Title: Two to Five Months
1Two to FiveMonths
Created by Ilse DeKoeyer-Laros, Ph.D.
2Overview Chapter 6
- Physical and Motor Development
- Perceptual Development
- Cognitive Development
- Emotional Development
- Family and Society
Experiential Exercises Co-regulating with Baby
3Introduction
- Around 6-8 weeks first major developmental
transition - motor movements more purposeful and deliberate
- perception more acute
- waking time and attention span increase rapidly
- able to establish and maintain eye contact,
demanding crying wanes, and social smile emerges - These changes lead to longer adult-infant
interactions the beginnings of social play
4Physical Development
- At birth, most infants are 19 to 21 inches in
length weigh between 7 and 8 pounds - boys are slightly longer heavier than girls
- By 6 months, height increases by a factor of 1.5,
while weight increases by a factor of 2 - Individual differences become larger with age
- as infants get older, their height becomes a
better predictor of their adult height
5Physical Development
- Growth is asynchronous different parts of the
body grow at different rates, and growth spurts
occur at different times in each body region
6Physical Development
- By 3 months,
- infants can sleep for longer periods before
waking up and are more likely to sleep through
the night - about half of their sleep time is in REM sleep.
this percentage decreases gradually (in adults,
only 20 of sleep is REM sleep)
7Motor Development
- Changes along with physical development
- Areas
- control over posture
- locomotion
- movements of the hands arms
- Video Examples on YouTube
- unsuccessful eye-hand coordination
www.youtube.com/watch?vCDH1ZWqQNlU - successful reach grasp http//www.youtube.com/
watch?vpZRIXMPBiMA - successful hand-hand transfer
http//www.youtube.com/watch?vcs5n8GekMC4
8Motor Development
9Motor Development
- A babys ability to perform a motor skill depends
on two factors - the difficulty of the task
- supports resources
in the
environment
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osette--4-months.htm
10Motor Development
- The difficulty of the task
- easier tasks are mastered first
- objects with graspable appendages vs. balls
cubes - small vs. large objects
- between 2 and 6 months, hand arm movements
- become more adapted to the size shape of an
object - become more coordinated with eye gaze
- are related to emotional state more likely to
point when alert attentive
11Motor Development
- Supports resources in the environment
- during social play with objects, adults help
infants to practice budding motor skills - adults hold infants in postures that are most
conducive to the execution of motor skills - upright babies attend more to the environment,
while supine babies are more likely to look at
their mothers - infants in upright supine positions are more
likely to reach for objects within their reach
12Motor Development Cultural differences
- In Mali, mothers put babies through workout
- training in sitting standing, muscle
stretching, suspending babies by their arms and
legs - many African babies have advanced motor
coordination compared to Caucasian babies - Navaho infants spend many hours strapped tightly
onto cradle boards - motor development is slower than that of other
groups
13Motor Development
- In summary
- motor and physical development in the first half
year is the result of a systems interaction
between infants, adults, and the environment. - the ability to perform a
coordinated task is based
on three systemic
factors
14Perceptual Development
- There is a major shift in perceptual development
between 2 and 5 months - infants begin to recognize
prefer meaningful
patterned
stimuli
15Perceptual Development Visual Pattern Perception
- The ability to perceive whole patterns increases
dramatically around 3 months - infants dishabituate when a totally novel figure
is introduced but not when a different view of
the familiar figure is shown - they scan figures drawn with dashed or dotted
lines as if they were drawn with a solid line
16Perceptual Development Visual Pattern
Perception Faces
- By 3 months, infants can
differentiate familiar from
unfamiliar faces prefer faces over
nonface stimuli
- They prefer faces from their own ethnic-racial
group over faces from a different group
attractive faces over less attractive ones - They can recognize a smile
17Perceptual Development Visual Perception of
Moving Objects
- Young infants look longer at moving faces and
patterns than at static ones - By 3-4 months, infants perceive moving objects as
whole units - By using movement cues, 4-month-old infants are
aware that objects are solid and that they take
up their own space
18Perceptual Development Visual Perception of
Moving Objects
- Infants also detect complex patterns of motion
- 3- to 5-month-olds prefer to look at normal
walkers or runners over inverted or biologically
impossible ones
19Perceptual Development
- the infant is able to perceive meaningful wholes
