Title: GUARDIAN AD LITEM:
1GUARDIAN AD LITEM
- BRIDGING THE GAP BETWEEN HIGH-CONFLICT DIVORCE
AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
2PRESENTERS
- Honorable Judge Chester Harhut
- Danielle M. Ross, Esquire
- Ann Marie Termini, Ed.S., M.S., LPC
- Lackawanna County Family Court
- 45th Judicial District
- 200 Adams Avenue
- Scranton, PA 18503
3BRIDGING THE GAP BETWEEN HIGH-CONFLICT DIVORCE
AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
- Objectives
- Examine the difference between conflict and abuse
- Introduce a differential case management approach
that prioritizes families based on the severity
of conflict and abuse - Showcase a guardian ad litem program designed to
investigate domestic violence and recommend
appropriate interventions
4SOURCE OF CONFUSION
- Term high-conflict used to describe more intense
and protracted disputes that require court
resources and include domestic violence cases - Terms domestic violence, conflict and abuse used
interchangeably, without clear definition or
understanding of terms - Domestic violence euphemized as conflict and
others argue that any conflict interpreted as
domestic violence
5HIGH CONFLICT VERSUS ABUSEDalton, Carbon
Olesen. High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and
Abuse Implications for Custody and Visitation
Decisions, Juvenile and Family Court, Fall 2003,
pp 11-32
- DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
- Strategic, instrumental tactics and behaviors
asserted by the batterer directed at or upon his
intimate partner - Designed to induce fear and maintain power and
control in the relationship - Induction of fear and threats to harm
- Views authority as right and privilege
- CONFLICT
- Mutual responsibility for disagreements, problems
or antagonism - Referred to by levels high-low
- Considered result of stress, health problems, or
alcohol and drug use - Situational
-
6HIGH CONFLICT VERSUS ABUSEDalton, Carbon
Olesen. High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and
Abuse Implications for Custody and Visitation
Decisions, Juvenile and Family Court, Fall 2003,
pp 11-32
- HIGH CONFLICT
- ? Personality
- Disorders
- Resulting from
- unresolved
- childhood issues
- ABUSE
-
- ? Attitudes and
- behavior intended to
- apply inappropriate
- control in the
- relationship
- ? Symptoms of
- physical and/or
- emotional harm from
- exposure from abuse
7HIGH CONFLICT VERSUS ABUSEDalton, Carbon
Olesen. High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and
Abuse Implications for Custody and Visitation
Decisions, Juvenile and Family Court, Fall 2003,
pp 11-32
- HIGH-CONFLICT
- ? Parents equally vocal about their differences
and one anothers perceived parenting inadequacies
- ABUSE
- ? Abusive partner likely
- deny/minimize abuse
- ? Abused partner may
- have been or still may
- be, unwilling or afraid
- to disclose either
- abuse or concerns
- regarding partners
- parenting abilities
8HIGH CONFLICT VERSUS ABUSEDalton, Carbon
Olesen. High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and
Abuse Implications for Custody and Visitation
Decisions, Juvenile and Family Court, Fall 2003,
pp 11-32
- HIGH CONFLICT
- ? Unresolved feelings
- associated with the
- failed relationship
- which are directed
- into fighting over
- the children
- ABUSE
- ? Abusive partners unresolved feelings
regarding partner's desire to separate from the
relationship trigger the abusive partner to - fight for custody
- or generous access
- or
- use children to
- meet physical or
- emotional needs
9HIGH CONFLICT VERSUS ABUSEDalton, Carbon
Olesen. High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and
Abuse Implications for Custody and Visitation
Decisions, Juvenile and Family Court, Fall 2003,
pp 11-32
- HIGH CONFLICT
- ? Mistrust of each parent for
- the other
- ? based on distorted and
- exaggerated negative view
- of each held by the other
- ABUSE
- ? Mistrust of the abusive partner
- by the victim, documented by
- ? past experience
- ? informed assessment
- of abuser's current
- intentions and likely
- future behavior
- ? Unfounded allegations about
- the victim made by the abusive
- parent
- ? based on his or her
- distorted and
- exaggerated negative
- view of the abused
- parent
10HIGH CONFLICT VERSUS ABUSEDalton, Carbon
Olesen. High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and
Abuse Implications for Custody and Visitation
Decisions, Juvenile and Family Court, Fall 2003,
pp 11-32
- ABUSE
- ? Repeated instances of manipulation and
control, which further erode the abused partners
capacity to trust the abuser
- HIGH CONFLICT
- ? Cycles of reaction
- and counter
- reaction, which
- further erode the
- possibility of trust
11HIGH CONFLICT VERSUS ABUSEDalton, Carbon
Olesen. High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and
Abuse Implications for Custody and Visitation
Decisions, Juvenile and Family Court, Fall 2003,
pp 11-32
- HIGH CONFLICT
- ? Pressure on the children
- to take sides, resulting
- in children, occasionally,
- relieving the pressure by
- pleasing one parent since
- they cannot please both
- ABUSE
- ? Children fearful of
- exposure to the abusive
- partners dangerous,
- neglectful, or
- inappropriate behavior, yet
- ? Often desire to maintain
- contact to him or her.
