Title: Can I Make My Spouse Move Out?
1Can I Make My Spouse Move Out?
- A Guide for Divorcing Couples
2Your Home is Usually Marital Property
3- If you and your spouse own or
- are living in a home together
- then the house is usually considered marital
property
4- There may be limited exceptions
- to this rule if you owned the home prior to the
marriage and your spouse never contributed to
paying the bills or the upkeep on the home
5However, it is very rare if not almost unheard
of for a family home to be considered separate,
rather than marital, property
6- If the home is marital property and if both
your names are on the mortgage and deed- then you
both have a legal claim to the house and you
cannot just make your spouse leave
7Dont Change the Locks
8- Since your home is usually considered marital
property, - you generally have no legal right to unilaterally
bar your spouse from entering the house
9- Unless you have a court order that says your
spouse should not be in the home and has no right
to be there, - do not try to change the locks or prevent your
spouse from coming into the home
10Unless you have a court order that says your
spouse should not be in the home and has no right
to be there, do not try to change the locks or
prevent your spouse from coming into the home
11- Barring your spouse from the house without legal
justification - can backfire on you during a litigated divorce
12Is it a Good Idea to Leave the Home?
13- The law says that leaving the home should not
have an impact on who gets the house in a divorce
14If you are trying to make your spouse leave, this
information may make him or her more agreeable to
vacating the house
15- However, while the law doesnt penalize someone
for leaving the family home, arguments are
sometimes made that the person who has remained
in the house with the kids during the divorce
should just stay there for consistency
16Fear of this type of argument may make the spouse
reluctant to leave the house for fear of
jeopardizing a property or custody claim
17- Talk to your spouse about what leaving the house
would mean and how it would factor in to your
divorce settlement
18Has There Been Abuse or Threats of Abuse?
19- While making your spouse leave in a normal
divorce is difficult or impossible, - things may be different if your spouse is violent
or abusive and/or is putting you or your kids at
risk
20- If your spouse is abusive and you have clear
evidence of this, then you may be able to go to
court with this information and the court could
order your spouse to leave the home during the
divorce process
21Getting a Court Order to Force Your Spouse to
Leave
22- If you can prove abuse or if you have a credible
reason why your spouse needs to leave the home, - then an experienced attorney can help you to
petition the court to get an order to make your
spouse leave
23Your spouse must comply with a court order to
leave the home
24Your spouse must comply with a court order to
leave the home
If your spouse wont go, you can secure help from
law enforcement to enforce the court order
25Your spouse must comply with a court order to
leave the home
If your spouse wont go, you can secure help from
law enforcement to enforce the court order
Your spouse could also face contempt of court for
refusal to obey a court order to vacate the home
26Protecting the Children
27- Protecting your kids is likely the first priority
during the divorce process
28- If the situation is an abusive one and your
spouse will not leave the home, - then it makes sense for you to leave
- (you can always get a court order to go back)
29- In situations where there is no abuse, children
could still be affected if his/her parents remain
living in the same home while divorcing
30If your spouse wont leave and you continue to
cohabitate, be sure to be civil at all times in
front of the kids
31- One argument you can make to your spouse to help
bolster the chance of getting him/her to leave is
the effect that the continued presence in the
home would have on the kids
32Coming to An Agreement On the Home
33- As the divorce process progresses, you and your
spouse may come to an agreement on what happens
to your home
34- If you and your spouse agree that you should
remain in the home, then it may be advisable to
legally transfer the ownership of the property
(and obligation for the mortgage) into your name
alone
35- If the divorce settlement agreement says the
property is yours and/or you have transferred
ownership solely into your name, then the house
becomes yours and you can make your spouse leave
it if you wish
36After the Divorce
37- If your spouse refuses to leave despite the
divorce resulting in you having the full
ownership of the house, then your spouse could be
considered to be trespassing
38- Once you are divorced and a decision has been
made that the property is yours alone, the spouse
no longer has any claim than any other stranger
and you can make your spouse leave whenever you
would like
39If you are considering entering into a divorce we
invite you to contact our firm to request a free
consultation
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