 2 licenses
  • Cemetery License
  • Pre-Need License (Certificate of Authority)

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Why Consider Pre-Planning?
  • Emotional Value Your loved ones will be
    relieved of making painful decisions at a
    difficult time
  • Financial Value Eliminates emotional
    overspending
  • Peace of Mind Your selections reflect your
    wishes
  • By paying in advance, the price will never
    increase and you can choose an affordable payment
    plan

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Ask Who Owns the Company
  • Family Owned
  • A deep commitment to upholding professional
    standards and providing personal service
  • Personal Pride our business is a part of our
    home town
  • Were building relationships so that your family
    and friends will return to us
  • Long term commitment
  • were into our third generation

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Locally Owned
  • Neighbors serving neighbors were a part of
    your community
  • We have one singular focus all our attention is
    devoted to making our funeral home the best it
    can be
  • Were not distracted by or bound to a corporate
    policy, so we can be more flexible and more
    responsive to your needs
  • We take any opportunity to be involved in the
    community so that you know us personally
  • We are able to create the kind of personal
    relationships that will allow us to provide the
    individual, sensitive service your family
    deserves

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Thank you so much for having us! Any
Questions? Call Nancy Lohman 386.451.2011
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