- ? Sometimes distrustful of the
- abused parents capacity to
- meet their physical, social,
- and emotional needs.
12DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THE DETERMINATION OF CHILD
CUSTODY
- The National Council of Juvenile and Family Court
Judges and the ABA recommend adopting a
presumption -
- Deny joint or sole custody
- to a parent with a history of DV
- - DV frequent shown to be harmful to children,
whether - abused physically or not.
- - Awarding batterers primary or joint custody
should be - viewed as being either detrimental to
children or failing - to satisfy their best interests.
-
13DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THE DETERMINATION OF CHILD
CUSTODY
- The National Council of Juvenile and Family Court
Judges and the ABA recommend adopting a
presumption - Deny joint or sole custody
- to a parent with a history of DV
- -Abusive parent realizes, after separation or
divorce, that - most effective way to hurt or destroy the
other parent is - through emotional or psychological abuse
utilizing the - family courts.
- -Joint custody and two equal parents
cooperatively - planning for their children's future is
impossible for couple - when there is family violence.
- -Shared custody may perpetuate the violence and
abusive - power and control in family relationships.
14DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THE DETERMINATION OF CHILD
CUSTODY
- Centre for Children and Families in the Justice
System - Rebuttable Presumption
- Approximately one-third of US states
- Abusive spouse cannot have sole or joint
custody - of their children because of the potential
harm - (direct and indirect) to the children
-
- (Jaffe, Lemon Poisson, 2002).
15DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RELEVANT TO POSTSEPARTION
PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS
- MYTH Domestic Violence ends with separation
for abused - woman
- Fact Abused women often face continuing
risks - from their partner after separation.
- Separation is the most dangerous time for abused
women - - Approximately one-quarter of abuse victims,
the - violence became more severe compared to
- pre-separation violence (Statistics Canada,
2001)
16DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RELEVANT TO POSTSEPARTION
PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS
- Fact Abused women often face continuing
- risks from their partner after
separation. - Physical abuse, stalking, and harassment
continue - as significant rates post-separation
- Access to children can be used by batterers as
an - opportunity to further abuse their former
- spouse.
- - One-quarter of the women reported that their
- lives were threatened during access
(Leighton, - 1989)
17DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RELEVANT TO POSTSEPARTION
PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS
- Fact Abused women often face continuing
- risks from their partner after
separation - Threats to obtain custody are commonly used by
- abusers as a weapon against the abuse victim
to - enhance his power and control post separation.
- - Research batterers are more likely to apply
for - custody and equally likely to be granted it
in - comparison to nonviolent fathers (Zorza,
1995).
18DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RELEVANT TO POSTSEPARTION
PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS
- Significant overlap between spousal violence and
child abuse - Children exposed to domestic violence may suffer
from significant emotional and behavioral
problems related to this traumatic experience - Perpetrators of spousal abuse are poor role
models for children - Abusive partners undermine the victim's parenting
role - Jaffe, Crooks, Claire Bala. Sept 2005.
- Making Appropriate Parenting Arrangement in
Family Violence Cases - Applying the Literature to identify Promising
Practices
19DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RELEVANT TO POSTSEPARTION
PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS
- Diminished parenting capacities among victims
often occurs - Victims may need to reestablish their competence
as parents - learn how to nurture and protect themselves and
their children - Victims behavior under stress of the abusive
relationship and during the aftermath of a
stressful separation should not inappropriately
prejudice the residential or access decisions
20SIGNIFICANCE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE OFTEN
OVERLOOKED BY COURTS AND FAMILY LAW PROFESSIONALS
- Where DV has been alleged, courts may not give
credence or sufficient weight to a history of
partner abuse in making decisions about child
custody or visitation. - Judges often disbelieve credible evidence of DV
and discount its seriousness. - Allegations often wrongly perceived as false
- Because they are made in a contentious
- environment
- Because of the misperception that litigating
- parents concoct violence charges to gain an
- advantage in court.
