Title: inferiority complex
1Complete Guide on Child's Inferiority Complex
2What is an Inferiority Complex?
- An inferiority complex is defined as an
unrealistic feeling of generalised inadequacy
caused by actual and supposed inferiority in one
sphere, sometimes marked by aggressive behaviour
for compensation.
3History of Inferiority Complex
- The term "inferiority complex" was coined at the
turn of the 20th century by Australian
psychologist Alfred Adler. Adler believed that we
are all born with some amount of inferiority,
learned in childhood and that we all have an
inborn drive to overcome this sense of inadequacy.
4Symptoms of inferiority Complex
- If one has an inferiority complex, here are some
of the everyday things they might experience - Insecurity and low self-esteem
- Inability to reach their goals, or feeling
"stuck". - Wanting to give up easily
- Feeling the need to withdraw in social situations
- Often feeling down on oneself
- Experiencing anxiety and depression
5The following are also signs of an inferiority
complex, though they are often mistaken for
someone who seems overly confident
- Highly competitive streak
- Perfectionism
- Attention-seeking
- Very sensitive to criticism
- Continually finding faults in others
- Finding it difficult to admit their mistakes
6Encouraging Self-Sufficiency Assigning chores
and other age-appropriate tasks helps a child
build a sense of mastery and prevents them from
becoming too passive or dependent, which
generally heightens the feelings of insecurity.
7- Modelling Self-CompassionÂ
- When one makes mistakes, such as misplacing the
car keys or arriving late to an appointment, do
not berate them in front of the child. Use those
moments as opportunities to show the child how to
react. - Admit the mistake wholeheartedly, accept the
consequences, apologise if needed, and then let
it go. If one can, point out that they are glad
to be able to learn from it so they can avoid
making the same mistake in the future.
8- Practising Mindfulness Meditation TogetherÂ
- An increasing body of research, and an analysis
of more than 100 previous studies, suggested that
mindfulness practice sitting quietly, usually
with eyes closed, and paying calm attention to
your breath and your thoughts without judgement
increases optimism, decreases reactivity to
stress, reduces anxiety and aggressive behaviour,
enhances resilience, and confers a host of other
benefits in both children and adults.
9- Therapy
- Psychotherapy is a great place to start when you
are looking to work through your inferiority
complex. Your therapist can help guide you
through your past experiences with criticism, low
self-esteem, or any traumas that may have shaped
your negative self-image.
10- Eliminate toxic people from your life
- Making a conscious goal to surround yourself with
more positive and uplifting people can also make
a huge difference. Unhealthy or toxic
relationships can, at times, set us up for
failure, especially if you are particularly
sensitive to people who always put you down or if
you have a history of complicated relationships.
11Thank You!