because human infants are predisposed to finding
the similarities and differences between things - (p. 276)
20Perceptual DevelopmentAuditory Perception
- Infants recognize and prefer their mothers
voices at birth - By 4 months, they prefer speech to nonspeech
sounds - Infants seem able to detect different emotions
expressed in the voice earlier than they can see
differences between facial expressions - in one study, 5-month-olds listened longer to
positive than to negative vocalizations smiled
more to approving voices, while they frowned more
to voices expressing disapproval
21Perceptual DevelopmentAuditory Perception
- Infants at 4 months like music
- they look more toward consonant than dissonant
music - they show more attention to maternal singing than
to motherese - they can remember songs for at least a week
without hearing them in between - they prefer being sung lullabies over recorded
music - they attend more to their own bodies during
lullabies and to the singer during play songs
22Perceptual DevelopmentCross-modal Perception
- The ability to integrate information coming from
at least two sensory modalities - by 3 months, infants can localize sounds better
if they have visual cues, compared to a sound
heard in the dark or made from behind a screen - after about 4 months, infants expect sights and
sounds to go together they perceive objects
as coherent wholes
23Cognitive Development
- Cognition the processing of perceived
information - includes learning, memory, and the ability to
mentally compare different situations
(similarities differences)
Between 2-5 months, important developments take
place in perceiving, habituating, learning, and
remembering
24Cognitive DevelopmentHabituation
- Between 2-5 months, infants improve in speed of
information processing - related to brain development ability to focus
on familiar tasks - by 3 months, infants usually habituate within 1½
to 2 minutes by 6 months, this drops to 30
seconds - Speed of habituation is an early index of
cognitive differences - it is a fairly good predictor over a period of 4
or 5 months (but not over longer terms)
25Cognitive DevelopmentHabituation Individual
Differences
- Infants who habituate fast at 3 months are more
likely to habituate fast at 6 months - faster habituators tend to have parents who
stimulate their ability to focus visual attention
are more efficient in their information
processing - slow habituators are more likely to have
perinatal risk factors, illness, malnutrition,
and poor state control
26Cognitive DevelopmentMemory
- From birth, infants have short-term memories
lasting several hours or days - Long-term memory by 3 months, infants can
remember situations for up to 2 weeks - this has been tested in the mobile experiment, by
Dr. Rovee-Collier and her colleagues
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27Cognitive DevelopmentMemory
- Mobile experiment
- Babies were placed in cribs with brightly colored
mobiles overhead trained for 15-20 minutes of
training - Experimenters decided that they would move the
mobile if the baby kicked with either the right
or the left foot - The mobile was moved more the harder the infant
kicked - Infants who were tested less than 2 weeks after
training managed to repeat the same leg movements - After a delay of more than 2 weeks, infants
behaved as if they had never seen the mobile
28Cognitive DevelopmentLong-Term Memory
- Studies suggest that infants can remember for an
indefinite period, so long as they continue to
receive non verbal reminders of the early
situation - In one study, infants were given a reminder 24
hours before 2 weeks had elapsed since their
original training - this was effective in helping the infants
remember the earlier procedure as much as 4 weeks
after training - However, when retested in different situations,
infants are less likely to remember the event - incl. different cribs same cribs with different
colored bumpers different mobiles different
odors or music in the room
29Cognitive DevelopmentLong-Term Memory
- Lack of stability in the environment may have
negative consequences for cognitive development - In a mobile-kicking study, the experimenters
changed the mobile during the training phase - Infants who did not cry when the mobile was
changed could easily reactivate the kicking, but
infants who cried could not
30Cognitive DevelopmentLong-Term Memory
- These findings
- suggest that infants remember whole situations,
including the emotions, and the specific sights,
sounds, and smells of the surrounding environment - suggest that infants have a sense of self-history
the experience that the past can be connected
to the present by means of recreating ones own
actions in similar situations - call for a reevaluation of the common observation
that people do not remember their experiences as
infants, a phenomenon known as infantile amnesia
31Cognitive DevelopmentLong-Term Memory
- Can we remember experiences from infancy?