21SIGNIFICANCE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE OFTEN
OVERLOOKED BY COURTS AND FAMILY LAW PROFESSIONALS
- Most abused women have difficulty proving their
abuse in family court proceedings because of
insufficient corroborating evidence. - Three quarters of abuse victims do not contact
the police, independent evidence often required
by the courts is lacking (Stats Canada, 1993).
22SIGNIFICANCE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE OFTEN
OVERLOOKED BY COURTS AND FAMILY LAW PROFESSIONALS
- Abuse survivors may present as angry, distrustful
and suspicious with all professionals related to
the court proceedings. -
- ? Undermines their effectiveness in dealing
- with the court system
-
- ? May result in adverse inferences drawn
- about their attitudes, parenting skills
and - ability to promote a relationship with the
- other parent .
- (Jaffe Geffner, 1998).
23PROBLEMS FOR VICTIMS CREATED BY CURRENT CUSTODY
DISPUTE RESOLUTION SYSTEM
- In situations of DV, a co-parenting relationship
and impact of the ongoing conflict on children
often represent a negative influence on children - Battered spouses are advised to promote
relationships and set aside past conflicts with
their former spouses who may be of danger to them
and their children - If dont comply, deemed unfit or unfriendly
parents and could lose custody to abusive
parent
24THE ROLE OF THE GUARDIAN AD LITEM
25The two core focuses of this change are . . .
26- 1. Self-Settlement
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- Provide a Life Line for the Child(ren)
- a Guardian Ad Litem
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30Brief Overview Of Five (5) Step Sequential
Evaluation
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32STEP 1
33Types of Cases, Subject to Automatic Appointment
- C.Y.S. involvement
- 2. Parties with any mental health issues and/or
allegations - 3. Parties with substance abuse issues
- 4. Domestic Violence
- 5. Parent whom do not communicate
- 6. Pending and/or past PFA filings
- 7. Parties with supervised visits
- 8. Parties with pending criminal charges and/or
investigations - 9. Parties with domestic instability
- 10. Allegations of sexual and/or physical abuse
34STEP 2
Building a relationship with the family
G.A.L. MEETS WITH PARTIES
G.A.L. MEETS WITH CHILD(REN)
Goal The G.A.L. is to serve as the childs life
line, if necessary.
35Disparaging Words
Middle Man
36SPECIALIZED PROTOCOLS AND PROCEDURES Jaffe, P.,
Johnston, J, Crooks, C Bala, N. (2008).
Custody Disputes Involving Allegations of
Domestic Violence Toward a Differentiated
Approach to Parenting Plans
- Prioritized Goals
- 1. Protect children directly from violence,
abusive, and - neglectful environments
- 2. Provide for safety and support the
well-being of - parents who are victims of abuse
- 3. Respect and empower victim parents to make
their - own decisions and direct their own lives
- 4. Hold perpetrators accountable for their past
and - future actions
- 5. Allow and promote the least restrictive plan
for - parent-child access that benefits the
child, along - with parents reciprocal rights
37BRIDGING THE GAPTHE GUARDIANS ROLE
- Screening
- Intervention
- Case Management
- Enforcement
38SCREENING A DIFFERENTIAL RESPONSE
- Collection of sufficient data
- Safety of the child and principal caregiver
- Presence and extent of violence/abusive behaviors
in the parental relationship - Meaning and impact of violence on the victim
- Meaning and impact of violence on each child
- Degree to which behaviors interfere with the
parenting and child-well being - Degree children drawn in as instruments of the
abuse, and overlapping forms of maltreatment -
- Identification of the extent to which court
process is being used to extend power and control
issues - Ongoing risk assessment
- Use of experts
39SCREENING A DIFFERENTIAL RESPONSE
- Pertinent Records
- Evaluations
- Police reports
- Child Abuse/Child Protective Reports
- Criminal records
- Records of court activity
- Court files
- Relevant Prior civil or criminal cases involving
either party - Medical, and dental records
- School records
40SCREENING A DIFFERENTIAL RESPONSE
- Collateral Sources
- Family Members, friend and neighbors regular
interaction with family - Professionals with whom family has had ongoing
associations - Professionals who have become involved because of
reported incidents
41STEP 3
Based on the interviews conducted, the G.A.L.
will make an assessment as to what services, if
any, the parties need . . .
