Title: How to Solve Relationship Problems with Relationship Counselor
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2Lack of understanding You love your Partner and
get the same amount of love back. There is Cosmo
energy or light that bonds each of us and tear
apart for a better reason. Whether you feel
degraded, humiliated, attacked, hampered,
neglected, disrespected, pressurized, confused...
we always have something to blame others,
something that we live badly in a relationship or
several. And, lets say it our natural
tendency to be human is to transfer the
responsibility for the problem to the other,
until sometimes feeling downright persecuted by
life. Why he/she left me? However, it is
common to find that the two protagonists suffer
as much from the Relationship Problems as the
other. So there must be something to do on each
side of the rope. And it is not all a matter of
luck. Sometimes the relationship is
uncomplicated, natural, and we would like it to
always be like this. But most of the time it
takes a bit of work. And so that difficulties do
not become problems, we need to call upon
certain skills, even knowledge, to defuse
tensions. These capacities, each of us, can
develop them. You just have to want it. It could
be because of something that you cant change or
handle. If parents dont agree or at the end,
the demands increases.
3Relationship Problems V/S Destructive
Relationship There are many cases in India where
escape is the only valid option that people get.
And before dealing with what you can do to
improve Relationship Problems, I would love you
to make a little reminder. If you are facing
excessive behavior, if you feel ill, as
questioned about what you are, run away, protect
yourself. You should consult with a Relationship
Counselor who helps to solve problems in
relationship. In the same way, if you witness
this situation, do not think for three hours,
keep your eyes open and raise the alarm. We
should under no circumstances turn a blind eye to
a relationship in which it undermines the
physical or mental integrity of one of the two
protagonists. It is not becoming a gesturing
vigilante, but of not letting the evil spread and
reacting as we would like someone to do if it was
us or one of our loved ones who were concerned.
4Bad Communication Until you will not tell the
other person whats in your breaking, how will it
be a great relationship? If you dont like cats
and your partner does, then how will you with
cats. When you have identified the issues at
stake for their point of view, you will already
be better able to communicate with each other.
With communication, I mean, making your message
heard. Why? Because you will have identified the
argument that could hit and solve the problem by
modifying the relationship. Be cool, this
assumes that you concerned with customer
satisfaction. Otherwise, choose another common
ground. Most times, it is better to believe that
you are advancing to send a congruent message,
the first step toward assertiveness. Finally, in
a Relationship Problems, it will be necessary to
take care of the form of your speech. Again, not
to hide your emotions. If you are angry, say it -
the other sides mirror neurons pick it up
anyway! But rather to make your message heard.
5Same Relationship Problems Do you have the
feeling of always having the same Relationship
Problems? If you are caught in a Relationship
Problems identify the game that is taking place
and ask yourself if it looks like something that
you have already experienced. Ritu Singal
shares her boss who made her go crazy never
answering her questions. The more she tried to
pinch him to question him about a file, the
more he became impossible to find. And she found
herself alone in stressing decisions to be made
while knowing that he would find criticism
whatever she did. When she observed this funny
game, she remembered her relationship with a
former colleague and that with her mother who
worked on the same principle. You can continue
playing this game or to stop it. It all depends
on the benefits you get. But if you continue, you
can no longer call it a relationship problem it
will just be a mode of operation of your
relationship, with advantages and
disadvantages. Everyone is then free to put them
into practice or not, to adopt this state of mind
or not, but I believe that when group work
becomes essential to innovate and learn to manage
relationships is one of the key soft skills to
gain.
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