- One would have to be in almost exactly the same
situation and the same emotional state as during
the original experience - Since this is unlikely, adults and older children
are unlikely to be able to retrieve early
memories for specific events - People may have memories of early infancy, but
because it is difficult to replicate the exact
context, they may be unable to locate the
memories in a specific time and place
32Cognitive DevelopmentLong-Term Memory
- Can we remember experiences from infancy?
- Reaching in the dark (Clifton et al.)
- 2½-year-olds who had the experience of reaching
for objects in the dark when they were 6 months
of age were better at this task than children who
did not have this experience, even though it is
unlikely that these children remembered the
actual experience of doing this when they were 6
months old - Still Face (Bornstein et al.)
- 2½-year-olds who had experienced a still-face
experiment at 5 months looked less at a photo of
the person who had done the still-face compared
to two other photos, while other 2½-year-olds
showed no preference between these faces
33Cognitive DevelopmentLong-Term Memory
- Can we remember experiences from infancy?
- These studies support the idea of participatory
memories (see Ch. 2) of early infancy, reported
by people during somatic awareness and
psychotherapeutic encounters - It may be possible to experience a feeling, an
odor, a body posture, or a pattern of movement
without remembering a specific time or place when
it first occurred
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34Cognitive Development Piagetian Perspectives
- Piaget viewed infant actions as adaptations to
the environment that involve the whole infant - Sensorimotor Stage I (newborn period)
- the majority of the infants actions are in the
form of reflexes to adapt to the environment - Sensorimotor Stage II (about 1 to 5 months)
- infants begin to act more purposefully
they are able
to recognize the
connections between their own
behavior
events in the environment
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35Cognitive Development Piagetian Perspectives
- Sensorimotor Stage II (about 1 to 5 months)
primary circular reactions - repetitive movements in which the infant focuses
on his or her own actions
- by 2 to 3 months, the baby can recognize simple
connections between behavior its effect, and
will repeat the same behavior many times, often
with great delight - infants at this stage do not appear to be
interested in the object for its own sake
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-3-months.htm
36Cognitive Development Piagetian Perspectives
- According to Piaget, the meaning of a particular
object or person to the infant is the action and
experience the child brings to it. - (p. 282)
For example, a rattle means graspable, seeable,
suckable
37Cognitive Development Piagetian Perspectives
- Sensorimotor Stage II (about 1 to 5 months)
- infants actions are not intended to explore the
object, but to experience the effects of their
own behavior - this suggests that infants are developing a sense
of self-agency, the feeling that they are a
causal agent that can successfully affect ones
own body environment - Later in this stage, infants begin to combine
different primary circular reaction schemes into
more unified behavior patterns - for example, visually guided reaching at about 4
months
38Cognitive Development Piagetian Perspectives
- Sensorimotor Stage II (about 1 to 5 months)
- Babies in Stage II have the ability for
cross-modal perception their memories are
integrated wholes of sights, sounds, smells, and
movements
- This suggests that infants have a sense of
self-coherence the feeling that they and the
objects around them are integrated whole that
have distinct boundaries
39Cognitive Development Piagetian Perspectives
- Sensorimotor Stage II (about 1 to 5 months)
- One aspect of self-agency and self-coherence at
this age is the experience of contingency (see
Ch. 5) - In one study (Watson, 1973), the movements of a
mobile were linked to an infants head presses on
an automatic pillow - if infants discovered that the mobile would move
with their head presses, they usually smiled and
cooed - if the pillow inconsistently rewarded head
presses, infants became frustrated and distressed
40Cognitive Development Piagetian Perspectives
- In sum,
- In early infancy, exploration, cognition, and
motor behavior are all part of the same
underlying developmental process - Primary circular reactions create powerful
motivations for babies to become engaged in the
environment - especially when adults create highly ritualized
and repetitive situations as in feeding, playing,
bathing, and diapering - Babies of this age do not enjoy deviations from
the routines, which makes it difficult for them
to adapt quickly to new caregivers
41Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- Three related topics
- emotion expression
- emotion experience the inner world of feelings