Procedural Note G.A.L. will get agreement
and/or Court Order, if necessary, by filing a
Petition.
42INTERVENTION A DIFFERENTIAL RESPONSE
- Create custody and visitation orders that secure
ongoing safety and well being of abused parent
and child - Prevent abusive parent using procedures as a
means of controlling and abusing the other parent - Structured agreements and schedules to avoid
contact and negotiation - Detailed orders readily enforceable and
comprehensive - Parenting plans appropriate to ensure healthy
outcomes for children and parent-child
relationships
43INTERVENTION A DIFFERENTIAL RESPONSE
- Batters Intervention Program
- DV Victim services
- Programs for children
- Alcohol/Addiction Counseling
- Court monitoring/review hearings
- Sole Custody
- Denial of overnight visits
- Restrain abusive parents communication with or
proximity to the other parent - Restrain abusive parents communication with
children except in context of authorized
visitation - Supervised Exchange
- Visitation
- Visits limited to a specific location or
locations - Restrictions on the presence of specific persons
other than the parent while parent is with the
children - Prohibition on the abusive parents using alcohol
or drugs during or within a specified time period
prior to visits - Supervised Visitation
- Appropriate levels of restriction
- Structured supervised setting
- Informally supervised by appropriate family
members - Ease restrictions over time if compliance
44STEP 4
Information Network
In the best interest of the child(ren), the
G.A.L. orchestrates an information network
between the Court, Service Providers,
Practitioners and parties.
45CASE MANAGEMENT A DIFFERENTIAL RESPONSE
- Create an information network between the court,
service providers, practitioners and parties - Determine access to services (barriers)
- Establish interagency cooperation and
communication - Monitoring safety and progress
- Overall community coordination of services
- Coordinate roles and provide checks and balances
to interventions while ensuring accountability
for violence, protecting civil rights of all
parities
46STEP 5
G.A.L. CONFERENCE
So, then, is it safe to assume we cannot reach an
agreement?
47Process of G.A.L. Conference
Will take place at the Family Law Center
Purpose To discuss the information received
during Step 4 as well as the G.A.Ls assessment
in an attempt to facilitate an agreement/stipulati
on/settlement
Unlike Mediation, in the event an agreement is
not reached, the information obtained during this
process may/shall be included in the G.A.L.s
report to the Court.
48- The G.A.L. Conference is the last chance the
parties have to settle. - In the event the parties do not settle at the
G.A.L. Conference, a Hearing will definitely take
place. Their will not be an opportunity to
discuss the issues with the Judge and/or his
staff on the day the hearing is scheduled. - This is for three (3) reasons
- The parties and practitioners need to utilize the
G.A.L. Conference as a pre-hearing settlement
conference and take it seriously. - Practitioners will know that if they make it to
the Courthouse on the day their case is scheduled
for a hearing, a hearing will take place. So,
there will not be any question as to when
witnesses need to be available, etc. - As a matter of course, cases wind up settling
minutes before the hearing, which ties up the
Judges calendars and wastes time that could have
been utilized for other important cases.
49Outcome of G.A.L. Conference
Procedural Note Depending on outcome of G.A.L.
Conference, G.A.L. will obtain Order or case
scheduled for hearing.
50COMMON INTEREST
51ENFORCEMENT A DIFFERENTIAL RESPONSE
- Higher level of care and vigilance
- Monitor detailed court order
- Ensure compliance with the details of the order
- Protect custodial parents autonomy to make
decisions based on the childrens best interests - Guard against manipulation by the abusing parent
52Future Filings . . .
53Time Frame
- Each case will be assessed individually
- There will be certain cases concerning
issues which require a fast - track approach to the process, i.e.
Relocation. - Within ten (10) days after meeting with
both parties and the - minor child(ren), the G.A.L. will
contact the practitioners to - discuss which services she/he feels are
necessary - Within forty-five (45) days from the date
the parties and/or - minor child(ren) begin services, the
G.A.L. will contact the - practitioners and/or the parties to
arrange for the G.A.L. - Conference.
- The G.A.L. Conference will be scheduled no
later than sixty (60) - days from the date of the G.A.L.s
appointment, unless the G.A.L. - obtains Court approval.
54End Result . . .
Families
whom 1. Take advantage of the services offered
by the Court 2. Come to their own
agreement and are best
suited to follow their agreement 3. Focus on
the best interest of their children 4. Are
healthy enough to raise healthy children
whom are resilient and have a chance.