Family

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Family

• He who finds a wife finds what is good and
  receives favor from the Lord.
• Proverb 1822

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Introduction

• The greatest happiness and the deepest
  satisfaction,and the most profound peace all come
  from being a member of loving family.
• Relationship is a process.
• Behind every successful man is a smart woman.
• Healthy family is the base of strong nation .
  (The theory of vicious circle).
• There is a war against the traditional family
  values.
• Apply the following essential rules for improving
  communication and making your relationships more
  loving

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Essential Rules

• 1. Remember that actions speak louder than words
  nonverbal communication is more powerful than
  verbal communication.
• 2. Define what is important and stress it
  define what is unimportant and de-emphasize or
  ignore it.
• 3.Make your communication as realistically
  positive as possible.
• 4. Be clear and specific in your communication.

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Essential Rules

• 5. Be realistic and reasonable in your
  statements.
• 6.Test all your assumptions verbally before
  acting on them.
• 7.Recognize that each event can be seen from
  different points of view.
• 8.Recognize that your family members can give you
  valuable observations regarding you and your
  behavior.

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Essential Rules

• 9.Learn how to disagree without getting into
  destructive arguments.
• 10.Be open and honest about your feelings. Bring
  up all significant problems. Do not walk on eggs.
• 11. Do not engage in dirty fighting.
• 12. Show respect your partner and hes feelings

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Essential Rules

• 13. Learn when to use humor and when to be
  serious.
• 14. Listen carefully , ask questions, and try to
  understand what your partner is trying to
  communicate.