- emotion regulation self-control over emotions
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42Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- Distress, anger wariness
- One-month-olds functional expressions are
primarily related to the emotion of distress
crying, generally with eyes closed - By 4 months
- infants can still show distress
- they also cry with open eyes, looking at their
parent, an expression
that has been interpreted as anger - See Video Example at http//www.youtube.com/watch
?vnmgceSSnhTE - they also show wary or hesitant expressions by
turning or looking away from unpleasant or
confusing situations
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43Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- Attention enjoyment
- One-month-olds show a range of expressions
between alertness and drowsiness they have
difficulty switching attention - Around 2 months, infants become more complex
animated and better coordinated with events in
the environment - Infants learn cognitive tasks more slowly when
smiling, which shows that smiling corresponds to
a non-analytical emotional experience
44Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- After 2 months, babies also develop new
expressions of attention and enjoyment - look for longer periods can more easily shift
gaze from one thing to another (related to brain
development) - more complex expressions of attention
- suggests that the infant is also
developing
different attention-related
emotional experiences such as
concentration, excitement, and
astonishment
45Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- Attention enjoyment
- Smiling during face-to-face interaction develops
between 2-5 months - By 3 months, infants show multiple types of
smiles that communicate different positive
emotional experiences
non-Duchenne smile
Duchenne smile
- Duchenne smiles are likely to occur during
mother-infant face-to-face play when the infant
is held upright and is able to see the mother
smiling and talking
46Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- Attention enjoyment
- The play smile an extremely wide-open mouth and
dropping of the jaw is observed when infants
are held closer to the mother, kissed, or tickled
- About 15 of smiling is followed immediately by
looking away from the social partner - Some researchers have interpreted this as an
early manifestation of coyness, an emotion that
may indicate an awareness of self in interaction
with others (Reddy, 2000)
47Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- Attention enjoyment
- During the first 2 months, vocalizations are of
three sorts cry, discomfort, and vegetative - After 2 months, two kinds of non-distress
vocalizations appear - Speech-like sounds, such as cooing, are produced
in the front of the mouth and have a more
resonant quality increase between 2 and 5
months - Video Example http//www.youtube.com/watch?vHTjI
XHlB-m0 - Non-speechlike sounds produced in the back of
the mouth, lack projection, and have a more nasal
quality decline between 2 and 5 months
48Emotional Development Emotional Expression
Experience
- According to the dynamic systems theory of
emotion (see Ch. 2), emotion is closely related
to the social communication system - For example, different types of communication
(e.g., different types of play) require different
forms of facial communication will be
accompanied by different types of internal
feelings - In specific types of communicative situations,
infants show organized patterns of expressive
movements - e.g., positive engagement, passive withdrawal,
active protest
49Emotional Development Emotional Regulation
- During the first 4 months, increases in emotion
regulation are shown by - a decrease in crying
- an ability to easily shift gaze from one thing to
another - mastery of continuous and repeated bouts of
smiling - smiling is a relaxation response, and it seems to
be a way of reducing arousal without looking away
from the situation. - Infants can now handle a wider variety of
stimulation with more abrupt changes
50Emotional Development Emotional Regulation
Contributors to emotion regulation
- sensorimotor skills
- infants can calm themselves when they can get
their hand into their mouth keep it there - movements such as reaching for an object can calm
them down - caregivers
51Emotional Development Emotional Regulation
- A small percentage of infants has a regulatory
disorder - disturbances of sleep, feeding, state control,
sensory and perceptual processing, and
self-calming - these infants may be diagnosed with autism or
other developmental disorders - untreated children show more emotional and social
problems such as depression and aggression
52Emotional Development Emotional Regulation
- From a dynamic systems point of view, emotion
regulation is the result of both infant and adult
contributions and the unfolding of the
parent-infant relationship around regulatory
issues - (p. 290)
53Social Development
- Young infants show the widest range of emotion
expressions in the company of adults - infants are more likely to smile, vocalize, and
make relaxed arm movements with responsive adults
than with peers, inanimate faces, or animate or
inanimate toys - Adults adapt themselves to infants
54Social Development The Effects of Infants on
Adult Behavior
- Exaggeration
- adults tend to exaggerate aspects of
their speech body movement
- Slowing down simplification
- each action is held longer than with an adult
- particular syllables are prolonged and speech is
slower, giving it a melodic or singsong quality - adults reduce the complexity of their behavior
and their speech when talking to infants
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55Social Development The Effects of Infants on
Adult Behavior
- Rhythm and repetition
- adults may say the same word or phrase many times
with minor variations or make a series of
exaggerated head nods punctuated with a clap or a
vocalization - adults use different melodic contours to
prohibit, elicit attention, encourage infant
participation, encourage imitation, approve and
soothe - exaggeration, slowing down, rhythm, and melody in
speech are called infant-directed (ID) speech
(motherese)
56Social Development The Effects of Infants on
Adult Behavior
- Matching and Attunement
- although infants can imitate adults, adults
imitate babies much more they may match infant
vocal sounds, pitches, rhythms, facial
expressions, body movements, and so on - in attunement (Stern, 1985), the adults behavior
is similar to the infants but not an exact copy - for example, the infant may shake his or her arm
up and down in a rhythmical motion the parent
may respond in a different modality, such as
vocalizing yea-yea-yea-yea in exactly the same
rhythm as the babys arm movements
57Social Development The Effects of Infants on
Adult Behavior
- Turn Taking
- protoconversation in the early months, adults
fill in the natural pauses of the infants
actions with their own actions, creating the
appearance of turn taking (M.C. Bateson, 1975
Trevarthen, 1977) - between 4 and 6 months, infants begin to shift to
a more interactive mode of behavior they learn
to wait until the adult pauses before beginning
their own actions
58Social Development The Effects of Infants on
Adult Behavior
- Frames (Fogel, 1993) regularly recurring
communication routines - frames that emerge during this period are social
games like face-to-face play, tickle and other
tactile games, peekaboo, and frames for playing
with toy objects - there are also frames for caregiving such as
bedtime, bathing, and feeding routines - parents and infants develop frames that
are unique to their
relationship
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59Social Development Individual differences
between infants
- Adults are drawn to
- infant vocalizations that are relaxed and
resonant and have greater pitch contours. - facial features that have babylike
characteristics, such as large eyes, a round
face, thin eyebrows, and a small nose bridge - attractive infants
- in one study, mothers with less attractive
infants were more attentive to other people
besides the infant were more likely to spend
time in caretaking rather than affectionate
behavior
60Social Development Individual differences
between infants
- Gender differences
- with girls, mothers and fathers are more likely
to comment on the
present situation the
infants current state - with boys, they comment more on absent or
future events - mothers of boys stimulate them more in general,
while mothers of girls are more likely to stroke
and caress their infants
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61Social Development Individual differences
between infants
- Expressiveness
- studies have shown that infants who are less
expressive are actually more aroused by
stimulation - low-expressive infants tend to have higher heart
rates, higher cortisol, and higher muscle tension
- these children have been referred to as inhibited
- they are physiologically predisposed to be highly
responsive to stimulation but tend to withdraw
from stimulation rather than express signs of
engagement or enjoyment
62Cultural DifferencesIn adult-infant communication
- A pattern of close physical contact and rapid
response to crying (called attachment parenting)
is common among hunting and gathering cultures - for instance, Elauma infants spend almost all
their time in physical contact with an adult
adults (physically) respond more often and more
quickly to infant crying than British parents - more egalitarian societies seem
to promote
closer and more lasting
contact with infants
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63Cultural DifferencesIn adult-infant communication
- In the West
- we try to affect sleeping, feeding, and
interactive social behavior from an early age - we want our babies to be scheduled, to smile, and
not to cry - we encourage independence through teaching
behaviors leading to infant socialization - In Japanese and Native American cultures, adults
believe that infants are precious close to God - infants should be kept quiet not influenced by
adults until they begin to make some of their own
initiatives (around 6 months)
64Cultural DifferencesIn adult-infant communication
- Japanese vs. U.S. mothers
- spend less time in physical contact with their
babies when awake, although they sleep with
babies at night - hold, rock, bounce, touch, and kiss their babies
less - tend to use more negative vocalizations
throughout the day, and use more nonsense sounds
and baby talk during play (vs. sentences adult
words) - are more likely to talk about how to incorporate
objects into social play than to label objects
65Effects of Adult Behavior on InfantsContingent
Responsiveness
- From 2 months of age, babies seem highly
sensitive to how others interact with them - when responses are contingent, infants tend to
smile, coo, and look more at the adults - when responses are noncontingent, infants are
more likely to fuss, cry, or look away - infants also look and smile more
when adults are producing
exaggerated behavior,
such as motherese
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66Effects of Adult Behavior on Infants
Experimental disturbances of play frames
- When play frames are disrupted, infants smile and
gaze less during the interaction - In one type of study, infants and mothers are
viewing videotaped images of one another. The
researchers show the infant a videotape of the
mother that was made on an earlier occasion, so
that she is not contingent with the infants
behaviors - In another type of study, peekaboo games are
played in a disorganized way, such as by saying
peekaboo before covering the face or not
uncovering the face at the expected time
67Effects of Adult Behavior on Infants
Experimental disturbances of play frames
- The still-face procedure the experimenter asks
the mother to be silent nonexpressive - Some babies continue to smile and look at the
mother for a few seconds then they stop smiling
and look away - If the still face goes on for more than a few
minutes, the baby becomes increasingly distressed
and withdrawn. - When mothers are asked to resume their normal
interactions, most of the infants begin to cry if
they have not cried already - The same effects are observed in different
cultures and with both mothers and fathers
68Effects of Adult Behavior on Infants
Experimental disturbances of play frames
- The Still-Face Procedure
- At 3 to 4 months, infants are more distressed at
the still face than at separation from the mother - The still-face suppresses the parasympathetic
(relaxation) nervous system increases cortisol - When mothers touch their infants during the still
face, the effect of the still face on the infant
is significantly less - If mothers are more contingently responsive
during the normal play episodes, infants recover
more quickly show less physiological
suppression of the parasympathetic and cortisol
systems
69Effects of Adult Behavior on Infants Effects of
maternal depression stress
- Depression occurs in 10-13 of women following
childbirth - Infants of depressed mothers
- are more likely to be fussy, to show negative
facial expressions, to have low levels of
physical activity, and to be withdrawn - have higher levels of cortisol
- have brain asymmetries indicative of a withdrawn
mood state - Effects on infants are more likely if the
depression lasts long the infants have few
opportunities to interact with nondepressed adults
70Effects of Adult Behavior on Infants Effects of
maternal depression stress
- Mothers who are stressed after birth often
over-arouse their babies do not recognize
infant cues to slow down or to change behavior - this behavior creates stress and physiological
arousal for the baby, who begins the neuroception
patterns of flight or freeze - this in turn makes the mother more anxious and
more insistent, creating a mutually escalating
spiral of chase-and-dodge and physiological and
emotional dysregulation - left untreated, these dyads go on to develop an
insecure attachment relationship (see Ch. 8)
71Effects of Adult Behavior on Infants
- In summary
- During play frames, parents modify their behavior
so that infants can most readily appreciate
infants smiling and gazing encourage the parents
to continue - The mutual influence is co-regulated and dynamic
- the effects of one partner on the other can only
be determined by looking at individual
differences between infants (such as infants who
are difficult) or parents (such as maternal
depression) or during experimental perturbations
of adult behavior
72Self-AwarenessThe Sense of an Ecological Self
- The ecological self is characterized by
- Self-agency the sense that one is capable of
generating ones own actions and expecting that
these self-generated actions will have
consequences - Self-coherence the sense of being a whole
physical entity with boundaries and limitations - Self-affectivity is the sense of having inner
emotional feelings that routinely go together
with specific experiences - Self-history is the sense of enduring, of having
a past, of going on even through changes, as when
one acts and feels similar ways with familiar
people or in familiar situations
73Self-AwarenessThe Sense of an Ecological Self
- By 3 ½ months, infants begin to watch their hands
moving in front of them they feel their arms
and hands at the same time - it is likely that this cross-modal experience
gives the infant a sense of self-recognition
through self-coherence
- Young infants explore their own bodies, feeling
the touching hand the part that is being
touched - In the first few hours of life, newborns touch
their own head in an ordered sequence beginning
with the mouth, then moving to the face, head,
ear, nose, and eyes
74Self-AwarenessThe Sense of an Ecological Self
- The ecological self is also experienced in
relation to the social environment - interacting with another person, it is possible
to feel the part of the interaction that comes
from the self in comparison to that part
contributed by the other - This kind of participatory co-regulated
relationship with another person also gives the
infant information about the other person in
relation to the self, a sense of intersubjectivity
75Family and Society
- Family systems theory each member of the family
is a part of a feedback system with every other
family member - when families have three or more members,
the relationship between two
of them can
affect the third and vice versa - The birth of a baby brings major changes for a
family - after a child is born, parents must learn to cope
with a lot of new conditions, including a total
alteration of lifestyle, lack of sleep, and the
adjustment of the marital relationship to include
new family members
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76Family and Society Success in the Transition to
Parenthood
- New parents must address four type of problems
- The energy demands associated with infant care,
such as loss of sleep and extra work resulting in
fatigue - New parenthood places stress on the marital
relationship - The responsibility of caring for and rearing a
child - Parents must cope with the additional costs of
raising a child, in the form of food, clothing
and education
77Family and Society Success in the Transition to
Parenthood
- Adult developmental factors
- the adults relationships with their own parents,
prior experience with child care, self-esteem and
belief in self-efficacy as a parent readiness
to have children - Concurrent factors
- the marital relationship, other family members,
the amount of social support available to the
parents, nonfamily factors, such as income and
job satisfaction
78Family and Society Success in the Transition to
Parenthood
- Marital quality
- Predicted by prenatal marital quality couples
who have the most conflicts prenatally also have
the most postnatally - Equality of role relationships before childbirth
predicts marital satisfaction after birth - Positive and warm relationship with ones own
parents - A postbirth experience that is not more difficult
than anticipated
79Family and Society Success in the Transition to
Parenthood
- Mothers ability to parent and to cope with child
rearing is predicted by high level of marital
satisfaction the amount of father involvement - For fathers, marital satisfaction is associated
with more positive attitudes toward the parenting
role and with more time spent with the infant - Mens involvement in infant care
depends primarily on social
factors, such as
marriage, job, and social
acceptability of parenting
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80Experiential Exercises The ecological self
- As humans, we can see part of our bodies in our
field of vision at all times - Try this by closing one eye and looking straight
ahead you will see your own nose - Thus, whenever you perceive your environment, you
perceive yourself. Perceiving the environment is
co-perceiving yourself. - The ecological self is the sense of self as
situated in the environment. - This sense of self is still present in adults,
but much more in the background of experience.
You can explore your ecological sense of self
during everyday activities.
81Experiential ExercisesMutual Gazing
- This exercise is about the parental role the
infant experience during face-to-face interaction - The class is divided up into pairs who do not
know each other very well. Pairs sit on the floor
or in chairs facing each other - Students will play the role of either the parent
or the child (2 min.) - parents your responsibility is to witness the
child with a steady gaze. - children you can do anything you want feel free
to look at your parent or look away as much as
you need or want to - Repeat the same process, only this time the adult
acts distracted by something in the room - Repeat the same process, only this time the adult
acts intrusive, trying to get the babys
attention. - Change roles
- Sit in pairs discuss the experience